Do whatever you want-this is the expression of free will and inner desire. People always like to show that they are different and seek to meet their psychological and social needs. Therefore, willfulness has become the lifestyle pursued by young people now. However, does this lifestyle have such a beautiful impact on individuals and society? The following will discuss this problem from different angles.
1, mental health: rejecting willfulness
Freedom is often accompanied by willfulness and self-indulgence However, the negative impact of this practice on mental health is remarkable. More and more people feel anxious, lonely and helpless. The root of all this comes from the loss of faith in reality and the lack of necessary cherish and pay in the process of pursuing true happiness. It is necessary to cultivate the qualities of facing life bravely, coping with challenges tenaciously and carrying forward the spirit of unity, mutual assistance and dedication.
2. Social values: obey the rules?
Doing whatever you want often means ignoring the rules, which will not only affect yourself, but also cause neglect and infringement to society and others. Reasonable rule-making is helpful to standardize social order, fairness and justice, and at the same time, it also injects motivation and protection into public interests. Therefore, we should respect the rules, abide by the law, and play the role of morality and responsibility.
3. Self-improvement: patience and perseverance?
Arbitrary behavior does not necessarily bring long-term benefits. Thomas Roberts, a famous basketball coach from Iowa, once said in a training, "Good skills are accumulated through persistent practice and repeated training." Patience and perseverance to cultivate knowledge and quality are the real magic weapon for a person's success. Going with the flow may lead to lack of perseverance and miss the opportunity to be a better self.
4. Respect others: pay attention to social etiquette and culture.
Being spontaneous is easy to touch the bottom line of others, thus destroying equal and harmonious interpersonal relationships. Everyone has their own feelings and emotional needs, so we need to respect and be polite, abide by cultural norms, master social etiquette, and create a warm and harmonious atmosphere when communicating with others.
To sum up, the "follow one's inclinations" lifestyle should be based on such creeds as persisting in respecting oneself and others, paying attention to practical contributions and long-term interests, obeying rules, and cultivating humility. Otherwise, people may only regret to find that freedom is not the only criterion of the value system.