Calm is a recent word. This refers to the calm degree of Mount Tai's collapse without changing color. He is calm, positive and decisive, but he is good at being worldly, winning without arrogance and losing with grace. Calmly describe a kind of courage. Calm is a state of mind, a state of mind and a state of life. Each of us needs this kind of mentality, so that we can take our time in life, be flattered, not be too excited and get carried away, and not be too sad and painful.
In fact, this word comes from Guangzhou dialect, and there is a saying called "Jing, Fu, Jing (leftover)" (it must have the same initial as Jing in Guangzhou dialect and be catchy to read. )
Calm is to describe an attitude. When something goes wrong, he is calm, positive and decisive, but in the world, he pays attention to good advice, winning without arrogance and losing with grace; Calmly describe a kind of courage. Move freely, calmly and calmly, watch the flowers fall in front of the court and gently shake the feather fan city head; Describe a principle calmly. Show no anxiety about people and things, tepid, pro-mean, smooth and persistent; Describe an attitude calmly. The condor is wearing an autumn wind on its back, as quiet as a virgin, and vanity fair is passing by; Calmly describe a kind of accomplishment. Benevolence without worry, benevolence without fear, seeking truth from facts, being open-minded and not arrogant; Calm down and describe an ability. Deep thinking can foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, introspection can advance and retreat, and then shoot when it is time to shoot; Describe a power calmly. Calm and calm, like a boulder blocking the waves, and perseverance is like a drop of stone; Describe an efficiency calmly. Steady and avoid its chaos, and practice with epiphany, such as being good at holding a knife, such as Lu Ban playing an axe; Describe a realm calmly. The forest in Lanzhou is not fragrant because there is no one, but a gentleman is virtuous and does not change his mind for embarrassment; Describe a life calmly. Life is like a pair of sharp reading glasses, it is difficult to be confused and awake.
When a person has experienced more, he looks down on everything and feels that he doesn't care about anything. When he has nothing to ask for, then when anything happens, he thinks it's no big deal, just an inevitable thing in life, then his heart is naturally normal and his brain is clear, so he handles things well. In fact, this is also a sign of maturity and a passive calm.
And what should positive calmness be like? Personally, I think it should be manifested as not panicking when something happens and always solving things fundamentally. This requires a clear head and a calm mind. Don't make things too complicated. Nothing is serious and incalculable. You know, the more nervous you are, the harder it is to do things. First, think about how this happened and how to solve it. Keep in mind that we must always calm down our lives with a positive and leisurely attitude.
Calm and calm is calm realism. Don't expect too much from the world, society and others. Knowing that justice may often be late, justice will always be relative and there will never be a perfect reality. Only ordinary people and fragile human nature may be divided and moldy at any time ... With this calm attitude, when you encounter grievances, misunderstandings and injustices, you will not be sad, blame others or feel sorry for yourself. On the contrary, it will bite the bullet and practice internal strength, "breaking the wall in ten years."
Calm down, calm down, is to fight and do something. Anything that is beneficial to the long-term construction of society and individuals will be done hard without interference; Things that are not conducive to the long-term construction of society and individuals should be done as little as possible.
Calm and calm is the principle of "three noes", "don't argue with heaven, people and things". Non-competition does not mean avoiding social evil, social corruption and the aggression of workplace villains, but choosing the most strategic method to achieve the greatest effect.
Calm and calm means to keep a good mood most of the time, "be modest and prudent, guard against arrogance and rashness." It means that I have a broader realm and greater achievements. After having a career, I have a better appreciation of beautiful things, watch a great natural scenery and watch a DVD with a high artistic level, which can adjust my calm tolerance and mood.
I remember reading a story in a magazine, which seemed to laugh at stupid people, but I think it can be innovated: "It's raining, everyone is running forward, and only one person is walking in the rain." Someone asked,' Why don't you run?' The answer is:' What's the hurry? It's raining ahead, too "
Therefore, whenever people are restless and anxious, it is a good idea to take a sip of this "calming and calming" medicine-just like this "fool" pacing in the rain, when everyone is running like a smart chicken, he calmly said, "What's the hurry? It's raining ahead! " The last thing he didn't tell you was, "I was just about to watch the rain!" " "
Peace is also a kind of happiness. Speaking of happiness, I'm afraid everyone has their own unique views. Nowadays, nothing is more popular than the theory of money happiness. Is money really happy? Not exactly. Money can buy books, but not wisdom; You can buy status, but you can't buy respect; You can buy medicine, but you can't buy health; You can buy clocks and watches; But you can't buy time; You can buy a villa, but you can't buy a warm home ...
