First, establish good communication and trust.
1, establishing good communication and trust is the basis of cultivating children's obedience. Parents should keep active interaction with their children, listen to their thoughts and feelings, and understand their needs and requirements.
2. At the same time, parents should also maintain a frank relationship with their children, respect their rights and autonomy, give them reasonable freedom and responsibility in time, and establish a good relationship of trust and support.
Second, formulate clear rules and disciplines.
1, in order to make children obedient, parents need to formulate some clear rules and disciplines. These rules and disciplines should reflect family values and norms, and follow factors such as children's age, personality and background.
Parents should guide their children to abide by these rules and disciplines in a gentle and firm way and help them realize the consequences of various behaviors.
Third, cultivate children's sense of responsibility and self-control
1. Parents can also help their children become more obedient by cultivating their sense of responsibility and self-control. This includes encouraging children to take the initiative to undertake family tasks and obligations, such as cleaning rooms and packing school bags.
2. Educate children to realize the influence of their emotions and behaviors on others and learn to control their emotions and behaviors at an appropriate time.
Fourth, use effective incentive and punishment mechanisms.
1. Parents can also help their children obey by using effective incentive and punishment mechanisms. Incentive mechanisms can include spending time with children, praising and rewarding their good behavior, etc.
2. The punishment mechanism requires appropriate punishment according to the child's behavior, such as limiting TV watching time and deducting pocket money. When using punishment, parents should pay attention to avoid over-suppressing their children's behavioral autonomy and maintain a gentle and powerful way.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) children's behavior and psychological development
1. Children's behavior and psychological development are related to many factors such as age, gender and environment. Generally speaking, children aged 3-6 are active in personality and mood, and are prone to disobedience, irritability, crying and other behaviors.
2.7- 12-year-old children gradually form a sense of self and responsibility, and need more guidance and support from their parents; Teenagers need equal respect from their parents, give them more autonomy and trust, and pay attention to correct values and moral education.
Sixth, the importance of family education.
Family education is one of the important factors of children's growth, which directly affects their behavior and mental health. Good family education should pay attention to the creation of family atmosphere, follow scientific educational principles and methods, pay attention to interaction and communication with children, and respect children's personality and growth needs.