In today's society, the wind of comparison is extremely popular. No matter which age group or group, there is the psychology and behavior of comparing with each other, and the situation of comparing is becoming more and more serious.
Once the psychological needs of comparison are not met, it is easy to have frustration and inferiority complex. At the same time, I will feel stupid everywhere and not as good as others. Such negative behavior will inevitably have a negative impact on one's life, study and physical and mental development.
Blindly following the trend and comparing with others will make you indecisive and run behind others. In the end, you will only lose your way and yourself, which will not only waste time, but also waste money, distract your attention and affect your study.
Children, husbands, houses, cars, jobs, etc. Have become the object of comparison, even the cigarettes smoked, the wine drunk and the clothes worn have become the object of comparison. In a word, nothing can't be compared with people now, whether it's relatives, friends, colleagues or any kind of relationship.
This kind of mentality that you are superior to me and you are superior to me urges everyone to live in this comparison wind. No amount of knowledge and no amount of fame can beat these stereotypes, because knowledge and fame are also the objects that people compete for.
This kind of behavior of comparing and showing off wealth, behind satisfying vanity and supporting face, is bitter or bitter, and only oneself knows the taste.
Only by seeing through yourself can you be willing to let go and give up from the heart, no longer controlled by a false name, no longer bound by vanity, and no longer compare. You can live a relaxed life without competing with each other, and the pain of life is reduced by more than half. Only by living in this way can we have real happiness.