First, don't choose unhealthy love. For each of us, if we want to fall in love, then we must learn to find people who are consistent with our three views. Because if the three views are inconsistent, then two people will always quarrel, and this unhealthy love will cause very serious harm to our psychology. Many people don't want to fall in love after ending a love, because they feel the pain of falling in love and feel particularly uncomfortable. When I meet someone who has a secret crush, I dare not pursue it boldly, so Bian Xiao feels that this unhealthy love has caused us very serious harm. If it can be avoided, everyone should learn to avoid it.
Second, look at the state of love. If you feel very unhappy in love, then Bian Xiao suggests that we can discuss with each other appropriately, so that we can express our true thoughts. Don't bury all your thoughts in your heart, it's hard. I believe that after experiencing an unhealthy love, everyone will feel that they will never fall in love again in this life, which has a very serious impact on the concept of marriage and love. When we are in love, we must pay attention. If we feel that the other party hurts us deeply, then everyone can choose to break up.