Since he returned to the army, he is still warm and considerate, and I found that things are not what I expected. Out of control, I found myself getting deeper and deeper. And when I realized the seriousness of the matter, it was because our mode of getting along began to become "cautious":
1. Cherish words like gold, and chatting has become a very extravagant thing.
Because he can't take out his mobile phone all day, correctly speaking, the army can't use smart phones. Every time he replies, I sneak into everyone's corner to reply briefly and then disappear. I took the initiative to look for him, and it took him several hours to reply, but every time he looked for me, I called back every second, and then I kept him talking for a long time.
He always offered to hang up when he called.
"I'm going to call the roll", "I'm going to eat" and "I'll hang up first", and I'll always say "OK, you go ..."
I put off my bedtime in order to wait for him.
I used to go to bed before eleven o'clock, because he called the roll at eleven o'clock and didn't rest until he came back. I will wait for him with ninja sleepiness, just to say a few words.
4. You can't video chat on weekends.
It's hard to get to their rest day, but the internet speed in the army seems to be limited, only a few tens of K, and it's impossible to video at all. Usually it is stuck in a certain picture for a long time, and there is no sound. You can only make a phone call quietly with the push-button mobile phone distributed by the army.
Even if I visit him in the army, he can't stay with me all day.
I flew to see him and couldn't pick me up because I couldn't take a vacation. I went to a strange place thousands of miles away and took a bus to the hotel. The army stipulates that you can only ask for four hours at a time and you must go back before six o'clock in the evening. It was supposed to be a three-day holiday, but he only stayed with me for two afternoons. He went back alone when he went back. Think about how brave I am. He fucking relieved me.
Why do you want to find a soldier to fall in love with when you are so bitter? Me neither. He found me, and then he accidentally closed his eyes. Who can blame? Jesus Christ.
The longer I get along with him, the more I find that he is a treasure house, which makes me discover new things that I haven't discovered before, which makes me very happy.
He is confident.
If you are not confident, you dare not chase a girl who is 1.7 meters tall and has a fierce personality. On the premise that he supports 175 (manual smile), although I always say that he is too short, he doesn't mind at all, because he knows where his advantage lies and won't be disturbed by these meaningless things, which is one of the reasons why I have a good impression on him.
He is full of passion.
I always use "overflow" to describe the love he gave me. Although he is not with me, he sends things online once every three days and buys snacks box by box. I said he deliberately wanted to fatten me up, but he kept saying "Look at you so thin". To tell the truth, although this statement is false, my heart is secretly pleased, so he got a nickname called "snack supplier"; One day he will suddenly say, "I won't eat tonight, I ordered takeout for you", and it's always two! People! Share! (smiling again) Asked him why he wanted to book two people, he said, "Isn't it because you are hungry?"
be considerate
When talking to me on the phone, a sentence suddenly popped up. Are you unhappy today? I said, "No, nothing." He said, "You sighed thirteen times on the phone today. Tell me about it. " I was so shocked that I didn't even notice myself. Another time, when I bragged to him on the phone about how good I was, he didn't talk on the other end of the phone. A few days later, I received a courier and opened it. That's a walnut clip.
4. A sense of responsibility and responsibility
After my first date with him came back, his mother asked him where he had gone, and he bluntly said, "I went to find a girlfriend." Quite brave. It is shameful that I dare not tell my parents, because I know that my parents' thinking mode is too different from ours, and there are many problems that cannot be explained and communicated, so the best way is not to say it, and he is so outspoken. Even though we just got together, he would still talk to me about his plans and our future. He has said many times that he will come back to accompany me after he leaves the army next year. Although I have never been sure about everything, and no one knows what will happen in the next second, I still choose to trust him unconditionally.
4. Very safe
Once I went to an interview and met a shady company. After the interview, I was dragged by the leader to accompany me to dinner. I didn't tell him about it at that time for fear that he might be worried. I didn't tell him until I came back in the middle of the night, and I didn't elaborate. I fell asleep because I was so tired. He called me early the next morning and severely criticized me. He blamed me for not telling him the first time when things happened, and chose to ask my colleagues for help instead of him. Because I couldn't find you, I was particularly wronged ... He talked on the phone for two hours that day, telling me how worried he was that I stayed up late, telling me that there were many rules in this society that you didn't know, and telling me about his experiences when he was young. Tell me how to deal with this situation ... this is the first time he called me this morning. It stands to reason that he can't use his mobile phone at this time. I don't know where he is hiding to call me, but his tone is very anxious.
Step 4: Up
I knew that he joined Wu directly after graduating from high school and had no higher education, but later I found out that he would study by himself in the army and like reading history books, just like me. Sometimes he relishes telling me what books he has just read and what stories he has learned. I always say that he doesn't eat human fireworks, because when I told him "good times", he replied "ah? Good times (four tones) Then I will take you to another home next time! " I told him "I am fat" and he replied "I love you when you are fat." There are many irrelevant fragments in our chat records, but I also believe that people who can learn are always very spiritual, just because they have never been in contact with them. If he knew this, he would definitely play better than me.
This relationship is a bottomless pit of exploration. We have become more and more accustomed to finding each other and relying on each other. From then on, when we fell asleep, your face was all in our minds. I hope our tacit understanding can last forever. I know I have to wait for him for a long time. Although I will still miss him very much, I want to tell him one thing every day:
"If you cherish me, I will follow you."
I wish it was you who always accompanied me, Bi Xin.