Under normal circumstances, marriage is prone to aesthetic fatigue. When you are in love, get together less and leave more, and see the advantages of each other. After marriage, you get together more and leave less, and each other's shortcomings are everywhere. Over time, without the sweetness of love, there are problems that you have to face constantly. Every day is the repetition of life, so marriage is called the grave of love.
Poverty is actually only a comparative result. I don't think it has much to do with marriage. You have more than you. My parents' generation caught up with poverty and fell in love for a long time. Sharing weal and woe is the real marriage. Marriage is a kind of responsibility, and any reason for not wanting to take this responsibility or being sentenced to this responsibility is the most terrible.
The most terrible thing in marriage is not material things, but no feelings. If there are endless money, dozens of luxury cars and ten luxury houses in a marriage, but there is no affection between husband and wife and they don't love each other at all, that is the most unfortunate marriage.
The most important thing in marriage is people, not material things. After all, can the house hold you to sleep? Can a car love you and protect you? When you are cold, money puts on clothes for you. Can jewelry say "wife, you have worked hard" in the most difficult time? Of course not, but people can.
Even couples without money can live materially. Others drink 100 yuan of coffee, and we only need to drink coffee from 20 yuan. It was a romance. Others are sitting in a western restaurant eating western food, and we are sitting on a bench in the park drinking mineral water. This is also a kind of romance and happiness.
As long as poor couples unite, their efforts will change the status quo better and better. There are many reasons why a marriage can't go on, but poverty is not the most terrible. The most terrible thing in marriage is that in this relationship, you are afraid of giving and accepting.
No one can spend his life in a fearful marriage. As long as the poor have love and good health, they can slowly create more wealth by their hardworking hands. However, people who are afraid in marriage can hardly guarantee a normal life. People in extreme fear will become mentally abnormal. How can such a life bring happiness? Therefore, this is undoubtedly the most terrible thing in marriage.