When giving birth, she suddenly seemed to wake up, and she felt very embarrassed. She can't wait to see the doctor again, but there are unfortunate times when she meets again. ...
I once met a pregnant woman on duty and entered the delivery room with the palace mouth open in the early morning. The fetus is a little big, and the labor process is not smooth. This is really difficult and time-consuming.
During the period, the nurse advised her to eat something several times and work hard to end the labor process as soon as possible. However, the pain has made her emotional breakdown, and she has been unable to listen to any kind words and persuasion, completely uncooperative, and even unwilling to drink water, and began to scold people.
First, she scolded the doctor for his poor skills, which made her unable to give birth after such a long pain, and then she scolded the nurse for standing by. Then she called her husband a poor wretch and made her suffer for having children. Finally, it rose to a social problem. Why discriminate against women, why only women have children? ...
It can be seen that she is a well-educated intellectual woman with accurate words and clear logic. Her stomach didn't hurt during the contraction, and she took time to scold for more than ten minutes, and she intended to continue to scold.
I'm worried about him. If she goes on like this, the child will definitely be in danger of lack of oxygen. So I yelled at her with a straight face: shut up quickly and save the effort of swearing. You are an educated person, and you don't know if you will spoil your baby after a long time. When you are finished, scold slowly. Now listen to my command, push!
I don't know if she is worried about the baby being suffocated or if she is afraid that I will lecture her again. In short, she stopped swearing and later cooperated with her efforts. She was just about to pull the nurse's hand when the baby was born and the nurse's wrist was caught in a circle.
It's over if we don't meet, but mountains and rivers will meet forever. See you in the rivers and lakes!
When my son reported for primary school, I found out that she was actually my son's head teacher! ! !
We were both embarrassed, especially when her face turned red in an instant. But soon we shook hands. ...
When you hear the baby's first cry, you have a new identity. Pregnant in October, I finally "unloaded", holding a soft little body and looking at the baby's pink and tender face, not to mention how happy I am. Do you think the suffering of pregnancy is finally over? Don't! Postpartum sequelae will follow ~ Let me give you an inventory of several embarrassing situations that will occur after childbirth. Are the treasure moms worried ~
First, breastfeeding.
For the sake of children's health, many mothers insist on breastfeeding. When you take your child out for a trip, it is inevitable that the child will drink milk and the baby will digest it quickly, with an average of two or three hours. There are not many maternal and child rooms in China, so it is inevitable to feed in public, and sometimes others will look at you differently.
Tips: At this time, it is recommended to suck out the milk and keep it before going out. If it really doesn't work, remember to carry a nursing towel with you to avoid the embarrassment of breastfeeding in public.
Second, galactorrhea
For breastfeeding mothers, there is a kind of pain called too much milk. A wet nurse with a lot of milk tends to overflow milk, and if she doesn't pay attention to her chest, she will be soaked a lot. If they wear thin clothes in hot summer, it will be even more embarrassing, especially for mothers who work outside.
Tip: You can prepare a chest pad for easy replacement to avoid embarrassment caused by wet clothes.
Third, urinary incontinence
Sneezing, laughing, climbing stairs and moving things may get your pants wet ... Who can understand Ma Bao's pain?
Tips: 1. Prepare adult diapers in advance to avoid accidents.
2. Later, when the body is almost recovered, go to the hospital to check whether the pelvic floor muscles are dysfunctional and do a good job of repair. This is a major cause of urinary incontinence.
Fourth, constipation.
"I thought constipation would be solved after pregnancy, but now it seems that I really think too much ~" A friend who gave birth to a baby complained to me. Many mothers are troubled by postpartum constipation and have tried many ways to solve it effectively. Postpartum constipation is actually caused by the weakening of postpartum defecation function of mothers.
Tip: Try to keep a light diet, eat more fruits and vegetables, drink more water to promote defecation, and do some exercise properly. If constipation is really serious, you should see a doctor in time and find a way to solve it.
