Students, we junior high school students are in the flower season of life, full of curiosity and lack of self-control. In the face of all kinds of bad temptations in reality, we are often at a loss and pay little attention to them, which is easy to deviate from the normal life track and cause regret. Therefore, it is necessary for us to learn to correctly analyze the temptations we face and grasp ourselves, so as to help us successfully spend the stormy adolescence.
Students, our world is rich and colorful, life is complex and diverse, and desires are diverse. Everyone's life will have many crossroads, many choices and many temptations. Will you recognize and judge? Can you handle yourself? Do you know how to refuse bad temptations? This is what we will learn and discuss in the second box "Learn to reject bad temptations".
Start teaching:
1, what is a bad temptation? (blackboard writing)
Bad temptations are temptations that affect our physical and mental health and hinder our growth and progress.
2. Why should we learn to resist bad temptations? (blackboard writing)
Case tracking: Xiao 12 years old, a first-year student in a school. He is clever by nature, and his character and knowledge are excellent. Last year, he won the first prize in the computer network knowledge competition for primary and middle school students in the province. Since he was addicted to online games in the Internet cafe, he has been drilling around in the Internet cafe every day after school, especially on weekends. He spends all day in the Internet cafe, and sometimes stays up all night with his classmates in the Internet cafe. He is very obsessed. When studying, the words on the blackboard and the exercises in the textbook turned into colorful squares and jumping pieces in the video game in his eyes, dangling in front of his eyes and lingering. Later, in order to play video games, he often played truant and borrowed money from his classmates to buy cards ... please think about it: what would happen if Xiao was addicted to playing video games? (You can also lead students to read Xiaoyu and martial arts novels on page p88 of the discussion textbook, and the teacher will analyze and explain them. )
(Students are required to copy) Because bad temptation will affect our physical and mental health, hinder our growth and progress, interfere with our career success, affect our happy life, and easily make us deviate from the normal life track. Therefore, we must learn to identify and consciously resist all kinds of bad temptations in social life in order to have a healthy and happy life, study and work.
Can we overcome the bad temptations around us? What psychological qualities do we need to overcome the bad temptations around us? (blackboard writing)
(Lead the students to read "The Story of Captain Odyssey" on page p88 of the discussion textbook, and the teacher will analyze and explain it. )
Legend has it that there was a channel witch in ancient Greece. She lured all the passing ships with her own songs and let them hit the rocks and sink. The wise and brave captain Odyssey bravely accepted the task of crossing the English Channel. In order to resist the witch's singing, he thought of a way. ...
○ What did Captain Odyssey rely on to get the ship through the channel smoothly? ○ What does this example show?
Captain Odyssey defeated the witch with his courage and wisdom and successfully crossed the channel. This story shows that bad temptations can be overcome, and it takes perseverance, courage, confidence and wisdom to overcome them.
1) to refuse and overcome bad temptations, we must first cultivate the consciousness of refusal, restrain ourselves, improve our judgment and exercise our strong will.
2) It takes courage and confidence to refuse and overcome bad temptations. We must believe that through our own efforts, we can completely refuse and overcome bad temptations;
3) Rejecting and overcoming bad temptations requires us to combine our own reality, give full play to our own intelligence, eliminate their interference and avoid their harm with a scientific attitude, a clear head and the right method.
4. What are the bad temptations we face? (blackboard writing)
In terms of enjoyment: we may face excessive pursuit of food, clothing, housing and transportation. We always want to eat better, dress better, live better, travel better and use better. This is normal, but if we excessively or even endlessly pursue food, clothing, housing, transportation and use, this is.
In learning: We may be tempted to have fun (for example, we want to watch TV or play games while doing our homework, and our classmates should drag themselves into gambling or engage in other activities that interest us). Because learning itself is a very hard work, and many of our classmates don't know enough about the importance and significance of learning, and they are not interested in learning. They always feel that learning is a bitter and tiring thing. I often have a headache when I mention learning, and I don't want to study hard. I don't concentrate in class, I don't finish my homework carefully after class, and I don't review my lessons well. As a result, the academic performance is not ideal.
In terms of communication: in the process of communication with others, we often can't correctly handle all kinds of problems that we may face. For example, in the process of interacting with others, strong curiosity and blind conformity psychology often urge us to follow the "group" to participate in various meaningless and even harmful activities, such as smoking, taking drugs, gambling, browsing unhealthy books and websites or playing video games. For another example, in the process of interacting with people, we often have the psychology of taking advantage of small things, which makes us often become unwelcome people, and even it is this psychology that makes us deceived and even go astray.
5. What are the ways to refuse and overcome bad temptations? (Writing on the blackboard) (Students are required to copy)
1) Consequence Association Resists Temptation: In order to strengthen our determination to reject and resist bad temptations, we can associate the bright future and future that we can reject bad temptations, and we can also associate the bad consequences that we cannot refuse bad temptations. For example, Lenovo can refuse bad temptations such as video games, pornographic books and martial arts novels. Study hard, get into an ideal university, engage in the work you are interested in after graduation, and live a happy life; We can also think of the consequences of not being able to refuse bad temptations such as video games, pornographic books and periodicals, and martial arts novels. Because we can't resist these bad temptations, we don't study hard, our grades drop, we fail to live up to the expectations of teachers and parents, we can't get into an ideal university, which affects our development and even ruins our bright future.
2) Asking for help (writing on the blackboard): It is sometimes difficult to overcome the attractive temptation on our own. In this case, we can ask others (such as parents, teachers, classmates, friends) to help and supervise ourselves to overcome attractive temptations (such as wanting to read martial arts novels, watch TV or play games when doing homework), so as to firmly refuse and resist bad temptations.
3) Avoid incentives and divert attention (blackboard writing): It is best to hide the physical objects that cause temptation, stay away from sight, or participate in active and healthy class activities, or talk to classmates more to avoid incentives and divert attention. This method is suitable for the initial stage of contact induction.
4) Decline friends politely and improve self-control ability (blackboard writing): When bad temptations come from friends (such as wanting to watch TV or play games while doing homework and asking classmates around us to join or engage in other activities that we are interested in), we can rely on our self-control, wisdom and certain skills to refuse friends' invitations and avoid their incomprehension and ridicule.
5) Take your own time and correct bad habits (writing on the blackboard): In order to prevent working overtime when doing things you are interested in, strictly allocate your own time and remind yourself of what time to do in different ways, for example, it is study time now, and study hard; This is exercise time, and physical exercise should be carried out; This is entertainment time, so you can properly carry out some activities that you are interested in and adjust your body and mind; This is a break. You should have a good rest. Do it at any time and get rid of the bad habit of being persistent in something and being late.
In short, bad temptations are like viruses. If you want to refuse and resist bad temptations, you need to combine your own reality, give full play to your intelligence, get rid of their interference and avoid their harm with a scientific attitude, a clear head and the right method.
Course summary:
Students, through our mutual communication and discussion today, we know how to distinguish bad temptations from how to refuse them. We believe that in the future life, we will be able to better grasp the direction of life, study happily, grow healthily and live happily!
Supplementary teaching materials:
1. Bad behaviors that minors are not allowed to have and their preventive measures:
Bad behaviors that minors are not allowed to have include: 1) gambling or gambling in disguise.