Just like myself, I have just been pregnant for more than 40 days and have no fetal heart germ. Inevitably, I was uncomfortable, and I waited for the reexamination for two weeks in fear and trembling. The result is still not out. The doctor suspected that it was an empty gestational sac, because it was not good to double the blood Hcg, so it was not good to make an appointment to arrange abortion. My husband and I went home depressed, didn't sleep well all night, and didn't want to go to another hospital for examination the next day. As a result, Dr. B-ultrasound said everything and returned it to us.
At the end of the period, all kinds of inspections are carried out level by level. Down screening failed again. Our non-invasive charge is 2200 yuan. What my husband means is that there is no need to do it. My child will definitely be fine. But I'm afraid I can't afford to gamble when I see the tragedy and pain caused by too many families refusing prenatal examination. I couldn't sleep for a few days after waiting for the result, because I didn't know how to choose between certainty and high risk. My children have been with me for so long. Fortunately, it passed smoothly and the risk was very low.
Now that the baby is almost 8 months old, my deepest feeling is that when the baby is not born, I always worry about whether the baby is healthy, whether it can be born smoothly, or all kinds of worries. If the baby coughs occasionally, will you worry if the baby has a cold? This is probably the so-called maternal love!
In fact, the purpose of saying so much is that our baby is far stronger than we thought. As long as prenatal examination is done on time, health care is done during pregnancy, and fetal movements are counted on time in the third trimester, the extra worries can really be put away! Eat well, sleep well, raise your baby with peace of mind, and let your baby grow up healthily!
First of all, it is best not to go to Baidu, because if a very healthy person goes to Baidu, the light result will be inflammation, and the heavy one will make you doubt your life.
It's normal to worry about the baby's health after pregnancy. That's how I came over.
At that time, because of unexpected pregnancy, it happened to catch up with the Chinese New Year. I didn't know I was pregnant at first, so I had a few drinks. I have been struggling for a long time whether to have children or not, and I have searched all kinds of information. The answer I got is more that it is best not to, because the fetus is in the formative stage four months before pregnancy, and pregnant women can't drink alcohol. I also have an example around me. A friend aborted the baby just because he didn't know how much he had drunk when he was pregnant.
Even so, I finally decided to stay, because I was pregnant for a short time, but I got pregnant without special attention. I believe the baby came to me on his own initiative. I can't abandon him. But now that I think about it, I was really brave.
Unconsciously, on the day when NT was abnormal in the first row, the results showed that the fetus was all right, so I stopped worrying about drinking. But then the problem came again, and Tang Xier failed!
I started all kinds of Baidu. If I didn't do it, what did I do? What is the probability that I didn't do it non-invasively? If I don't do it non-invasively, I'll do it anyway. During that time, I have been searching for related questions. I always want to cry when I see the example that Tang Sieve can't get through, but it's non-invasive and sheep can't get through.
Fortunately, after the non-invasive results came out, it showed that the fetus was all right. But after the non-invasion, I am still worried that the result is wrong. After a long struggle, Baidu stayed for a long time. As time went on, this uneasy heart was slowly put down.
Later, at the stage of counting fetal movements, I was worried about whether the fetus was moving well every day. Why did it move at this time the day before and stop at this time the next day? So I started all kinds of Baidu.
However, with the growth of pregnancy, the heart is getting bigger and bigger.
In fact, all the answers are the worst results. Seeing this answer, you should pay more attention at ordinary times. There is no need to take all this to heart. If you put all the bad symptoms on yourself, it will be too tired. Keeping a relaxed mood is the most important thing for pregnant mothers.
For anxiety during pregnancy, the best solution is to have a pregnancy test on time, and at the same time, you must believe in yourself and your baby. If there is no genetic disease, you are not an elderly woman, and the baby will certainly be fine.
Now the baby is almost a week and two months, healthy and happy every day, without any problems.
Be sure to believe in yourself and your baby, come on!
Recently, I always hear feedback from pregnant mothers: Why are you always worried about your baby's health? What should I do?
In fact, it makes sense to worry about whether the baby is developing healthily. After all, separated by a layer of belly, pregnant mothers can't see the baby's development clearly, and they can only rest assured by several prenatal examinations during pregnancy. For a more sensitive and affectionate pregnant mother, it is simply the biggest torture for her not to always confirm the safety of her child!
To confirm the healthy development of the fetus, in addition to regular prenatal examination, pregnant mothers may wish to try the following methods:
1. Fetal heart detector
Fetal heart detector can effectively detect whether the fetal heart rate is within the normal range, which is a direct means to confirm the health of the fetus. Pregnant mothers can buy them at home and have their fetal heart measured once or twice a day.