Things that I feel embarrassed about having two children (such as skin preparation, internal examination, etc.). It's better to have children, but there are fewer or no embarrassing things after giving birth.
What embarrassing things will happen to women after childbirth?
In addition, the embarrassing things that women may encounter after childbirth include disinfection of side cut wounds, lochia accidentally getting on clothes and so on.
In short, postpartum novice mothers may encounter all kinds of embarrassing things, and it is recommended to treat them with a normal heart.
What kind of embarrassing things will happen to women after childbirth? I met a lot of embarrassing things after giving birth, and now I feel embarrassed in retrospect. If I want to have a second child, I really don't need to encounter these embarrassing things again. Below I will tell you about the embarrassing things I encountered after childbirth, but it doesn't mean that every mother has the same experience as me after childbirth.
1. Do not urinate for two hours after delivery. When the baby was about to come out, I used too much force, which caused a serious tear. After sewing, it still hurts. After returning to the general ward, the nurse asked me to urinate as soon as possible. I dare not exert myself because of the pain. Maybe it's psychological. After two hours, I still can't pee. At that time, many relatives came to see me, and everyone surrounded me, which made me more psychologically stressed. When the nurse came to make rounds and knew that I had never peed, everyone was very nervous. Dad Bao even got hot water to warm my stomach, and it took me a while to urinate.
I can't take care of the wound by myself. The morning after delivery, the nurse came to apply medicine to the wound and let the men out. It took 20 minutes to apply the medicine. It is difficult for me to get up. My sister-in-law stayed to watch the time for me, and when the time comes, she will help me take off the plaster. It was really embarrassing.
3. Severe constipation after delivery. After giving birth, I don't eat fruit and seldom eat vegetables in the hospital. No defecation after discharge. I finally defecated the next day when I got home, but it was difficult to pull it out. Coupled with the pain of the wound, I dare not work hard at all. I'm afraid that the wound will split as soon as it's sewn up. Plus, the toilet in my hometown is a squat pit, and my legs are numb when I go to the toilet. Finally, ask Bao Dad for help to solve the problem.
4. leaking milk. Leaking milk is an embarrassing thing when I am breastfeeding after delivery. When the baby is breastfeeding, the milk from the other breast will flow out. Clothes are often wet in the second month, and you have to change clothes several times a day. Later, I had to buy a lot of scarves and stuff them on the other side to stop the milk.
What kind of embarrassing things will happen to women after childbirth?
It's not easy to feel a woman. There is a saying that "be a queen for ten months and a slave for life." It is said that women who are pregnant in October are regarded as queens. After the baby was born, he began to take care of it. He has been worried about his food and drink all his life, his grades in school, his inability to find the other half when he grows up, and her unhappy life after marriage. If you have children, you have to worry about his children. This life revolves around children.
In the production process, we will encounter some embarrassing things. It will also be encountered after childbirth. What would embarrass a woman?
1, body deformation.
People often say that there is a difference between a woman who has given birth and a woman who has never given birth. I have met such people. He is always talking about others. Although she is so thin and in such a good figure now. Wait and see. After getting married and having children, her figure will be deformed. It is true that most women are deformed and bloated after giving birth, and may give up fitness in order to breastfeed their children.
In fact, it can be repaired by exercise in the future. Seeing a lot of stars in a short time can restore your body to before giving birth to a child.
2. The embarrassment of feeding in public places.
Breastfeeding a baby is sometimes really unpredictable. Maybe when you take the baby out to play, the baby will be hungry. You didn't bring milk powder or anything. If you can't find a mother-infant room again, it will be embarrassing to breastfeed in public places. Although many people advocate breastfeeding, some people think that breastfeeding in public places is indecent.
3, unconsciously became a "child slave", ignoring the existence of her husband.
I believe many women have this experience. After the baby is born, they take care of the baby wholeheartedly, but often ignore their husbands. This situation will cause the husband's dissatisfaction. It may even cause family conflicts.
