Among these parental roles, the one that appears most in the camera should be the heroine Sheng's father.
Speaking of Yi Sheng, this role may give a bad impression. Spoil my wife, spoil my wife, let Lin Xiaoniang be a demon constantly, and stir up Fu Sheng. Being cold-blooded, selfish and putting his reputation above everything else; I prefer my children. I like cymbidium produced by Lin Xiaoniang, but I ignore cymbidium produced by Wei Xiaoniang.
However, Shengji also has advantages. Although he is not qualified to be a husband, as a father, he still cares about his children. It is a blessing for children to have such a father.
Why do you say that? After all, Shengji, the father, is not qualified to be Ming Lan. However, in the original work, Ming Lan is grateful to his father. In terms of being a father, Shengji has a lot to commend.
0 1 Because he has suffered other hardships, he won't let the children eat what he has suffered again; There is an old saying in our country, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. Don't impose on others what you have suffered and what you don't want to happen to yourself. This sentence is the basic principle of being a man, and it is also a requirement for parents.
My best friend once told me that the person she hates most in her life is her mother. Her mother grew up in a patriarchal family. She is the eldest sister. Since she was a child, she has been looked down upon by her grandparents and uncles. She obviously doesn't love her best friend's father, but she was forced to marry her best friend's father because of the bride price.
However, my best friend's mother has brought her daughter the pain of son preference. My best friend has two sisters, both spelled out by her mother and her son. Although her mother can no longer have children, her mother has never given her daughters a good look. Even though my father dotes on my best friend, her mother always looks at her coldly or angrily.
"If it weren't for you, would I have no son?" How this logic came out, no one understands. However, in the eyes of my best friend's mother, my best friend is a disaster, which prevents her from having a son. Because of my mother, my best friend has been afraid to fall in love, and there is always a sense of inferiority in her heart.
Do as you would be done by. Obviously, my best friend's mother didn't do that. However, Shengji did this very well.
Shengji is also an unmarried woman. She received a lot of dirty looks since she was a child, and even lost her little mother. The difference between office and ordinary is the biggest scar in his heart and the most taboo thing for him.
The reason why he loves Lin so much is that he is afraid that without his protection, Lin and his children will come to a tragic end.
In order to avoid the same tragedy, Lin's children were taken good care of. First of all, Lin has his own yard and industry and has enough income to support himself and his children. Being rich, she won't be bullied by servants. Secondly, the reason why he secretly loves Wen Yanjing as the husband of Sheng Moulan is because Wen Yanjing has a good future and a poor family. Sheng Moran had a low marital status in the past and was not easy to be bullied. Finally, although Shengji looks at the studies of his eldest son Changbai, he also values the studies and future of his son Sheng Changfeng. To this end, he deliberately chose a good marriage and married a wife who could control him for Sheng Changfeng.
As parents, not letting their children repeat their own tragedies is actually a manifestation of love for their children. For example, some parents lived in poverty in childhood, so they have been working hard to make money and create good material conditions for their children after marriage. Some parents didn't go to college and suffered from lack of education. So they scrimp and save and provide education for their children at all costs.
It is with Shengji's blessing that Sheng Moran, an unmarried daughter, can live such a happy childhood. Not only does she not have to look at her mother's face, but she can also be at a loss. Regarding Sheng Moran as his daughter, Yi Sheng is undoubtedly qualified.
As for treating Sheng, in fact, he is not too bad. There is such a detail in the TV series that Yi Sheng works overtime in the palace, and Ming Lan comes to deliver meals to them in case of rebellion. At that time, Yi Sheng directly entrusted her father-in-law to take her daughter out to escape. It can be seen that in a critical moment, he still cares about his daughter.
In his eyes, his daughter is not a tool to cling to the powerful;
In Do You Know, when Yi Sheng chose marriage for his children, he inherited a value that personality is more important than family background.
When Shengji chose a husband for Hualan, there was a description in the original work:
Wang remembered that hard time, his eyes were red and his voice trembled. "At that time, I thought no one could be wronged. I'm not talking about climbing dragons and phoenixes with Hua Er. I only hope that she can marry a responsible man, and the husband and wife will live in harmony, have children in the future and have a smooth life. "
The reason why Shengji was elected to the Earl's Loyalty Palace is also very simple, because the Earl's Loyalty Palace is going downhill, so the children of the family are certainly not pleasure-seeking people in order to revive their family business.
"Yuan Gu again bad, will eventually be protected by a title. If the official career is not smooth, at least there is an uncle to attach to. If Yuan Wenshao succeeds, there will be prosperity waiting for Wall in the future. "
It can be seen from Shengji's mate selection criteria that he is really planning for his daughter's life.
He chose Wen Yanjing as Moran's husband because he saw that Wen Yanjing's future should not be underestimated and could lead Moran to a better life. Later, Sheng Rulan proved this. When Gu proposed to Sheng Rulan, Mrs. Wang only knew that she was very happy, but Shengji hesitated because of her previous reputation. Fortunately, he knew that Gu was his son's best friend and trusted his son's vision. After all, his son's character is so good that he will definitely not make friends with people with bad character.
As a father, although he loves face and is selfish and snobbish, he has his own bottom line, that is, children are not tools to cling to the powerful. He does not ask his children to be attached to dragons and phoenixes, nor does he ask them to help her family more. He only wants his children to live a happy and stable life after marriage.
A father who carefully plans his children's marriage and arranges a stable, reliable and secure marriage for his children is indeed a blessing for his children.
As a father, Yi Sheng knows that he doesn't want others to treat him like anything, and through his own experience, he draws inferences from others and holds up a sky for his children. Although he is cautious, he can have a smooth career and have his own real skills in it.
With a good father, children are often very promising, just like in Know Not, except Sheng Moran who is twisted by Lin Shuang 'er, all the other children in Sheng's family are very promising.
Yi Sheng's experience also tells us that in a family, not only the mother but also the father has the greatest influence on the children. In fact, father's influence is no less than mother's. The father is the pillar of the family, so it is necessary to support a sky for the children and provide them with a warm and healthy growth environment. Father is an example for children to learn. He should correct himself, be an upright, discerning right from wrong and diligent person, and point out the direction for his children. Whether parents' marriage is harmonious or not has a great influence on their children. Some people in fear of marriage are influenced by their parents' marital discord.
A healthy family is inseparable from the joint efforts of parents.