There is a bachelor in his fifties next to me. From my personal point of view, he is miserable now. As for his opinion of himself, we don't know.
This man should not be alone, but because of his own will, which caused today's predicament. When he was young, his parents both worked in the county, and his father's ability was not small. He found him a daughter-in-law, who settled in the countryside and became a staff member. In the days after marriage, this man has nothing to worry about. He always says that what the woman likes is not him, but his family conditions and social status. So the two parted ways. The second and third semesters are still the same problem. Today, I am alone. Every time I get drunk, I drown my sorrows. The 80-year-old mother has to take care of him to eat and drink, and all the brothers have their own families. They are all only children and can only be alone. I was hospitalized for illness a while ago. My sister cried in front of the bed and said, "He has no children, so sad."
If you are a responsible person, you should not be a Dink family. For both parents, it is a kind of depression. They have raised their children, but they have no offspring. They can't see clearly until they die, because they are worried about what to do when their children are old. From the perspective of national development, at least one child should be born, from the perspective of national responsibility, from the perspective of family satisfaction.
Being single and dink were cool when they were young, and they didn't worry about their children's trifles.
I think people still have to work hard for their children all their lives. This is because happiness is brewed in bitterness.
Kang Hui, a famous host, is a cluster of Dink. Both husband and wife are famous CCTV hosts, who gave up the choice of not having children for their careers. When her mother died, she regretted not seeing her grandson, which made Kang Hui very miserable.
There are also such examples in our lives. My husband and cousin are both in their early forties. They have a house, a car, income and a decent job, but none of them she likes. We are all worried that she will be old and lonely.
It doesn't matter when you are young, but what's wrong with you when you are old. There is a clear difference between having children and not having children.
Therefore, I don't approve of being single and dink. Having a baby is the most important and happiest thing.
If it's time for a person to get married, start a family and have children, just like completing a task, he must complete these life events step by step and refuse to be single and dink.
Single people, for whatever reason, are lonely all their lives.
Everyone else is a fireworks family.
Only single people, alone, alone in front of the lonely lamp, how can they be lonely?
When my neighbor was young, he didn't get married for some reason and remained single.
Usually, it's ok. There are colleagues at work, friends after work, one person is full, and the whole family is not hungry. More chic, which is also enviable.
However, every holiday, especially the traditional festivals in China-Spring Festival and August 15th, when thousands of families get together, he walks alone and looks much older.
People are social animals, although with the progress of science and technology, there are many ways to solve loneliness in games and DVDs. But the feeling of loneliness will follow, and the erosion of the heart and bones will not be resolved.
Our traditional blessing is full of children and grandchildren. The family is sitting around, happy, filial to their father, children and grandchildren around their knees, and enjoying family happiness.
But no child chooses not to have children. In people's eyes, Dink is a bit unconventional.
Let's imagine that when he is old with two incomes and no children, he spends a lot of money living in a luxury nursing home, but watches other people's children and grandchildren visit him regularly and no one takes care of him.
When the double income has no children, he is old, weak and bullied, and he should be helpless.
Everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, and outsiders can't say anything, let alone make irresponsible remarks. But if you ask me, it's best to have children and leave your good genes in the world. This should be a very happy thing!
Everyone depends on himself, and his wife has the problem of leaving one after another. As for children, that is even more unreliable. The more you argue, the less you care.
Being single Dink is an attitude towards life, and sometimes it is also a kind of helplessness. Better than divorce, loss of independence and so on.
Smart people do calculations early. We have a big brother here, divorced in middle age, and his son and wife have gone to other places. As for the hidden story, he doesn't say it, and it's hard for others to ask. It's just his wife.
This eldest brother is popular, loyal and deeply hurt. No one will enter the besieged city again. He recognized his friend's son as his adopted son and got along well with him. After his son was born, he gave the house to his grandson. He is also a relative, who can not take care of his old age without conscience.
As he grows older, he feels more and more kind and cheerful. He drinks two or two glasses of wine every day and is very happy.
Really, life is full of plants and trees. Isn't that what it is? Why take it seriously? Why bother yourself.
Not bad.
I think this generation comes and goes naked. As long as you are healthy and have no serious illness, whether you are single or Dink, you can live a healthy and happy life without a miserable old age.
Whether you are bitter or not has nothing to do with whether you are single or not, but whether you have money or not is the key. For example, there was a single Dink who had made all kinds of psychological and material preparations including accidents before he was 40 years old. I was shocked by his comprehensive and meticulous plan. Of course, the point is that he is quite rich and has excellent relations. I bless her and bless him!
Agreed! I am a middle-aged man now, and my son just went to college, and suddenly there are no children around, which is quite frustrating. I suddenly went to kidney calculi a few days ago, and my stomach hurts badly. There is no one around me to rely on. I went to the hospital reluctantly, and I needed someone by my side in the process. All kinds of hospital procedures and physical and mental pain make me feel that I can do everything by myself when I am young. Once you are in poor health and need someone, you can't help yourself. You can't resist the past without being strong. I know better that when you get old, you must live closer to your son.
I used to hear old people say that living is a child's life. That makes sense. Children are the continuation of life. The moon has ups and downs, and people have joys and sorrows. People will always prosper and weaken. In the final analysis, affection is the ultimate destination of people.