1, learn to fully understand each other, and don't be attracted by the gentleman's demeanor temporarily shown by the other party. No one in the world is perfect. If a boy behaves perfectly in front of you, you need to be vigilant and stay awake, because the perfect state you see is mostly an illusion that the other person pretends to be in front of you.
So how do we know if the other party is pretending? I think the best way is to get along patiently and observe patiently. A person can pretend for a week or a month, but I believe he can never pretend for half a year. As long as you get along carefully for a few months, he will show the cloven foot.
2. In the process of getting along, you should learn to reject each other appropriately, have your own ideas and bottom line when getting along, and don't let yourself rely too much on each other. No matter how much you like each other, don't lose your thoughts and bottom line. In the process of getting along, two people should be humble and understand each other, instead of just letting one person give in to each other and constantly change himself. Therefore, when the other party makes an uncomfortable request, we should learn to refuse the other party at the first time and show our embarrassing attitude to the other party. I believe that if the other person really likes you, he is unwilling to force you to change your mind. If the other person insists that you accommodate him, then I don't think he really cares about you and likes you. Let's end this unfair relationship as soon as possible.
3. Constantly improve yourself in life and make yourself more excellent and confident. I believe that excellent people will always attract excellent people. It is very rare to meet a sincere and beautiful relationship, so before meeting the right person, it is better to improve yourself and make yourself better by learning skills. For example, we can improve our self-cultivation and eyesight through reading, and we can have an excellent and healthy body through exercise and fitness. I believe that when we hone ourselves to become better, even better people will be unconsciously attracted by our personal charm, so we don't need anxiety and anxiety. Before meeting him, we should wait patiently and cultivate ourselves better and better. I believe that one day he will come to us.
Treat feelings instead of abuse, have your own opinions and persistence, and don't lose your true self in order to satisfy others.