As a friend of mine often says, "When I have children, I will leave them to my husband, and then I will continue to be beautiful." As a result, after my daughter was born, I saw that her daughter was so cute that I was captured by her unconsciously. I bought all kinds of beautiful clothes for my children and dressed my daughter as a little princess, and my husband's status dropped a lot directly. Her husband complains every day, only with the children, not with him.
In fact, it is not easy for every woman who has given birth to a baby. Children are important, family is important, and yourself is more important. Even after giving birth to the baby, she can still dress up beautifully!
I gave birth to two children and something embarrassing happened. It's embarrassing to think about it now.
I had a natural birth when I was the boss, but I had a few stitches. I have to go to the health center to have my stitches removed in a week. I spent the whole morning holding my child in my arms for fear that the child would be hungry. While waiting, the doll kept crying. I know it is hungry. I was really embarrassed to take off my clothes and feed so many people. I think it's my turn to wait a little longer. I can go home and feed soon.
She cried even harder, and finally had no choice but to feed her in the doctor's office. I feel that everyone is watching, which is embarrassing. Another time, while feeding my son, he suddenly sprayed me in the face like a fountain. I am out of my mind. What happened? They said your milk leaked. Oh, I see. On second thought, no, how can it spray? So this smelly boy peed and sprayed it on my face.
Although it is a natural thing to be pregnant and have children, women have actually made great sacrifices in giving birth to children, both physically and psychologically. However, being a mother is rigid, and many difficult things can be undertaken or solved, but some things can't be solved for a while, which brings a lot of embarrassment to women.
Common embarrassment of women after childbirth
1. Large deformation. Some mothers can get back to their former figure soon after giving birth, while others can't. In order to give the baby more milk, the mother eats hard, which leads to the postpartum weight gain faster than when she was pregnant. There are also some mothers who are pregnant for four or five months after delivery, but they are bigger than when they are pregnant for four or five months. Compared with before pregnancy, they are simply not the same person.
Lazy mother has a friend. The baby was born for 5 months, but his stomach never went down. One day, I happened to meet an acquaintance when I had something to see a doctor. On seeing a friend, an acquaintance directly asked: Are you pregnant again so soon? How many months? My friend said that I was really embarrassed and wanted to pretend that I didn't know the acquaintance.
I can't help urinating. Pelvic floor muscles can control urination and defecation and perineal contraction. Many mothers will cause pelvic floor muscle damage when they are pregnant and have children, and they can't control urination and defecation well, especially urination. As long as you cough a little hard, you can't hold it. When the weather is hot, they will give off a bad smell, which is particularly embarrassing.
3. leaking milk. After giving birth, there will be a long period of lactation. During lactation, Ma Bao often encounters milk leakage, which may be the nature after becoming a mother. Sometimes when someone else's baby cries, she will put milk, or because there is too much milk, and then her chest gets wet. It's embarrassing, too
4. The fairy turns yellow. Before pregnancy, she was not a delicate fairy. She dressed herself beautifully every day. When she stepped on high heels, she looked beautiful and healthy, which was really eye-catching and appetizing. After giving birth to the baby, I just walk around the baby all day, feeding and changing diapers all day. After the children go to bed, I have to do housework quickly. I can't sleep well, let alone dress myself up. I don't know where my old lipstick and skin care products have gone. I often forget to comb my hair when I go out, so I go out with such a henhouse. Like the whole yellow-faced woman, I dare not say hello when I meet an acquaintance.
How to solve the embarrassment?
1. Control your diet. For mothers who gain a lot of weight after childbirth, it is often caused by eating too much. In fact, even if they want to produce more milk for their babies, they don't need to eat or drink, as long as they follow the usual normal diet, but breastfeeding mothers tend to feel hungry. Ma Bao can eat more, eat less, or eat more meat properly, and don't let her go. Do some exercise indoors at ordinary times, keep your mouth shut and open your legs.
