Mom fell asleep, and then I looked at the bright red blood bag, and my eyes were wet ... Look at the blood bag carefully again: the blood donor is JUNG WOO, male. I have an impulse to find zhengyu and see zhengyu at once. I, I, I almost knelt down to give thanks. ...
However, where can I find it in the vast sea of people? Holding a bright red blood bag, I can hear his healthy heartbeat. ...
Thank you, Zheng Yu, for prolonging my mother's life ... I poured out my gratitude again and again. ...
I'm going to donate blood, too I have to go! I persuaded my mother to let me donate blood. Mom promised to let me go when I was discharged from the hospital. Junyu, I can't repay you personally, but I can only repay this human truth with my little blood; Use my little blood to save those mothers who are in danger, I hope they have worked hard all their lives. ...
However, no matter what, no amount of blood and expensive drugs can keep my mother. Finally one day, my mother left me. ...
My sky is falling ... but I'm still very grateful to JUNG WOO. Her blood donation extended her mother's life. My mother left, and my desire to donate blood and the pain of losing my mother tortured me at the same time. ...
When my mother left home for half a month, I resolutely went to the blood station and learned about the mortgage of my mother's blood (because my brother has been donating blood for three years in a row, and blood is free for relatives). There is no great man in the eyes of relatives, nor has he felt the greatness of his brother. Maybe someone has the same mentality as me, thinking strongly and thanking my brother.
When I came to the blood station with a pale face (I haven't fully recovered from my grief) and asked where to donate blood, a doctor elder sister pointed it out to me.
Go in and fill out the relevant forms. Just as I was preparing for the physical examination, the careful doctor found that I was so weak and pale and asked with concern: Can you do it? What happened? I said: nothing, just want to donate blood! But my tears came out. The doctor went out. Soon, an elderly female doctor came in and gently brought me a cup of hot milk: "Son, your state is not suitable for blood donation. Do you want to say something? "
I told my reasons with tears in my eyes, and the old doctor's eyes were red: "Son, go back first!"! You are too weak now, come back when you are well, ok! You can give it once a year when you are in good health! Go, go back! "
I insisted again and again, but was gently pushed out by the old doctor: "Go back, your current state, the blood quality will not be good, come back when you are not weak, oh!"
I came out helplessly and happened to meet the doctor who showed me the way. In desperation, she stopped again: "So soon, are you ready?" I silently shook my head. My sister asked again, "What's the matter? You look pale and exhausted! "
I briefly explained the reasons for my rejection with tears in my eyes. The doctor's elder sister sent me to the door of the blood station in tears and called a taxi for me: "Go home, you will donate blood one day!" " Take care of yourself, repay Jiuquan's mother and the good people in the world! "
When I was rejected, I tasted the true feelings of the world. ...
It is said that it is a materialistic age, but I deeply understand that there are still true feelings in the world. ...
Respondent: 59.56.53. * 2009- 10-23 12: 03
A white lie will not hinder honesty. A lie is called a lie because it is false, untrue and deceptive. If a person often lies in his mouth to deceive others, he will lose people's trust over time. Just like the children in "Lying Children", they cry "Wolf" every day, seeking excitement and happiness. When the wolf does come, he has to face it alone and bear it alone. No matter how much he shouts, it won't help, and no one will come to help him again. Because people who might come to help him are used to his yelling and think that he is "teasing you" again. It can be seen that lies hinder honesty But today we say "lies", and there is another attribute-goodwill. After adding this qualifier, the nature of lies has changed fundamentally. "White lies" are people's good wishes for things, a dialogue between people's kind hearts, the warmth of people comforting each other, and the tenderness revealed in people's hearts ... No one will investigate its credibility. People who hear a white lie will try to believe it even if they know it is a lie, and will not feel the hypocrisy of the liar, and sometimes they will be grateful from the heart. When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by a doctor, his parents, lover, children and all relatives will not directly tell him, "Life is hopeless" and "How long can I live in this world at most". Although all this is true, who will tell the truth to their already miserable relatives as cruelly as a judge sentenced a prisoner to death? At this time, everyone will form a United front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make patients full of hope for treatment and let patients spend the rest of their lives with peace of mind. Does this hinder honesty? When a dead child suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his loved ones, how can he explain to him where his loved ones have gone? We think the best way is: don't tell him the real situation for the time being, just say to go on a business trip in a distant place or study abroad. When the child is sensible and has a certain tolerance, he will tell the truth, and the child will understand the practices of his loved ones and will not be angry because he did not know the truth earlier. Don't such words also hinder the integrity! How I wish I could see my son for the last time when his mother was terminally ill and dying. However, my son can't come back, and he can't do a little filial piety for his old mother and take care of the mother who once broke his heart for his son. He regrets and misses it. The old mother understands her son very well and tells her relatives around her not to tell her distant son after she leaves and not to distract him. She should say that her condition is stable, reassure him and do her best for the country. Don't interfere with honesty with such white lies! Therefore, I insist that white lies not only do not hinder honesty, but also greatly enhance the friendship and feelings between people and have an indelible effect on social stability. I suggest that you use white lies when you should, and there is not much serious conflict with honesty. We know that people live in this society and bear many obligations, and sometimes there are contradictions between them. When one obligation overrides another, it is necessary to alleviate the other. Therefore, the essence of white lies is a more urgent and important obligation, and this obligation is at the expense of reducing the obligation of good faith. A long time ago, a philosopher in the west once said: There are only two things in this world that can deeply shake people's hearts: one is the splendid starry sky above us, and the other is the lofty moral