Don't take other people's children as an excuse, first look at what other people's parents do.
Children are human beings, with various emotional needs and need to be respected. Adults are only strictly disciplined, regardless of whether they are in charge or not. To say the least, they are absolutely correct. One day, children will be out of your supervision, and there will be times when you can't control them. Once no longer supervised, children will suddenly release a lot of emotions, many of which are bad emotions, that is, emotions and behaviors similar to "rebellion" that we often see. In fact, we can generally observe a phenomenon, but most naughty and rebellious children have strict parents.
Children who come out in such an environment are either timid or deviant. These are all pressures.
I brought it.
However, many times parents are not all right.
Think about it, do you want your children to surpass you or just a copy of you? The copy of ID card is not as clear as the original. Can you guarantee that the copy will be exactly the same as yours?
Every child has his own mission, he is only himself, and parents only need to provide their children with a good living environment and healthy and complete love. And he needs to develop himself with his own strength.
Less stress, more understanding! Come on! China's parents.
Of course, children will encounter all kinds of things that confuse their mothers when they grow up!
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