2. The problem of urine leakage. If the relaxation of pelvic floor muscles is not serious, that is to say, the leakage of urine is not serious, you can practice the action of lifting anus and abdomen at home, three times a day, 15 minutes each time, and keep lifting anus for about three seconds, so that the slight relaxation of pelvic floor muscles will be relieved, and you can also skip rope. If it is serious, you should go to the hospital for pelvic floor muscle repair. Many mothers don't pay attention to the re-examination 42 days after delivery. Let's focus on it from now on.
3. The problem of milk leakage. Milk leakage during lactation is inevitable. When Ma Bao goes out, he should bring as many breast pads as possible. If milk leakage is found, it should be replaced in time.
4. Clean yourself up when you are free. It is true that most treasure moms put all their energy into taking care of their babies, ignoring themselves and unconsciously turning themselves into a yellow-faced woman. Parents leave their babies to their families to take care of themselves, and if possible, relax and save your strength. If there is really no one to look after the baby, then don't be too persistent about the hygiene at home, just get by and leave some time for yourself.
For women, pregnancy and childbirth are indeed a great sacrifice, but this is not the whole of our lives. If you love your baby, you should also love yourself. Only when you have a good baby can you be better. Try to avoid those embarrassments that can be avoided, and don't care too much about those that can't be avoided. Everyone knows this.
The most embarrassing thing when you are pregnant is to take off your pants when you meet a male doctor or give birth to a child. As a result, a male doctor came in Don't think it's embarrassing enough to be pregnant these days. In this way, you will encounter more embarrassing things after giving birth.
Generally speaking, several embarrassing things will happen to women after giving birth.
The first embarrassing thing is leaking milk.
Most women will have colostrum on the day after delivery, and there will be more and more milk. The most embarrassing thing at this time is leaking milk. Whenever you hear a child crying, it will start to leak milk. Especially in the second month, many mothers will find that they will be awakened when they sleep at night, and then they will find that the whole sheet is wet.
Because in order to facilitate breastfeeding, many mothers don't wear underwear in the second month. Although they change clothes every day, the circle on their clothes is like a map, especially in the second month, many people still come to visit. It's still awkward at this time.
There is also the sudden leakage of milk when husband and wife live, which directly affects the relationship between husband and wife.
The second embarrassing thing is to wash your lower body after giving birth.
After delivery, whether it is a natural delivery or a caesarean section, the mother should clean the lower body. Because many mothers will be weak after giving birth, this job is left to their families. Especially after caesarean section, the lying-in woman can't move in bed, and her lower body must be cleaned every day. It will be embarrassing whether the mother-in-law does it or the husband does it.
A friend said that he had a caesarean section at that time, and his husband cleaned himself up. It was embarrassing.
The third embarrassment is breastfeeding in public.
Many times, the single ward in a hospital is limited, usually two or three rooms. At this time, if the child is hungry and wants to breastfeed, he is embarrassed to let other unfamiliar people go out, but he must breastfeed the child. So when breastfeeding, you can see many mothers lying naked in bed. Although sometimes there are no men present, strange or unfamiliar women can also make people feel embarrassed.
The fourth embarrassment is leaking urine.
Don't think that only mothers who have a natural birth will leak urine, whether it is a natural birth or a caesarean section. Because the body secretes relaxin during pregnancy, the pelvis will be opened for better delivery. After delivery, the pelvis will relax. As long as the abdominal pressure increases, it is especially easy to leak urine when sneezing or laughing suddenly.
The fifth embarrassment is postpartum constipation.
Postpartum health is particularly weak, so women are particularly prone to constipation. Many doctors will suggest that if postpartum constipation is serious, you can use Caselot for the first time in the toilet, which is embarrassing at this time. Because this thing must be used with the help of others, it often needs the help of the husband.
Almost all mothers will go through this, so don't take it too seriously. After all, it is the way to be a mother!
Embarrassed 1, may face the legendary embarrassing situation of incontinence.
Mothers who choose to give birth naturally can only come out, because the baby's head is forced out during childbirth, and doctors and midwives will tell you how hard it is. Therefore, because the baby is trying to get out and see the world as soon as possible, the mother is also trying to help the baby out, and in this process, it may cause urinary incontinence and even an embarrassing situation of defecation.
