1, when dealing with people, don't open yourself to others. No matter what you say or do, keeping a little mystery will make you more attractive.
2. Constantly add value to yourself. Interpersonal networks are woven by mutually beneficial people. If you want to expand this network, you can easily weave a high-quality personal network as long as you continue to add value to Xiaoji and meet the different needs of more people.
3. Don't let the salary you pay into your card every month become your only support. If you are unemployed, there is no source of income. It is wise, rational and safe to learn to manage money, spread risks and create the second and third income for yourself.
4, you can send text, don't send 60s long voice. Even the closest people will have the impulse to end the chat when they receive your long voice. Especially for tens of seconds of voice, I want to swear across the screen.
5, go to other people's homes, especially older elders, it is best to buy some calligraphy in the past, whether he needs it or not, this is a kind of etiquette.
6. Beware of those whose mantra is "My relative XX, my friend XX". This kind of people live without self and without much ability. They want to wipe other people's deeds to brush their sense of existence.
"One of my relatives bought a suite with three bedrooms and one living room, which is very spacious." "A friend of mine opened a shop in the city, and many people went to patronize business thieves."
I came with my mouth open, as if I had bought a suite and opened a shop.
7. Don't tell others that you are better off than them. If you buy a car, you will say that the pressure to repay the loan in installments is high, the cost of parking spaces is too high, and the wallet will shrink as soon as the oil price rises. If you have a great responsibility, you often stay up late to work overtime, and baldness and hair loss are worrying. In this way, they will feel better and even comfort you in turn.
8. The weapon that can destroy a person the most is his crazy boasting, all kinds of bottomless rainbow farts and wearing high hats.
After a long time, he drifted away and really thought he was the most powerful person in the universe. But when he realized the truth, he had fallen into the abyss of extreme conceit.
9. Add new friends and take notes. Remember to write down your name and source. The more notes, the better. For example, where are you from, where do you live, your colleagues or clients. It's best to group, so that your contacts will be clear, and you won't be unable to find someone or find the wrong person in the future.
10, don't just listen to the surface.
When you visit someone's house, he doesn't pick you up very much, just keeps reminding you how good the programs on TV are. Deep meaning, I really don't want to chat with you; We agreed to have dinner together, but we didn't prepare your share. The meaning is, it's time for dinner. Why don't you go?
1 1, if a girl doesn't take a hint from a boy, you can take it by default.
12, if a person always emphasizes how powerful he used to be, remember to give him a little warmth, which means that he is not as glorious as before.
The leading group of the company I once stayed in was the first.
= now the performance can't go up.
I have attended many parties and parties before. ...
I'm not invited now.
13, when the other person talks to you, he always looks around and whines, but he just doesn't look straight at you. Most of them are ghosts and lies.
14, an old classmate who hasn't contacted for a long time, suddenly sent a wechat asking how you are recently. Hold your breath and see if this month's budget is enough. His next sentence, nine times out of ten, can't escape, yes
15, you think you can see through a person just because of his behavior or state, and there are traces of you.
16. It's really cool to brush Tik Tok and play Weibo, but it's a chronic suicide addiction, and precious life is consumed like this. And if you keep on exercising and reading for an hour every day, you will surpass 90% of your peers in one year.
Self-discipline is actually not difficult. The hard part is the first step to give up short-term pleasure.
17, don't talk to people you've only known for an hour. Otherwise, it will turn into tears of regret.
18, don't judge a book by its cover. Some people seem to be decent and upright, but in fact they are scum who attack behind their backs.
Some people look gentle and considerate and polite, but in fact they fight with their partners in private and have the spirit of PUA. They just act.
19, true love in the bar ballroom is just an illusion caused by the environment stimulating dopamine secretion.
20. Do you want to know whether it was deleted or blacked out? The correct way to open it is to see if you are prompted to enter a password when transferring money to him. If so, friendship is still there.
2 1, someone will take you home on the way. If the other person is not single, go to the back row to avoid misunderstanding. If the other person is single, don't dive into the back seat like a full-time driver.
22. People who break up habitually are often just talking. On the contrary, people who endure silently will leave without hesitation if they accumulate enough disappointment.
23. When you go out to eat, your girlfriend tells you to eat whatever you want. You don't really eat casually, but you should pick out all kinds of restaurants with good reputation and suitable distance that she will like, so that she won't make mistakes.
24. Anyone who helps people who are not familiar with things, a few dollars or dozens of dollars, will be charged. Accept others and you will be comfortable and practical; If you don't accept it, let him invite you next time. No one wants to owe others a favor, especially if they can afford it completely.
25. I want to know whether the person who has a secret crush likes you. When everyone is laughing, see if ta will turn its attention to you. If eyes meet, a beautiful love is about to blossom and bear fruit.