Wang Chaoge's speech in Let's Talk.
As a woman, as a professional director, I am not particularly ugly, and my figure is not particularly tough. I must have my reasons for being alive today. First, I don't hide. What do you mean? I don't hide anything, good or bad. I will never dodge to complete the image that appeared in front of everyone for the first time in my life. No matter what happens, I will be here, whether it is disaster, disease or "women beyond dreams" forum. Of course, I will not hide from glory and praise. This is mine. So I think, as a woman, in front of everyone, in front of your first career, in front of your first ideal, in front of your family, in front of your friends, especially in front of your enemies, in front of your opponents, don't hide, hold your head high. Maybe your posture is ugly, standing there may be a beating posture, or you may be hurt all over, or you may stand there with tears on your face and your hair may be messy. It doesn't matter, as long as you don't shy away, sisters, trust me, and then stand back, it will make your posture look better and more confident every day. But no matter what way, no matter what kind of problems you encounter, don't avoid them. Almost all women, especially a normal woman, are called coquetry at best and complaining at worst. When you encounter a problem, tell me immediately what caused it. It's all someone else's fault. So she will have a mentality, that is, she will immediately retreat to the second place when she encounters problems, because she feels that the first person should have someone to support her in front. This group of people is dependent. When they can't rely on it, they start complaining. When they complain that they have not finished their ideas, they become self-pitying. So life will go downhill. As for me, I don't complain. This is one of my excellent qualities. When I turned my head and was hit, I said I was unlucky, I deserved it, I thought I deserved it. Because they don't dodge, because they don't complain, women will become very confident when they live to this point. I don't care what others say about me, so I live more and more confident and self-respecting, and I can be completely responsible for myself. I don't need anyone else to be responsible for me. My family is very harmonious, which comes from my responsibility for myself. In fact, the whole world must be unfair. This is a male society. As a woman, if she wants to have a place in society and enjoy a world of her own, she really has to take it from a man. I think in such a society, I compete with men for a small place, stand there beautifully, and then tell everyone beautifully that I am almost like you. We need to pay three things. First, I believe I must be more diligent than him; Second, we must be smarter than him; Third, learn to surrender. What is the concept of surrender? The ability to coquetry still needs to be learned. Because all men are in a poor state. It is ok to surrender to men on some occasions, but don't let us seize the opportunity. We use our more diligence, and we use our smarter wisdom to win a share of the world.