In fact, this situation is not a case, but a common situation in the production process. Mothers don't have to care too much. Giving birth to a child is not as noble and gorgeous as going to a wedding, and its posture is elegant and calm. The mothers in the delivery room are all the same, and no one has to laugh at anyone. In order to avoid the embarrassing situation of defecation during childbirth, mothers can go to the toilet to clean up before childbirth.
Embarrassment 2. You will face an extremely embarrassing situation of being naked.
I remember when Bao Xiao was born, he was delivered by caesarean section due to dystocia, and then he entered the operating room. A young midwife, who should be an unmarried girl in her twenties, looks very strong. Please tell me, are you ready? I'm going to undress you, I nodded. The girl quickly took off all my clothes and took off my necklace and ring. I was once in a state of extreme embarrassment.
Then, with the help of the girl, I lay flat on the operating table and instantly felt like a fish. During caesarean section, all clothes will be taken off, otherwise the operation will not be carried out. During the operation, the whole body of the parturient will be covered with disposable medical cloth, and only the parts that need to be operated will be exposed.
Embarrassment 3, you will face unexpected anal examination.
Before mothers are ready to give birth, a nurse will check their anus. Nurses with delicate features, softness and weakness are very hard, painful and more embarrassed when conducting anal examination. Moreover, anal examination will be carried out every once in a while, in order to accurately grasp the position of the baby in the mother's stomach.
Embarrassed 4. The embarrassment continues, just shaving pubic hair.
When Bao Xiao was born, when he was in the delivery room, he came in and thought the nurse said the man's family members should leave. So the husband and other male family members went for a stroll outside the delivery door. And silly, I still don't know what the nurse is going to do to me. The nurse asked her mother-in-law to help the parturient take off her pants and prepare the skin for the parturient. I thought I was going to cut off a piece of skin from my ass for later use. Haha, I feel so stupid.
It turned out that the nurse shaved off all the pubic hair in her private parts. This is the so-called skin preparation, full of embarrassment. Skin preparation is convenient for disinfection and suture of private parts, and it is also a production operation procedure to prevent bacterial reproduction and infection.
Embarrassment 5. You will experience the embarrassment of inserting a catheter.
Because Bao Xiao was born by caesarean section, she was unconscious under half-body anesthesia. When I entered the delivery room after giving birth, I asked my husband quietly, why didn't I pee for so long? Husband said, I peed a pot for you. I stared at my husband, full of doubts. My husband said to insert a catheter for you, otherwise where did you say the urine went? I was speechless and embarrassed, so I turned my head away.
My husband saw me turn my head to one side and began to tease me. Ah, some people are afraid of love. The doctor said it was a way to help mom shoot urine in time. Otherwise, the mother who has just given birth is too weak to get out of bed and walk around and urinate.
I was embarrassed to see my husband take my urine away in a jar.
Embarrassed 6. The anesthesiologist or midwife is likely to be male.
When I gave birth to Bao Xiao, when I was lying naked on the operating table, the midwife covered my body with a medical surgical cloth. Then, a young male doctor came over, called my name in a low voice and introduced his last name. He is an anesthesiologist and wants to give me an anesthetic. That's half-body anesthesia. Tell me what to do, and tell him immediately if I don't feel well. Seeing the male doctor, I was so embarrassed that I collapsed.
The anesthesiologist is very young, like a college student, shy and shy. Facing a group of women, doctors and me, I guess he is more embarrassed than me. When he thinks like this, the pressure, tension and embarrassment in his heart will be alleviated.
Embarrassment 7. You may curse because of excessive pain.
As mothers, we have all experienced the pain of childbirth, which will be aggravated with the arrival of the baby. When mothers are in extreme pain, they shout loudly, and some even swear at midwives or doctors. I didn't feel anything during childbirth. When I went to see a doctor after childbirth, I was embarrassed to recall my uncivilized behavior.