2. Fetal movement
Most pregnant mothers can feel fetal movement in the second and third trimesters. In the eyes of many pregnant mothers, fetal movement is just an unconscious impact of the fetus and has little to do with the healthy development of the baby. In fact, pregnant mothers can find clues about the health of the fetus as long as they carefully observe the fetal movement of the baby in the abdomen.
Normal fetal movement is about 30-40 times a day and 3-5 times an hour. If the pregnant mother observes that the fetus has no fetal movement for a long time, or the number of fetal movements far exceeds the normal range, she must go to the hospital in time. Abnormal fetal movement is probably the baby telling you: mom, I don't feel well. Take me to the hospital quickly.
3. Observe the pregnant mother's own physical condition
During pregnancy, pregnant mothers and fetuses are the same. The pregnant mother's body directly reflects the health of the fetus. If the pregnant mother has abdominal pain, abnormal leucorrhea or even bleeding, she must go to the hospital in time.
If the pregnant mother does not have any abnormal reaction, it also reflects the health status of the fetus. At this time, pregnant mothers don't have to worry too much about the development of the fetus. The good mood of pregnant mothers is also the driving force for the healthy growth and development of the fetus!
From the moment of pregnancy, I don't worry about whether the child is healthy, which is probably a common problem for every expectant mother.
I remember from the moment I knew I was pregnant, I imagined what the baby would look like, and then I was worried about what the baby would do if it was unhealthy, and whether it would lose a finger or lose an extra finger. It turns out that this is all to scare yourself.
Baidu is convenient, but most of the knowledge there is incoherent, and a lot of information is not necessarily correct. I remember a joke that I felt uncomfortable and asked Du Niang. It turned out that I should be hopeless, but in fact nothing happened.
If you want to gain real knowledge about parenting, you might as well buy a book. After all, the knowledge there is systematic and not too one-sided. Have time to read more about parenting knowledge, buy more books, and learn about all kinds of problems from pregnancy to birth, so as to know when to do what tests, what symptoms will appear at what stage, including how to feed the child after birth, what common diseases are there, etc. There is really a lot to learn.
At the same time, we should insist on activities, do some moderate exercise every day, go out for a walk when physical conditions permit, and don't scare yourself at home alone.
In addition, I have to go to the hospital for examination every month after pregnancy. Pregnant mothers can also use this time to consult doctors and learn more about relevant knowledge.
And if you really have any discomfort at ordinary times, it is better to go to the hospital in time. Don't even think about it. It is most important to keep a good mood during pregnancy.
I often worry about whether my baby is healthy after pregnancy. Many expectant mothers have this anxiety, especially inexperienced novice mothers. In fact, it is right for expectant mothers to pay attention to and be alert to the baby's situation. Paying attention to every prenatal examination and paying attention to the baby's changes is also a self-monitoring of fetal development and can find problems in time. However, we should pay attention to this degree and not be anxious all the time. We should be vigilant and learn to relax ourselves.
Why are you so anxious and worried about your baby after pregnancy?
How to alleviate the anxiety of expectant mothers?
This will definitely happen, and most expectant mothers will feel this way for the first time. On the one hand, it is because Ma Bao doesn't understand the development of the fetus, on the other hand, it is because Ma Bao is worried about whether the baby will develop healthily, whether it is deformed, whether it will be short of arms and legs, and so on. Especially for expectant mothers who have been pregnant for a long time, experienced fetal arrest, or miscarried, they can't eat or sleep when they are in trouble, for fear that the baby will make a little mistake, which will lead to mental stress in the end, which is not conducive to the baby's development. So what should we do? It is generally relatively safe in the second trimester. Here, we focus on the first and third trimesters.
Early pregnancy (1-2-3 months) 1, not taking folic acid before pregnancy, will it affect the baby?
When we learned that we were pregnant and went to the hospital for examination, the doctor said that we had been pregnant for one month. Some precious mothers are pregnant 1 month and haven't taken folic acid yet. What should I do? Do you have time? Then I started to worry.
About folic acid: If pregnant women obviously lack folic acid, it may lead to fetal neural tube malformation. If you eat vegetables regularly and have a balanced nutrition, you don't have to worry about folic acid deficiency at all. Folic acid is actually a vitamin, which exists in many foods. For example, vegetables, carrots, tomatoes, Chinese cabbage, spinach, mushrooms and so on, as well as fruits, strawberries, cherries, bananas, lemons and so on, as well as animal livers. So, I usually eat these, so I don't have to worry at all.
