Good feelings need to be managed.
You know, a good relationship is not only maintained by sex and love, but also requires responsibility, frankness and understanding. There is no shortcut to happiness, only management.
Both sides of the opposite sex should be able to speak and listen, and keep good communication at all times, so that their feelings can last forever.
It is said that love can only be met, but not foreseen. Since the future is unknown, then grasp the present, and in the accompanying days, talk well, communicate with your heart, love each other, and leave no regrets.
There is no shortcut to a good relationship.
It takes a lot of thought to communicate with the opposite sex, from strangeness to familiarity to understanding. In this process, differences are inevitable, and quarreling is not terrible. The important thing is whether two people can communicate well and finally reach an understanding.
Both love and marriage need to be managed with care, and both men and women should understand each other.
Be tolerant of each other.
As a man, if you feel that the other person is always complaining and strict, you can explain yourself to her; At the same time, talk to her more and think more about her efforts. As a woman, if you feel that the other person often ignores you and is not at home, you can tell him directly that you also need to care about your company; At the same time, think more about his contribution to the family.
Open your heart to each other
That's right: "communication is the first key to solve marriage problems, which can solve most marriage problems." When two people get along, if they have something to say, they will only deepen the contradiction. Only by opening your heart to each other and expressing your thoughts and needs directly will the two sides become more and more intimate.
Of course, communication is not arguing about right and wrong, nor openly belittling each other, but expressing it sincerely and equally, and then solving problems together. Whenever you have something to say and respect each other's thoughts and feelings, they are always United.
In this way, feelings will heat up.
Good communication is the most important thing
In the TV series "Please Teach Me for the Rest of My Life", the way Gu Wei and Lin Zhixiao get along is worth learning.
The relationship between Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue is natural. They have been together for four years, never falling in love, and never killing each other at the end. They all know how to express their feelings and are good at communication. At a party, a colleague joked about the relationship between Gao Tian and Gu Weimen, because they are very suitable for each other and good partners at work.
In this regard, Lin Zhixiao was very angry.
Gu Wei publicly announced that Lin Zhixue was his favorite person and explained that he and Gao Yi would always be colleagues.
Gu Wei and Linzhi School may have contradictions and misunderstandings, but they will also make things clear. Instead of any bad blood, they will be sweeter every day.
The two sides do not communicate with each other.
But the other party never noticed that the last two people were sulking.
It's very tiring to get along with each other repeatedly like this.
When two people are together, they are most afraid of having something to say, hiding their thoughts in their hearts, pretending that nothing happened and covering up the past.
As a result, the surface was calm, but the problems accumulated over time until they got out of hand.
In fact, many people won't say it, but sometimes they don't want to say it, and some things are hard to say.
This is how feelings are consumed. Don't say what you should say, don't ask what you should ask, and slowly exhaust your enthusiasm and trust, leading to the alienation of the two.
Men are actually very fragile.
There is a line in the movie "The Lost Girl" that goes like this:
"Two people love each other, but they can't manage marriage. This is the real tragedy. I deeply believe that love is important, but if you don't manage it with your heart, no amount of love will dry up.
In my opinion, the most important thing to manage a good relationship is communication.
When two people are together, they need communication to make love flow and get to know each other better.
On the other hand, without communication, there is no sense of security. Even if two people get along with each other day and night, they can never get close.