The expression of post-criticism is flexible and diverse, which basically belongs to the category of discussion, but writing is different from general argumentative essays because it must be based on reading. The following is my model essay in the first lesson of Shanghai Parent School in 2022, hoping to provide you with reference.
From the moment we were born, we were a group and a member of a family. From that day on, our family and parents followed us closely, and we also started our lifelong learning at that moment, which is also the most important education. Our parents have become our best teachers, and family education is particularly important in our life.
There is an old saying in China: The child is not the godfather's fault, which means that if the child's conduct is bad, it must be related to his parents. In fact, today, when we watch legal programs, most juvenile offenders are related to their families.
I still remember that on the "Legal Online" broadcast by CCTV, the reporter visited some juvenile delinquents in Beijing and interviewed them. Most of them said that their parents were busy and wanted to play outside, so they embarked on this road. One of the juvenile delinquents impressed me the most. The juvenile offender was detained for drinking and fighting. He told reporters that he used to smoke and drink and do everything. The reporter looked at such a boy who was only 15 years old and felt very puzzled. Why do such boys make so many bad behaviors? The boy said: after his father divorced his mother, he took him with him, and his father drank and smoked. As time went on, he learned.
Hearing the news, we were shocked that there were so many juvenile delinquents in the juvenile detention center. It is precisely because of their parents' bad behavior that they have embarked on the road of crime. Some people may say that most of them are divorced parents. In fact, parents' divorce will not bring too much shadow to their children. Liu Yiting, a Harvard girl, also lives in a single-parent family, but she became an outstanding talent and was admitted to Harvard University. Her mother is a great single mother. From an early age, my mother trained Liu Yiting from all aspects and paid attention to her physical and mental development.
Family education is very important to each of us. Good family education will make children become excellent talents with all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique and beauty. Good family education and correct family education can make children better integrate into society, get along with others and become excellent people in the future.
Should parents now consider the way of education, carry out correct family education, set an example for their children, educate their children in all aspects, and make them become excellent people? Family education is essential for each of us. It can be said that it is successful.
In 2022, the first lesson of Shanghai Parent School (Part II) once read a story. A boy took his beloved dog for a walk with his father, and the dog stepped on a girl's canal while running. The little girl unreasonably asked her father, a rich businessman, to buy the dog and kill it. The boy's father has not decided whether to sell dogs instead of his son. He just told the rich man that the owner of the dog was his son and it should be his son's decision.
I quite agree with this father's approach. He didn't impose his will on his son, but let him think independently, make his own choices and take charge of his own affairs.
It seems simple to do this, but I don't think it's simple. First of all, this is respect for children. Only when parents respect their children can they gain their respect and trust, thus laying a solid foundation for the communication between the two generations. But now many of my parents have arranged everything for their children, from food to clothes, even their thoughts and behaviors. Parents only ask their children to read good books and seldom care about their hearts. In this way, the gap between parents and children is getting bigger and bigger, and communication is becoming more and more difficult.
In fact, letting children choose for themselves can also help children understand their attitudes and ways of dealing with people, just like telling this story at the beginning. Finally, after the rich merchant offered ten times the original price, the boy was still unmoved and determined not to sell his dog, which showed the boy's virtue and integrity. If a boy wavers in front of money and exposes his weakness, his father can educate him.
In addition, doing so can cultivate children's ability to think independently. A person always has to face life by himself, and parents can't be their children's mentors all their lives. If children are dominated by their parents' thoughts for a long time and have no ability to think and live independently, they cannot survive in this highly competitive society, let alone make a difference.
Finally, it also cultivates children's sense of responsibility. Imagine, a person without a sense of responsibility, how to face reality and life?
Therefore, I think that in family education, parents should attach great importance to their children, respect their wishes and ask for their opinions.
Dear parents, you all love your children, so please create such an atmosphere so that children can grow up healthily in such a family education atmosphere!
My goal is to be a father like my brother to my children, but having a father like my brother is the dream of countless children.
There is a proverb in China: strict father gives birth to a dutiful son, but a loving mother loses more. In different times, different people's eyes, their understanding of the meaning is very different. My father is a strict father. He doesn't talk much, but he has a lot of body language. He left his footprints in many parts of my body, but I won't bear a grudge against him, because he grew up in an ignorant age and has no culture. His understanding of it is that "a dutiful son is born under the stick" and "weapons cannot be beaten". Because there is no better way to persuade him, you have to take some extreme measures. Times are changing, so are we. We can't bring the extreme measures of the older generation to modern times. We should treat our children like brothers and friends. So a new term "elder brother" was born. There is a saying in Sun Tzu's Art of War: "Know yourself and know yourself." Only by knowing what the child has done and what he is thinking in his heart can he be guided correctly, taught a correct outlook on life and let him know how to distinguish right from wrong.
The object that a child wants to talk to most is his best friend and brother, and we are not afraid to be a father like brother.
2022 Shanghai Parent School begins the first lesson. There are always winners and losers in learning and activities. How to evaluate children is an art, because children themselves have no ability to evaluate themselves, and most of them rely on others' attitudes towards themselves to realize themselves.
When children are sad about "failure", parents should not treat their children with pity, or sigh in front of them, or even scold them. The correct way is to let children know that failure and mistakes are no big deal, and everyone may encounter them. Brave and smart people will learn from their failures and continue to work hard.
Allowing children to fail is also a kind of trust that children can succeed.
Finally, let's think about the criteria for judging the success of children's "enlightenment education": whether it "provides the motivation and foundation for lifelong continuous learning". If so, this kind of education can be said to be successful; Otherwise it will fail.
