Miss Mu is the girl I met during my trip. We had a good talk and talked a few more words.
She said that she was out for fun, lost her job and didn't know what to do for the time being, so she went out for a walk.
When I asked the reason, I realized that she was forced to leave her job, not resigned voluntarily.
It seems that a project of their company was screwed up at that time, and the customer asked for an explanation. Even if it is solved, it will be discussed, but no one will bear it.
Sister Liu, an elderly colleague, said to Miss Mu privately, I have been very kind to you these days. I didn't investigate your negligence and details when I first came, because I think you are quite like yourself and so simple and kind, so I like you very much.
Miss Mu was delighted to hear this. She kept saying thank you and smiled brightly.
Then Sister Liu said, Look, you are so young and capable that many people envy you. Sister Liu is different. Sister Liu is so old, and there is such a large family to spend. It's hard to start over anywhere, so I just want to continue working in the company.
Miss Mu doesn't talk much, and she is the kind of nice guy. She said that at that time, she listened quietly to Sister Liu as usual, but she didn't expect that Sister Liu's next words would directly determine her stay.
Sister Liu said, look, there is such a big problem in the company now. If you don't give the customer a statement, the customer will definitely not give up, which will make the whole group feel bad. If someone takes the responsibility, the cooperation will continue, and customers and companies will be happy. You are so talented, you must be a hot potato everywhere, and maybe you will have better development.
Wood girl heard Liu Jie say so, understand the meaning of Liu Jie. Thinking about the situation of colleagues and Liu Jie who have been together for so long, she readily agreed, saying that Liu Jie can rest assured that I will bear it. If you keep doing well here, you and the company will get better and better.
After listening, Liu Jie went on to say that you really don't have any big development prospects here. Staying for a long time can only be harmful to you like Liu Jie. You don't know how blue it is outside until you go out. This is also for your own good. We are all equally stupid and kind, and we are all thinking of the company. Besides, Sister Liu is really good for you.
Sister Liu also said that you will be sad when you leave for a while, so don't blame me. Think about what you would do from my point of view.
Mu girl said that her promise is actually quite heartfelt. Although she will be sad, she thinks it is good to make the company and customers happy. But later, Sister Liu always stressed what would happen if she didn't leave, saying that it might be better if she left, calling her stupid and kind. Wood girl know Liu Jie is for the best, but the in the mind is uncomfortable, always feel clearly such a simple thing, but like what was imposed.
Mu Girl said that she didn't really care about or consider the development emphasized by Liu Jie, but Mu Girl didn't say anything except thank you.
Ode to Joy. Dad was right. Don't argue with fools.
I don't blame you for not understanding me; I don't explain, and you can't blame me for being silent.
In fact, spiritual kidnapping not only occurs in the workplace, but also among generations, friends and couples.
Whose youth is not confused? Li Lin Tianjiao has always loved astronomy, but her mother said that the finance department in Tsinghua is the place where she should go. So she said her dream is to study finance.
She wants to go to the astronomy exhibition. She secretly listened to the tape sent by Gao Xiang ... It can be seen that she still wants to be like herself.
It was not until she learned that her parents divorced and Gao Xiang left that she realized what she had neglected for "a good girl", including her friends, younger brother and herself.
Gao Xiang's sky map in class always made her feel less constrained, bravely broke away from that kidnapping, and finally became a famous astronomer. Only a few years apart, can he and Gao Xiang meet again?
My friend Ye Zhen said that her husband Liu Dami always said that his friend kidnapped him mentally, just like reading an e-book. Liu Da rice is read at noon, after dinner and during lunch break. My friend was unhappy, but he couldn't convince Liu Mi, so my friend competed with himself.
Liu Dami was even more unwilling and began to shout, you think you are doing me good, but you are actually controlling me. When I saw the e-book, I was sure. Why should I follow your plan? If you do this, I will not be free and unhappy. How can I be healthy without freedom and unhappiness?
But after all, sometimes when Liu Dami peeks at e-books after Z falls asleep at night, he is too scared to move as soon as I turn over.
I waited for them to do it, but the more I listened, the more abused I became.
In fact, many things in this world are indistinguishable, there are good and bad, and kindness is not necessarily kindness.
Everyone has their own ideas. You impose your ideas on others, achieve your goals in the name of "doing yourself good", and make a decision without asking clearly. This is actually a kind of spiritual kidnapping.
Sometimes those who hold good things and shout for your own good are actually just looking for a package for their actions. Sometimes people who keep nagging really do it for your own good.
We are all afraid of spiritual kidnapping, but sometimes the spiritual kidnapping of our loved ones is our sense of existence.
If you can, may your heart be strong enough not to be kidnapped by the spirit, and may you be too cold to be a good kidnapper.