What four things should I bring back in three days?
1, a cigarette in return.
Cigarettes are a very common choice in return. Although many people don't smoke now, it is also a must-have item in return. Of course, if your family really hates cigarettes, there is another spare gift to choose from, and that is fruit.
2. Give back wine.
Like cigarettes, many parents may not drink now, but in China, drinking on important festivals has always been a tradition. Therefore, even if the in-laws don't drink, they still have to bring them, and traditional things must be observed.
3, return a gift of sugar.
Traditional candy tastes sweet, so candy also symbolizes sweetness, symbolizing that we hope to become a family in the future and live together sweetly and happily, so candy is also indispensable among the four gifts.
4. Give back tea.
In the long history of the Chinese nation, the culture of drinking tea can be traced back to a long time ago. Tea itself has an elegant meaning, and in the theory of traditional Chinese medicine, drinking tea itself has great benefits to people's health, so tea is also an indispensable part of the four kinds of gifts.
What did you bring back for your first marriage?
Besides the traditional four kinds of gifts, there are some other gifts to choose from. If some of the four gifts are not loved by your family, you can choose from the following gifts.
1, health products.
If the wife's parents lack calcium, can't absorb it well or other things, they can send health care products. Note that sending this thing depends on local customs, and some places think that health care products are unlucky.
2, massage instruments.
Middle-aged and elderly people are prone to lumbar spondylosis and scapulohumeral periarthritis. So consider sending massage equipment. Massager is a heart-warming gift, and I think the woman's parents will feel your heart.
3. Holiday gifts.
If the meeting happens to be during the festival, you can bring some gifts, such as moon cakes in the Mid-Autumn Festival and zongzi in the Dragon Boat Festival.
4. major.
The man can send some specialties made by his parents to the woman's parents. If the woman's parents know that this is a specialty prepared by your parents, it shows that you are very respectful and sincere to the woman and can leave a very good impression on your parents-in-law.
What's so particular about getting married?
1, return time.
In ancient times, the return time was on the 3rd, 6th, 7th, 8th and 9th day after marriage, but now it is mostly on the 3rd day after marriage.
2, back to the door clothing.
In most areas, the bride and groom will wear formal clothes, and most of the bride's clothes are red series, but some areas do not choose red.
3, the custom of returning to the door.
According to the marriage custom, both husband and wife go back to their parents' home, the groom goes first, and the bride comes last. The groom must go back on the same day after arriving at her parents' home, while the bride has to stay at her parents' home for one night. Now it may not be so strict, and they usually come back together.
4. Reunification ceremony.
According to different regions, the prepared gifts will be different, including giving money and various gifts. No matter what you have prepared, you can't go home empty-handed.
5. Return banquet.
The back door banquet is a treat for the woman's family. The groom sat at the dining table, accompanied by the woman's family. Other guests sat down in order of age, as well as relatives and friends. You can sit down at will. Most of the guests attending the back door banquet are from the woman's family.