principle in our hearts-honesty. Obviously, nothing is more beautiful and pure than spiritual beauty, and honesty is only one of the manifestations of inner beauty. I think it is not difficult for other students to see that since it is a lie, it will hinder honesty, and its utility and benefits will eventually be at the expense of honesty. Here I want to ask other students, when a person loses integrity, is his starting point still good? Please note that the theme of our debate today is whether white lies hinder honesty, not whether lies hinder honesty. First of all, if the Modern Chinese Dictionary explains that "lies" are untrue, it obviously has a neutral emotional color. Lying for different purposes will lead to very different results: one is to cheat by cunning and treacherous means for the purpose of harming others and benefiting themselves, which is malicious fraud and will inevitably lead to the decline of social morality and disorder of order. The other is to hide the truth for the benefit of others. It is a kind of concealment, which will make feelings more harmonious and society more harmonious. Therefore, good faith concealment and malicious fraud are very different from motivation to result, and cannot be confused. When the poor mother left the only meal for her child and concealed the fact that the child was still starving, do you still accuse the kind and noble maternal love of being "dishonest"? Second, what is "sincerity"? Honest and trustworthy. The ancients advocated "sincerity" and "faith" long ago, emphasizing the consistency of words and deeds and the unity of knowledge and action; The principle of good faith requires people to consciously abide by the law and be sincere and trustworthy. But none of them simply ask people to tell the truth 100%. It is extremely terrible to tell the truth regardless of the situation: can we tell our military information to the enemy during the war? Can you tell your business secrets to your competitors in the mall? Therefore, since the principle of good faith is not equal to the simplified 100% truth, the good faith concealment when necessary will not conflict with the principle of good faith. Thirdly, white lies, as a correct and friendly way of dealing with the world, are consistent with "honesty" in motivation, purpose and result. The significance of promoting honesty in society lies in cultivating people's noble moral sentiments and establishing mutual trust and mutual benefit among people, and those white lies full of goodwill and compassion are used to make feelings more harmonious, life more warm and society more harmonious. "The way of a university stops at perfection", and out of the same goodwill, the two are closely unified. To sum up, I would like to reiterate our views: First, lies can be divided into malicious fraud and good-will concealment according to their essential differences, and the two cannot be confused. Second, "honesty" does not mean that 100% is true without specific analysis. In some cases, it is essential to conceal in good faith. Third, white lies conform to the principle of good faith from purpose to result. Therefore, we believe that white lies do not hinder honesty. We all know the story of "wolf coming", a white lie. It's a story about a kid who herded sheep lying and cheating, which led to the sheep being finally eaten by wolves. When I was a child, every time adults finished this story, they warned us to be honest, otherwise we would be eaten by wolves like children herding sheep. Adults are right, honesty is the foundation of being a man. However, in real society, we must learn to lie in many cases. At the right time, we should tell some white lies. Some white lies can make our lives and those we love better. There is a saying that white lies are beautiful. When we tell some little lies for the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect and tolerance, which has magical power. A lie from parents makes a child's face bloom like a flower; The teacher's lies make the wandering students no longer confused and grow better; The doctor's lies make the fearful patients move from destruction to rebirth ... lies out of good wishes are the nourishment of life and the source of faith. It makes people ignite the fire of hope from the heart and firmly believe that there is love, trust and emotion in the world, thus finding more reasons to laugh at life. White lies endow humanity with spirituality, reflect the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, and urge people to be strong and persistent, to fight for it involuntarily, and finally to overcome their fragility and survive. In life, we often meet some well-meaning and beautiful lies, which constitute another landscape of life. It enriches the interest of people's life, makes the relationship between people more harmonious and makes life more pleasant and happy. A lie when a disaster suddenly comes is sometimes a lie to save lives. A transport plane was forced to land in a sandstorm in the desert, but the plane was seriously damaged and could not resume taking off. Communication equipment was also destroyed and communication with the outside world was interrupted. Nine passengers and 1 driver were in despair. The instinct of survival makes them fight for limited dry food and water. At a critical juncture, a passenger on an airplane stepped forward temporarily and said, "Don't panic, I'm an airplane designer. As long as Qi Xin listens to my command, we can repair the plane. " This is like a shot in the arm, which has stabilized everyone's mood. They consciously save water and dry food; Everything is in order. Let's unite to fight against sandstorms. Ten days have passed and the plane has not been repaired; However, a caravan passing through the desert rescued them. A few days later, it was discovered that the temporary passenger was not an airplane designer at all. He is a primary school teacher and knows nothing about airplanes. Someone called him a liar after knowing the truth and asked him angrily: "Everyone's life is almost gone, and you still have the heart to deceive us?" The primary school teacher said, "If I hadn't lied, would everyone still be alive now?" The above story tells us that white lies are the hope of life, an oasis in the desert, and sometimes they really change the trajectory of our lives. White lies have magical power, encouraging you to make progress again and again, and never giving up for your dreams. Because the future road is completely illuminated by happy mood, life becomes better. The famous American writer Ou? Henry's novel The Last Leaf tells a white lie. When the sick old man looked at the dead leaves and was desolate and desperate, the loving painter decorated the withered tree of life with a carefully sketched green leaf, thus maintaining a dying light of life. Isn't this the acme of lies? If confession is a mistake, I choose lies. If telling the truth, being frank and being reckless is a kind of harm, I choose lies. If it's for yourself or others to stop suffering and sadness, what's the harm of a little more lies?