Happiness is actually a kind of mood, a happy mood I feel. In this busy world, the anxiety of life, the pressure of work and the worries of family often make us upset and fidgety. (Life Feeling Sun) Desire is endless and hard to fill. People who blindly pursue fame and fortune rarely have happiness. Why not calm down and cherish what you have now, and maybe another kind of happiness will come naturally.
Calm is a state of mind and a state of life. It is the kind of calm and elegant feeling that the inner mentality has been cultivated to a certain extent. Calm people will be enthusiastic about their work.
They love their jobs and are dedicated. They will not complain about others because of the pressure of work, nor will they be depressed because of the level of their posts, nor will they be full of complaints because of the amount of treatment. They study hard and work hard. I will not bully my superiors, cheat my subordinates, or act according to the glances of my leaders. I won't speculate for profit, rack my brains and fight for fame and fortune by any means. They love their work, find happiness in their work and get happiness in their work. In addition, I think calm people will treat their feelings sincerely.
They will not change their minds because of the aging of their wives, nor will they be carried away by the temptation of society, nor will they do whatever they want because of their promotion. They are single-minded and have a strong sense of family responsibility. They will hold hands with their relatives and grow old with their children. They love to sing the theme song "The Most Romantic Thing": "The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you, and leave a little laughter to sit in a rocking chair and chat slowly later ..." It can be seen that a calm person will treat life calmly.
They can clearly realize the gap between ideal and reality. Don't aim too high, seek fish from the edge of the tree, and don't blindly compare with others and be vain. They pursue their own happiness down-to-earth, and live a life without competition, simple and happy. I am not so excited as to get carried away, nor so sad as to be in pain. Treat things calmly, without feeling humiliated or surprised. Calm people don't care too much about things outside, but stick to the road under their feet.
Calm is not mediocrity Ordinary people don't have much ability, just live a very ordinary life. Calm is a highly cultivated attitude towards life. Calm people have the ability to fight for everything they want, but they don't fully value it. Therefore, having a calm heart like water and a calm attitude towards life is another kind of happiness in life. Let's savor peace and enjoy the happiness we get from it.
Peace is a state. It is not easy to keep calm in everything. Su Shi in the Northern Song Dynasty admired this. One day, he realized that "eight winds can't blow" and was very satisfied. Send an old monk from buddhist nun to the other side of the river to correct me. After reading it, the old monk wrote a fart word below. Su Shi was annoyed and reasoned with Jiang Lai. The old monk smiled and added a few words to make him "get the hell out of Jiang Lai". You see, Su Shi, who is competitive, is a little less calm.
I think, in all fairness, reading good books should be the best starting point and shortcut. Generally speaking, a good book is the author's understanding of his own life; The accumulation of life experience. Reading a good book is like entering the author's inner world. Instead of having a heart-to-heart communication and full communication, appreciate the changes in the world and experience the taste of life. No matter reading repeatedly or opening a page casually, there will always be unexpected gains.
Tuesdays with morrie is such a good book-it has not only been on the American bestseller list for 44 weeks in a row, but also quickly became popular all over the world. The book describes Professor Murray's deepest understanding of life at the last moment of his life. He reiterated over and over again: we really don't need much, but our culture makes us pay attention to many practical trivial matters, and too many people are confused by it and lose their judgment ... in a word, people wake up.
"I always feel very shallow when I get it on paper, and I never know that I have to do it." To be calm, the most fundamental thing is to observe deeply, respect the experience, think repeatedly, and constantly correct your words and deeds. Confucius didn't read much, and Huineng, the sixth ancestor of Zen Buddhism, was illiterate, but they still knew the way of the world and taught calmly. In fact, as long as we pay a little attention, it is not difficult to find that there are many old people and friends with low diplomas but high cultivation.
To be exact, the key to calmness is to work hard around two points. First, sort out those unnecessary desires and discard them as much as possible; The second is to add a moderate top to your ambitions and goals. In this regard, Professor Murray spoke more thoroughly, alienating blind material pursuits, establishing a sense of social responsibility and caring for others. And advise not to try to show off yourself, people who are better than you still look down on you, and people who are worse than you will only envy you. Identity and status often make you feel at a loss. Only an honest heart can make you calmly face the whole society.
Everything is calm, which may be extremely difficult to do. However, through one's own perception and cultivation, it is actually a state to constantly pursue calmness and approach calmness!
In fact, we can also reverse the word "calm": lightness is a state of expression in the outside world and a fixed state of mind. A person looks at things lightly and unhurriedly. Most of these people have their own opinions and backbone; Similarly, a person who is not focused will be very calm about many things. It is the inner determination that weakens the thread. Therefore, if you want to be calm, you must practice from the heart. The so-called "Zen mind has been glued to the mud, not crazy about the spring breeze" shows that lightness and phasing are the cause, and lightness is the result. Do you think my analysis is correct?