Life is four bitter ... who knows which four bitter?

From ancient times to the present, people often mention four kinds of sufferings: those that cannot be seen through, those that can't bear to part with, those that can't afford to lose, and those that can't let go. People often say that life is short, just to tell everyone that life is bitter, but there is joy in it. We should bear in mind that there are four kinds of sufferings in life, but at the same time, we should not forget the four kinds of pleasures in life. The first pleasure in life is to seek pleasure in suffering, the second pleasure is family happiness, the third pleasure is gratitude, and the fourth pleasure is to help others.

As the ancients said, there are three hardships in life: punting, while the iron is hot, and buying tofu. That was the difficulty and predicament of people's life in the past. There are also many opinions about the four great sufferings of modern life. I think in the final analysis, from a macro perspective, there are nothing more than two major sufferings: one is spiritual suffering; The second is the bitterness of life or work. From a microscopic point of view, I think there are four kinds of hardships in life:

Ku: I can't see through it.

You can't see through the world, the world is changeable.

Can't see through human feelings, and human feelings are changeable.

I can't see through prosperity, and prosperity is gone.

Two pains: reluctant

Reluctance, ignorance, is also a loss.

I can't bear to forget, but I don't know, what I lost can't be recovered.

Because I can't bear it, I suffer.

Three pains: can't afford to lose.

You can't lose your youth, because you only have one youth.

You can't afford to lose your life, because life will never start again.

But I don't know if I can't afford to lose, I have a chance to win more.

Four pains: I can't let go.

Cann't let go of the past love

I can't let go of what's in my heart.

I can't let go of my present name and interests.

But I don't know, so I put it down.

Life can be less troublesome.

There are four hardships in life: life, old age, illness and death.

Grass grows in autumn as long as it lives.

What people fear most is getting sick. No matter who is strong or weak, diseases are cruel. Without a healthy body, it is impossible to move forward.