A junior high school girl, even suicidal, needs to take antidepressants regularly. Despite this, children's emotional changes have not attracted enough attention from parents, and they are even regarded as "doing" and "not wanting to go to school". It is reported that the girl's parents both graduated from top universities in China. A common mistake made by parents is to educate or even reprimand their children in the tone of "experienced people" regardless of their actual situation and psychological needs. In the eyes of parents, the child's performance is just "making a mountain out of a molehill", but in the eyes of psychological teachers, "this undoubtedly pushes the child to another abyss."
Children also have their own anxieties and troubles, and they also need to listen and understand. The crux of the problem lies in whether parents sneer at "teenagers don't know the taste of worry" or even criticize and ruthlessly suppress it in the name of "emphasizing worry for adding new words"
"Blue Book of National Depression in 2022" shows that 65438+30% of patients with depression are under the age of 08. 50% of patients with depression are students at school. The prevalence of adolescent depression has reached 15~20%, which is close to that of adults. Some studies believe that adult depression develops in adolescence. This is a shocking figure and a sad reality: there is an urgent need to care about children's mental health problems and keep them away from depression.
Although there is only one word difference between depression and depression, they correspond to completely different reactions: depression is a normal emotion, while depression is a complex disease. More importantly, mental illness is often more difficult to find and cure than physical illness. Stress will inevitably lead to depression, and long-term stress can easily accumulate emotions that have nowhere to release into symptoms. In this process, if you can't hear the individual voice, it is difficult for people with depression to open their hearts. With the growing gap between them and the world, a series of negative emotions, such as excessive inferiority and self-blame, will inevitably occur, and even go to extremes.
Recently, Zheng, a 24-year-old girl from Hangzhou, suffered from a large-scale internet storm because of her pink hair, which eventually led to depression and died. While saddened by the fall of teenagers in the flower season, many netizens are asking: Why are there more and more depression patients? Maybe we should ask: What should families and society do for this?
In the realistic context of people holding microphones, the influence of public opinion on individuals is deepening. Out of fear of being isolated, many people tend to believe the voice of the majority, and even blindly stand in line and shout for death. With the help of network megaphone, the lethality of network violence is often amplified instantly, and it is possible to attack anyone indiscriminately at any time. Sudden cyber violence can easily become the last straw to crush camels. Only by cracking down on cyber violence and guarding the civilization at the fingertips can we safeguard the interests of the public and ensure the healthy development of the Internet industry.
From the perspective of caring for teenagers' mental health, parents should pay more attention to their children's psychological needs and improve their emotional immunity through a harmonious family atmosphere. In real life, groups or situations will have a direct impact on individuals. Everyone is the "receiver" and "amplifier" of emotions. Parents want their children to have a better future, but if they can't respect their psychological needs and solve their growing troubles, they may be "defeated in the present"-children's mental health is more important than anything else on the long road of life.