The quality of students' reading has also attracted much attention. Parents have experienced everything in textbooks before, and they are also worried that there will be some bad content hidden in extracurricular books. If students watch it, there may be cognitive bias. A parent saw a book read by a child and felt that the content was somewhat inappropriate.
More and more young parents feel the same way about the pressure of students' further education, so they are gradually helping students to reduce their burden, attend less extra cram schools and do more quality training. Students have a holiday, and there is really no particularly rich itinerary. It is also good to read quietly at home for a while.
A generation has a generation's thinking concept, and a generation has a generation's living habits. Obviously, there are differences between our parents and our outlook on life, and there is a generation gap. So if you live with your parents after marriage, there will be some inconvenience. Of course, this is not because children don't like their parents, but because their living habits and thinking concepts are different, which easily leads to some unnecessary contradictions. Judging from the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, many families have frequent conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have lived together for too long, and under the same roof, daily necessities and various trivial matters will intersect. Coupled with some generation gap factors, it is difficult to maintain a harmonious family atmosphere. For example, it is normal for us young people to turn on the air conditioner 24 hours a day if conditions permit. But for many parents, because they are used to frugal life, they will think that it is too expensive to turn on the air conditioner, and even think it is a waste. In contrast, they are more accustomed to using fans or electric fans, stoves and so on. In this case, if we live with our parents for a short time (days or weeks), it may be nothing. After all, parents also want to leave the best for their children. However, if we live with our parents for a long time, our living habits will be a kind of luxury in their eyes. The longer we live, the more obvious the difference in living habits will be. In addition, after marriage, it may be easy for us men to adapt to living with our parents, but not necessarily for women. Even many women feel constrained and unable to adapt. Moreover, in most cases, after marriage, two people live in the man's house and have frequent contact with him. For the man, this is naturally his home, and there is no need to be at home. However, for the woman, she will feel that this is a relatively unfamiliar environment. In this living environment, there are family members such as mother-in-law and father-in-law. Because these family members are not related to her in essence, she will instinctively have a sense of distance from this living environment. For example, when eating, I am embarrassed to let go of eating. I will have a drink while eating, fearing that my mother-in-law will say it. I have to put up with it. During the weekend break, I even hesitated for a long time before I slept for a short time ... As for the man, because he has lived in this family since he was a child, he is more casual in this family, doing housework, not doing what he wants, and wearing whatever he wants. If you want to cross your legs, cross your legs ... so in contrast, if you live with your parents after marriage, the woman will feel a little constrained inside. How many women are uncomfortable living under this constraint? In order to get rid of this bondage, it is best not to live with parents for a long time after marriage.