2. Correctly handle the relationship between love and study. Love is beautiful, it is an important part of life, but not the whole of life, it should be subordinate to the cause and promote the development of the cause. Only when a person has a successful career will the flower of love bloom more brilliantly and fragrant. Therefore, college students should put their studies first, straighten the relationship between love and study, and don't spend all their precious time in love and relax their studies. Love without research is like sowing seeds in the desert. Without solid foundation and soil, it will wither sooner or later. Only by combining love with study can love have a strong and lasting vitality.
3. Understand that love is a kind of responsibility and dedication. College students should know that love is not only taking, but also a kind of responsibility and dedication. In social life, people have two responsibilities: one is personal responsibility to society; The second is the personal responsibility to family, parents, children, friends and lovers. The second aspect of responsibility belongs to the nature of private life, which is the weakest area of life with social intervention, and is mainly maintained by good moral cultivation and conscious sense of responsibility. Because of this, it embodies a person's personality charm. Once college students enter the kingdom of love, they must have a strong sense of responsibility and dedication to work in order to obtain lofty love.
4. Be serious and single-minded in love. Love is the love relationship between a man and a woman. This relationship contains its own unique feelings and obligations. It can only exist between two lovers, and no third party is allowed to intervene. Besides, love is no joke. Both sides should treat each other sincerely, treat themselves realistically and treat each other realistically. Countless facts have proved that you will not be happy if you cheat love by cheating. In addition, once the two sides have established a love relationship, they must be loyal and single-minded; You can't change your mind. It is immoral for anyone to engage in love triangle and multi-angle love.
In the process of love, we should have more understanding, trust and tolerance, respect each other and make progress together. Love is the unity of mutual love. Both parties who love each other have their own independent personality and spiritual world, and they can neither completely rely on each other nor demand complete possession of each other. Love, like being a man, understanding, trust, honesty and tolerance are all very valuable qualities. Love often means giving. We should get to know each other, respect each other and give to each other. "There is no perfect person in the world", two people together is not a simple combination, we must accommodate each other; If you love, you should accept everything, including your shortcomings.
6. Face the problems in the process of love correctly. In the process of love, college students should treat it correctly, combined with national laws and regulations and school rules and regulations. Avoid unnecessary legal problems. For example, in a university, a couple quarreled over trivial matters, and the boy injured the girl in a rage. After that, the boy was expelled from school and placed in administrative detention for 7 days. This is a manifestation of not establishing a correct view of love. Eventually led to unnecessary trouble. It has left a black spot in my life and added obstacles to my future and future. Most young people in their twenties still look naive, full of dreams about life and easy to fall in love. It is not fully mature emotionally and psychologically, and it is easy to be used by some people with ulterior motives, which breeds many sad and hateful stories. In my opinion, in the face of love between men and women, we should first correct our own mentality, establish the proper character of self-respect, self-love, self-improvement and self-respect, never blindly pursue love, nor too hastily pursue love, but distinguish whether our conditions are mature or not. In the face of boys' pursuit, girls should be rational and not be confused by those sweet words. Don't think that if you pay a heavy love to others, you will definitely get the reward you deserve. You should get to know each other better. At the same time, in the process of communication, girls should guide boys to put more energy and thoughts on their work, do their jobs diligently, and strive to reflect their own values. Similarly, boys should rationally face beautiful and holy girls, and never pursue each other in a confused way, let alone judge a book by its cover. Focus on your career, be ambitious, pay more attention to your work, do a career, let yourself settle down first and be responsible for each other's love. This is the best reward for her. Only in this way can you feel more at ease when talking about love. If you don't even have the basic "hardware", blindly pursuing love may be more painful in the face of real life. Perhaps many people will think that both sides are willing to be together, and nothing is more important than loving each other. Life often says: "I don't care about eternity, I only care about having it." I think that in the face of a love, we should take a serious and responsible attitude. Only eternity is the most perfect pursuit of our life. Only in this way can we live more and more happily.