1. Respect yourself: Everyone has his own personality and aesthetics. If you change your favorite avatar, it will make you uncomfortable. Therefore, while respecting others, we should also respect ourselves.
2. Understand the reason: Understand why the boyfriend's mother asked to change the avatar, because she didn't like it or because of other reasons. Only by knowing the situation can we make the most appropriate decision.
3. Communication: Before deciding whether to change your avatar, communicate with your boyfriend's mother to understand her thoughts and express your own thoughts. If we can find common ground, we can try to compromise.
4. Keep your principles: If changing your avatar is contrary to your own values, you can politely refuse, express your thoughts and opinions, and keep your principles.
5. Respect for elders: Respect for elders is not blindly accommodating, but trying to compromise and give each other some respect on the premise of adhering to principles.
Extended supplement:
Everyone has his own personality and thoughts, which can be expressed. If there are no unreasonable demands, you can consider the feelings of your boyfriend and mother. But if there is a conflict in style or concept, you need to uphold your principles and respect your ideas and choices.
Summary:
Faced with this situation, the most important thing is to respect your own ideas and values. Only by understanding the reasons, communicating, upholding principles and respecting elders can we find a better solution. Deal with problems steadily and objectively, and don't make hasty decisions when you are emotional.