Only as a doctor, from the perspective of prevention, will we be advised to supplement folic acid in the first three months of pregnancy and take it until the third month of pregnancy. I was pregnant for a long time and stopped using folic acid when I was not pregnant. Later, I waited until I got pregnant. The result is very good. So, don't worry about this.
2, taking medicine before pregnancy, losing weight, taking X-rays, drinking alcohol, etc. Will the baby be deformed?
Zheng Yuqiao, who has been engaged in medical work for 30 years, mentioned in the book "Zheng Yuqiao Parenting Classics and Fetal Volume":
Exposure to X-rays and taking teratogenic drugs may cause harm to the fetus, but if you plan to have children, you must make plans before pregnancy.
3, low progesterone after pregnancy, will the baby terminate pregnancy abortion?
Many expectant mothers are pregnant with children, but because of low progesterone, they are afraid of losing their children or terminating their pregnancy. I have a classmate who has a very low progesterone value in the early stage of pregnancy and is on tenterhooks all day. He also goes to the hospital for injections every day, ten times for three months. You can see how low her progesterone value is. Fortunately, she survived the first trimester and saved her child. But if we don't keep it in the first trimester, we shouldn't be sad, which only shows that the fetus is not ready. We follow the laws of nature and the survival of the fittest.
Here is a popular science, what is progesterone and what role can it play? Let me give you an example. At the beginning of pregnancy, my classmate didn't feel tired at all and didn't want to sleep. Then I was very tired in the first trimester and wanted to sleep. Therefore, we can see the difference between progesterone, which only plays the role of hypnosis and fetal protection. Without it, pregnant women will not be sleepy, and the endometrium will be easily excited, which is not conducive to the growth and development of the fetus. If it is serious, it will flow away.
In addition, vaginal bleeding and abdominal pain may occur in the early pregnancy. If this happens, it does not mean that the fetus will miscarry or be unhealthy. My sister had the same experience when she was pregnant with a second child, but all the babies born in the end were healthy. So don't be nervous. If you have any questions, please seek medical advice in time.
Expectant mothers who enter the third trimester (August 9 -65438+ 10) will worry about many problems, such as the baby's fetal movement. If the baby doesn't like to move, I'm worried that the baby will have problems. Is the umbilical cord around the neck? Can you give birth naturally without oxygen? Anyway, all kinds of worries.
1, fetal movement and fetal heart, umbilical cord around neck, hypoxia
In August of pregnancy, fetal movement is still relatively frequent, but in September of pregnancy, fetal movement will decrease, and the baby is preparing for his birth. At this time, the fetal heart rate will also drop, and the normal range is 140- 160 beats/minute. If there is no abnormal performance, generally don't worry too much. If the fetal heart rate is lower than 120 beats/min or higher than 180 beats/min, we should pay attention to observation. It's best to buy a fetal heart, not expensive. Listen to it twice a day and you won't be so worried. Because it is difficult to count fetal movements in the third trimester, I bought one and listened to it every day, so I was not so worried. No longer have to worry about whether the baby will lack oxygen or whether the umbilical cord will wrap around the neck.
2. Does high blood sugar affect your baby's development?
Expectant mothers with gestational diabetes will worry about their baby's "safety" when their blood sugar is high, fearing that the baby will be born unhealthy. At that time, my blood sugar was also high. I was really afraid that my baby would be unhealthy, so I tried to control my blood sugar. Sometimes even the scene of the nurse giving the baby an injection will emerge in my mind, which shows how worried the mother is.
3, until the third trimester, I was worried about my baby's premature birth.
In the third trimester, we should adopt a safe sexual life style. Avoid big moves in life, don't lift heavy objects, and pay attention to rest. If you have any questions, seek medical advice in time. If there are signs of premature delivery, you should follow the doctor's advice.
Conclusion: For women, pregnancy is mixed, painful and happy. Just pay attention to rest and eat well, and don't think about it. If we are often nervous, this kind of nervous mood will also be passed on to the baby, which will also affect the baby's development in severe cases. Therefore, when babies are born, most of them are still healthy. Don't worry too much about pregnant mothers.
Because there is a high probability of fetal malformation or dysplasia, once this happens, the whole family will be in trouble. Therefore, most expectant mothers are more worried about their baby's health during pregnancy, and they will turn to the Internet for answers when they encounter problems. However, the information on the internet is mixed, and it is inevitable that there will be some unreliable information. What should expectant mothers do in this case?