Embarrassed 8. The embarrassment is coming to an end, and another enema is coming.
During the pregnancy of a pregnant mother, due to the continuous growth of the baby, the mother's bladder will be squeezed, resulting in frequent urination. At the same time, mothers are also facing a common phenomenon during pregnancy, constipation. We all know that our intestines are more than ten meters long, and it is not a day's work to clean the feces in our intestines.
However, when a mother gives birth to a baby, it is not conducive to production if a large amount of feces remains in the intestine. Therefore, the doctor will use enema to quickly discharge the feces in the field.
Embarrassed 9, in the process of production, you will feel the feeling of heartbreaking.
When mothers give birth naturally, there will be screams outside the delivery room, and the crying of heartbreaking is getting higher and higher, just like playing an annual drama and giving birth to a child. In a trance, there is an illusion that the woman is possessed. If the director doesn't stop, we have to continue to play and cry.
After giving birth, it may be embarrassing to recall the painful cry when giving birth. However, this is human nature, and mothers don't have to be embarrassed about it. Moreover, doctors and midwives are experienced in battlefield production and will not make a fuss.
After labor pains, the pregnant woman finally gave birth to the fetus. I thought everything was fine, but what I didn't expect was a series of embarrassing things after childbirth.
Embarrassment 1: Urine leakage
Women will have different degrees of urinary leakage after delivery. This is because the enlarged uterus during pregnancy will compress the pelvic floor, leading to the relaxation of pelvic floor muscles. However, women's pelvic floor muscles do not recover well after delivery. Women will leak urine when sneezing because of the relaxation of pelvic floor muscles, or they will not be able to hold their urine when squatting down to press the bladder at the pelvic floor. Even if the pelvic floor muscles are relaxed, you may pee your pants because you can't hold your urine. Crazy is really embarrassing.
Embarrassment 2: leaking milk
Breastfeeding mothers will have milk because they have to breastfeed after giving birth. When the baby is nursing, there may be milk leakage because the mother's mammary duct is not completely sucked through. Especially in crowded places, when the milk is "fine", the leaked milk will drip on the clothes because the breast tube can't lock the milk. It is particularly obvious in the chest, and some people are particularly embarrassed to see it.
Embarrassment 3: spray milk
Mothers who have breast-feeding experience know that when the baby's milk is "refined", the milk will be sprayed out. When the baby doesn't eat, the two milks will be like fountains. You must press the nipples with your hands to stop the milk from spraying out. Sometimes if you don't pay attention, it will spray on your baby's face.
Embarrassment 4: "farting in the birth canal"
Due to the oppression of the fetus in the third trimester and the natural delivery of the fetus, women will have a relaxed birth canal. When a woman resumes her husband and wife's life, because the female birth canal is slack, there may be a fart sound in the birth canal when the husband and wife live, which is really embarrassing. This is caused by the relaxation of birth canal. If women want this situation not to happen again, they can prevent this blushing and ashamed scene by exercising the muscle elasticity of the vaginal opening.
Embarrassment 5: fart stinks
Because postpartum mothers need to breastfeed their babies, they are usually hungry and easy to eat. Some mothers will eat some meat for breastfeeding. If you eat too much and eat too much meat, your mother's intestinal peristalsis will slow down, digestion will slow down, and a lot of stool will be produced in the intestine. Flatulence produced in the process of digestion will have a bad smell when discharged through the intestine, that is, fart smell (or indigestion). If it is in a crowded place, it is a very indecent and particularly embarrassing thing.
Because of pregnancy and childbirth, Ma Bao's body will undergo many changes, and the pelvic floor muscles and birth canal muscles will become slack because of pregnancy, which will bring inconvenience to women's lives. Therefore, after giving birth, Ma Bao needs to pay attention to exercise the elasticity of pelvic floor muscles and birth canal muscles. If you are breastfeeding, you can bring a breast pad when you go out to avoid the embarrassment of leaking milk and wetting your chest clothes.