First, pay attention to the promise: a mature man will never break his word. He attaches great importance to every promise he makes. Before making a wish, he will carefully consider whether his words can really come true. If he could, he would never say, and his words would be carried out. Everything he says makes you feel at ease and trustworthy. A man with an unknown address, shooting at random and not taking action has nothing to do with maturity.
Second, don't talk big: a mature man never talks big casually. He will keep a proper silence and speak clearly but not noisily. Just drink a little wine and tell your story all over the table. You can hear it in half a room without a speaker. This kind of man will laugh at the audience at most, and no one will take your so-called "road to struggle" to heart.
Third, they are knowledgeable and reserved: they read books, accept new things and information, and constantly enrich their connotations. But they don't make public, their talents will only be displayed when necessary, and they will never deliberately show off to satisfy vanity. They are like mellow wine, the more you taste, the more delicious it becomes.
Fourth, broad-minded: mature men don't haggle over every ounce, don't covet petty advantages, don't care about small losses, and don't complain endlessly. Their eyes are never caught by trivial matters, and they are often "angels who turn back first" in small family quarrels.
Five, not self-centered: mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others. They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. All men "like me" are typical little emperors and have not grown up.
6. Dare to admit mistakes: Mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions and are good at adopting good suggestions. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their improper decisions and never make excuses.
Seven. Strong-willed: Mature men have the psychological quality of never being confused. Once they set their own goal, they will work towards it. When encountering setbacks, they will analyze the reasons, learn lessons and correct their direction in time, but they will never give up easily. They will be very tired, but after the rest, they will start with confidence.
Eight, clean and tidy: mature men respect their appearance. They keep the hairstyle that suits them best, their chins are clean without stubble, their faces are not greasy and they don't leave long nails. Clothes don't have to be famous brands, but they should be neat and generous, and they won't be wrinkled like couriers. They will never wear black shoes with white socks or travel in suits.
Respect for the old and love for the young: Mature men are caring, have a sense of social responsibility and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to the disaster areas, help out-of-school children and donate blood voluntarily. They may not do all these things, but they will never do nothing.
Ten, have hobbies: They are not robots who only know how to work, but know how to use hobbies to adjust their tense nerves, which makes them interesting. No wonder women say that men with hobbies are not easy to go bad.
Respect your heart. Real men don't need praise and affirmation from outside. He knows that life needs to face many choices. He will follow his inner voice and make a choice without hesitation. He is gradual, not blindly obedient and firm. He can control his fears. Fear can make people lose themselves and lose their peace. He can learn to face his fears through life experience, without escaping or being timid. And the result is not important, maybe win, maybe lose, but courage will make him stand up. He knows that accepting failure is a necessary condition for growth. Life is always a process of trial and error, and it is more meaningful to strive to promote the status quo. Failure is not terrible. It is sad to have a person who is afraid of failure. Because he put himself in the position of the weak beforehand. A person who is too cautious will not have a broad life. Moreover, failure can also test a person's reaction to difficulties, whether to cry or be optimistic. He is not flattering or bullying. A mature man will no longer shrink his dignity for realistic interests, nor will he yell at others by virtue of his position. He is kind, calm in speech, respects himself and others, does not flatter for the benefit, and does not scold the waiter loudly in the restaurant. He has a responsibility. It can make people have trust and dependence in interpersonal relationships such as relatives, friends and work. Responsible men make people feel safe and comfortable. Colleague, he can understand the balance of this responsibility: shoulder the responsibility and not live for others. He can control his desires. Desire is a nature. The desire for money, power, fame and fortune, and body is a nature endowed by God. But a man must not be influenced by desire, but must turn desire into an inner strength. He can honestly face these desires: pursue them, but not just live for them. He praised the taste of life. He knows the choice of a successful life, but there are many things worth trying besides this choice. Even if he is a billionaire, he can change light bulbs, do carpentry and prepare a rich dining table for his family, not just play golf. He is reading books on humanities, not only business management, but also enriching his personal interests while making money. He can finally accept life and death. Life is a doomed encounter, and when we meet, there must be a moment when the song ends and people end. A wise man is not afraid of his relatives and his own death. He knows that life should strive to live, smile happily, and face it calmly and peacefully when parting comes.