It is a normal psychology to reasonably control the tension during pregnancy and worry about the baby's health. Expectant mothers don't have to worry about their nervousness at all, which has a certain positive effect on the smooth pregnancy of their mothers. Expectant mothers will be more cautious in their daily diet and behavior, which is very beneficial to the birth of healthy babies.
Expectant mothers must control this tension within a reasonable range. If they are too worried or scared by some online comments, they will have anxiety, which is not only very harmful to their own health, but also has a negative impact on the fetus, especially when the expectant mother's mood swings too sharply, the fetus will be violently active in the uterus because of stimulation, and abnormal fetal movement will lead to intrauterine hypoxia, with very serious consequences.
Therefore, expectant mothers should try to keep a peaceful and cheerful mood during pregnancy, and don't be too nervous and anxious when encountering any problems, so as to better ensure the healthy growth of the fetus.
Correctly treat all kinds of views on the internet. It's best for expectant mothers to browse more web pages when searching for information online, so as not to be scared by some opinions. If most of the opinions on the Internet are the same and have high credibility, otherwise they belong to one family, so don't care too much, because some opinions on the Internet are the sharing of personal experience, which has certain one-sidedness and no reference value. Therefore, expectant mothers must keep a clear head and correctly treat all kinds of statements on the Internet. If they are really worried, they'd better go to the hospital to consult an obstetrician.
The most effective way for expectant mothers to judge whether the fetus is healthy within the specified time is prenatal examination. Although the indexes of prenatal examination can not absolutely guarantee the health of the fetus, most abnormal fetuses can be screened through prenatal examination. Expectant mothers can effectively avoid the birth of deformed babies as long as they go to the hospital for prenatal examination within the specified time and adjust their diet and work schedule in strict accordance with the doctor's advice. Therefore, as long as the prenatal indicators are normal, expectant mothers don't have to worry too much about the baby's health problems. Expectant mothers can concentrate on the problems they usually encounter during prenatal examination and consult doctors, or get an authoritative reply.
An abnormal situation that must be closely watched.
Reasonable arrangement of daily diet and reasonable diet is helpful to the healthy growth and development of the fetus in the mother. Therefore, expectant mothers must arrange their daily diet reasonably during pregnancy, pay attention to balanced and comprehensive nutrition, keep it light and easy to digest, provide sufficient nutrition for the growth and development of the fetus, and do not bring themselves the burden of sudden weight gain, laying the foundation for the smooth birth of healthy babies.
Regular work and rest is conducive to the healthy growth and development of the fetus in the mother. Therefore, expectant mothers should avoid staying up late during pregnancy, ensure adequate sleep, eat on time, avoid overeating, work and rest, and avoid overwork. Only in this way can expectant mothers have a healthier constitution and lay a solid foundation for the birth of healthy babies.
Therefore, expectant mothers can reduce the chances of fetal malformation and dysplasia as long as they arrange their diet and work and rest reasonably in their daily lives, and they don't have to worry too much about fetal health problems.
Conclusion It is normal for pregnant mothers to worry about their baby's health, but they must not be too anxious.
I remember when I was pregnant with a baby, I would ask the doctor every time I checked: How is the baby? The doctor also patiently and meticulously explained to me to calm my anxious and fragile mind.
In fact, as long as the following aspects are done well during pregnancy, I believe that a healthy and lovely baby will be born.
Whether in normal life or during pregnancy, we should have an optimistic and cheerful attitude towards life. Regular daily life makes me feel happy. I believe that science should follow the guidance of doctors and do a good job in prenatal examination.
Throughout pregnancy, the diet is light and diverse, such as fruits and vegetables, fish, beans, milk and so on.
Folic acid can be properly supplemented in the first trimester, which is beneficial to the healthy development of the fetus. In the second and third trimester of pregnancy, proper calcium supplementation is beneficial to fetal bone development.
Since you can feel the baby's fetal movement, you must insist on counting it three times a day. This is a good way to test your baby's health. Too much or too little fetal movement should be paid attention to and seek medical advice in time.
Chat with your baby every day, listen to music and appreciate beautiful words. Is it interesting to think about the baby's appearance, whether it is more like himself or more like his father? Spend every day happily, waiting for the arrival of the baby.
Hello, I'm Mama Chuan, and I'm glad to answer your questions!
I am 70 years old and have two baby sheep, 12 years old. Let me talk about my experience.