Model essay on the first lesson of Shanghai Parent School in 2022 (Chapter 5) People say that family is the first lesson in life. Parents are the first teachers of the children. Children receive family education from babbling, and what kind of family education there is, there will be what kind of people. My family education is so amazing.
My father is a strict man; My mother is an amiable person. I have enjoyed writing since I was seven years old. I showed my first article to my mother. My mother said happily to me, Niu Niu, did you really write this? It's really good. Let dad have a look when he comes back. Dad will praise you again. I was happy and excited. I nodded and told her that I really wrote it. She hugged me happily again.
I said to my mother, when will dad come back? Mom smiled: He will be back at eight o'clock. My father is strict with me. He will carefully check my homework and criticize me if he finds any mistakes. I like my father. He is very strict with me and loves me very much.
I ran to my room, sat at my desk, and carefully revised and revised the article with my crayons. Then, I used a new notebook and the most beautiful font to write the article beautifully. It's almost half past seven. I sat on the sofa, waiting for my father to come back.
7:40、7:50。 At eight o'clock, my father came back. I gave the article to my father. When my father saw this poem, he felt very novel. Just read my article. Now, I'm starting to worry. I am worried that if my father checks my homework now, he will check out all the mistakes. But at this time, my father was a little serious and happy, so he said to me, Zhang Shiyan, this composition is not very good. Please revise it quickly. I am sorry to hear that. Holding my article, I ran to my room. Sad to modify it.
After one night. The next morning, I picked up my composition and handed it to my father. This time, my father commented on my composition: this article is ok. Keep moving! According to my father's comment on writing, I worked harder.
Like my present composition has reached a great level! I want to thank my parents then. I am glad that I have an amiable mother and a strict father. I have the power of my mother, which is the source of inspiration and creation. I have the power of fatherly love, which reminds me.
Family education is very special, and everyone must feel very gratified. Yes, you must all be lamenting that I have an amiable mother and a strict father!
It has been 10 years since I was born. 10 years, my parents' words and deeds and good family atmosphere have been deeply affecting me. Whether living and studying, or being a man and doing things, there are countless memories that I can't forget, which always inspire and spur me during my growth.
I remember once, I was stumped by a math thinking question, and I had to ask my mother after I didn't understand it. My mother told me once, but I still don't understand. I lied that I knew, for fear that my mother would call me stupid. So, my mother gave me a similar problem, and I didn't solve it for a long time because I couldn't figure out the quantitative relationship in the problem. My mother gave me a good scolding when she saw this. I was very sad, and tears as big as peas rolled down my face. Mother said sternly, "be honest in your study, one is one and the other is two." You have to pretend to understand. " After listening to my mother's words and thinking about what I have done, I am deeply aware of my mistakes. "Yes, if I had just asked my mother to tell me more times, the problem might have been solved." So, I honestly admitted my mistake to my mother and asked her to tell me more times. My mother patiently told me about it ... She showed the quantitative relationship in the question with a line chart as she spoke, which made me understand it better. Over and over again, I finally understood. And mother, also showed a satisfied smile on her face. From then on, whenever I encounter problems, I can always calm down and analyze them carefully. If I really can't figure it out, I will humbly ask others for advice until I understand it. This habit has benefited me a lot, and my academic performance has gradually improved.
My father is also an honest man. He never breaks his promise; Never promise what you can't do. "Keep your word and keep your word" is his motto. He often teaches me to be honest. Once, I was playing at home and accidentally broke a cup that my father especially cherished. At that time, I was frightened and thought: This is over, and my father will spare me. What shall we do? I had an idea to clean up the mess quickly, and then I said I didn't know. Let's do it. I'll pack my hands and feet quickly, and then sit at my desk and pretend to read. Usually favorite story, but now I can't stand it. I'm always thinking about that cup. I thought of my father's honesty and trustworthiness, and his usual education for me. I was ashamed of my stupid idea just now, and I decided to boldly admit my mistake to my father. After my father came home, I truthfully explained the situation to my father; Unexpectedly, my father praised me instead of criticizing me.
We are a harmonious family of three. I am the baby of my parents and the source of their happiness. My parents worked hard to create a comfortable environment for me to grow up and study, and I grew up happily in this warm family. I firmly believe that I will grow into a talented person with both ability and political integrity, and make my parents proud of me and proud of me!
In family education, it is particularly important to give children more choices, while in daily life, it is particularly important to cultivate children's ability to master choice, judgment and choice. If children can be given more choices, they will feel respected and trusted, give them confidence and a sense of accomplishment, and make them feel that they can grasp life.
In daily life, we can give them many more choices, such as which clothes to wear today, and let them arrange their own activities if conditions permit. In the absence of conflict of principles, you can try to deal with your child's own life according to his arrangement. Moreover, selective questions can often help parents avoid the embarrassment caused by rebellious children answering all questions with "no": at this stage, for open questions ("... ok?" "Let's ...? "It is difficult for parents to get a satisfactory answer, and children often take" no "as the standard answer. For children, "multiple choice questions" will generally be seriously considered and answered.
Parents should be patient when letting their children make their own choices, because children's reaction ability is different from that of adults. Children can't answer the questions themselves, so they must be given time to react and think. Waiting patiently will show respect for children's interests and choices. Sometimes, we need to repeat the options we provide appropriately, because when children start to learn to think, they may forget what they are doing: whether their attention is sustained or short-lived. In addition, while still including choices, it is entirely possible to clearly explain and deal with one thing. For example, in the process of dealing with something that children have to do but don't want to do, we set some choices in ways and means, and children often choose happily and finish the work.
In short, giving children the opportunity to choose what to do at an early age and bear the consequences will help them build good self-confidence and self-responsibility.