1, Huaidabao
Married at the age of 26, pregnant with Dabao at the age of 28, living in a small county in Jiangxi 18 counties. At that time, there were only three public hospitals in our county, one was county people's hospital, the other was traditional Chinese medicine hospital, and the other was women and children. County People's Hospital is the most authoritative hospital in our hearts. I choose this hospital for prenatal examination. At that time, almost all our prenatal examinations were to measure the size of the stomach, feel the fetal position and do a B-ultrasound. At that time, it was also a black-and-white B-ultrasound. The purpose is to see if the fetal position is good and if there is an umbilical cord around the neck. As for NT, four-dimensional color Doppler ultrasound, sheep puncture, Down syndrome, glucose tolerance and other tests, we have never done it. At that time, the media was not so developed, and our acquisition of relevant professional knowledge was not as comprehensive as it is now. There is no point in saying ignorance. There are some terrible chances of getting pregnant. Therefore, there is no suspense in every prenatal examination when you are pregnant.
2. Huai Bao Xiao
I was 39 when I was pregnant with Bao Xiao. I lived in Shenzhen for five years. From renting a house in the original village to buying a house by yourself, the neighbors' academic qualifications are getting higher and higher. At that time, there was a group of pregnant mothers in our community, and everyone would share their pregnancy experiences and problems. From these literate people, I learned more and more technical terms and possible accidents. I also went to class with them during pregnancy, and the Shenzhen birth check-up was also very comprehensive. In addition, I am nearly 40 years old, and the data of the later prenatal examination is getting less and less ideal, so I know that I was so scared at that time that I was afraid of my child's physical disability, brain problems, accidents and so on. And I haven't cried less throughout the third trimester.
What should I do? Now the media is more and more developed, and people have more and more ways to acquire knowledge, which is more and more convenient. But they still only have a superficial or literal understanding of professional things, precisely because this little knowledge will deepen the anxiety of pregnant women. What should I do in the face of this situation?
1, pregnant
We didn't have the word pregnancy before. It's completely random If we are pregnant, we will be pregnant. If we are not pregnant, we will continue to work hard. Now I will recuperate before pregnancy, eat folic acid in advance, and even change jobs. The combination of healthy and high-quality sperm and eggs makes it easier to give birth to healthy and intelligent babies. Preparing for pregnancy in advance and giving good pre-pregnancy classes can reduce anxiety during pregnancy.
2. Do a good job in every birth check.
Although there is no guarantee that the baby born will be 100% healthy even after all the prenatal examinations, because there are still many machines and data in the scientific field that can't be judged, we can't ignore every prenatal examination requested by the doctor or take chances, and don't listen to others saying that I didn't do prenatal examinations, but I still gave birth to a healthy baby. Prenatal examination can improve the screening rate. For example, the screening rate of Down's children wearing sheep clothes is over 90%.
One of my neighbors, the husband and wife, both belong to the golden collar type with an annual salary of one million in Shenzhen. However, during pregnancy, because I was busy with my work and firmly believed that there was no problem children at home, I neglected the prenatal examination, which led to the birth of a Down's son, which completely disrupted the couple's life and career planning. This is a fact that no amount of money can change.
3. Believe in professional doctors
It is best to go to a public 3A hospital for examination. Don't worry about trouble, leave professional things to professional people. I believe that professional doctors should not believe the unreliable knowledge of every prenatal diagnosis. If you have any questions, you should ask your own prenatal doctor, not Baidu. If you have doubts about a certain result of your prenatal examination, you can take the result to a more professional doctor instead of going to your mother to make yourself anxious.
When I was pregnant with Bao Xiao, I was single umbilical artery. After Baidu search, I was extremely scared. I even want to get rid of this child. Through talking with doctors, I realized that single umbilical artery is not as terrible as I searched. Do a good prenatal examination. If it's just single umbilical artery, the baby will be equally healthy after birth.
Hello, I'm glad to answer your question. First of all, I am also a treasure mother, and I have the situation you mentioned. This is because of the hormonal changes in my body. It was the same at the beginning of pregnancy. Every time I think about whether the baby is healthy or not, as long as the baby does not move for a while in the later period, I am extremely nervous. Actually, this is normal.
As long as you have a checkup on time and relax, you can usually listen to some soothing music, or go out for a walk to divert your attention, pay attention to rest and not be too tired, and communicate with your family more. As a pregnant woman, a good mood is very important. In fact, the baby can also feel the joys and sorrows of his mother in his stomach! I hope my answer can help you!