After long-term research, psychologists believe that childhood is the golden age to cultivate healthy psychology, and all kinds of habits and behavior patterns are laid at this time. If there is a good start, children's morality and intelligence will develop healthily in the future. If the child's mental health is neglected at this time, it will be more difficult or even impossible to hope that the child will have a sound personality and healthy psychology when he grows up. Therefore, parents should attach great importance to cultivating children's normal psychological principles. So what should young parents pay attention to?
What problems should be paid attention to in children's mental health education?
1) Don't care too much about children: caring too much makes children overly self-centered and thinks that everyone should respect him, and as a result, they become arrogant people.
2) Don't bribe children: Let children know the relationship between rights and obligations from an early age, and they can't enjoy rights without fulfilling their obligations.
3) Don't get too close to children: Children should be encouraged to live, study and play with people of the same age, so as to learn how to get along with others.
4) Don't force children to do things they can't do: children's self-confidence mostly comes from success. Forcing them to do what they can't do will only hurt their self-confidence.
5) Don't be too strict, demanding or even beating and scolding children: Beating and scolding will make children have unhealthy psychology such as timidity and evasion, and even lead to abnormal behaviors such as resistance, cruelty, lying and running away from home.
6) Don't cheat and unnecessarily intimidate children: scaring children will lose the authority of parents in their children's minds, and children will not listen to all warnings in the future.
7) Don't criticize children in public: Don't criticize or laugh at children in public in front of friends, which will make children feel disgusted and shy and greatly damage their self-esteem.
8) Don't praise your child too much: If your child has achieved something, give him some praise. Too much praise will make children infected with the bad psychology of fishing for fame.
9) Don't get emotional with your child: This will make your child sensitive and suspicious, emotionally unstable and timid.
10) help children analyze their own environment: help children solve difficulties, not replace them. Children should be taught to analyze and solve problems.
Of course, in order to cultivate children's mental health, we should not only give them a good education, but every parent should set a good example for them.
Main factors affecting children's mental health
0 1 motivation
Children constantly need and meet their own needs in activities, but occasionally they are frustrated. Therefore, children should have certain psychological endurance and simple skills to deal with mobile conflicts, so as to coordinate the contrast between mobile demand and reality and maintain a balanced mentality.
self-consciousness
Although children's self-awareness is immature and unstable, it has a great influence on their personality development and behavioral adaptation. Children usually know themselves, evaluate themselves and adjust their behaviors and emotions through the evaluation and attitude of adults, comparison with peers and success or failure in games and communication. Children with weak self-awareness lack foresight and skills to deal with setbacks and conflicts, and often have emotional and behavioral obstacles such as willfulness, aggressive behavior and withdrawal behavior. Therefore, we should strengthen the cultivation of self-awareness and protect children's mental health.
03 emotion
Anxiety and fear have a negative impact on children's mental health. Anxiety makes children doubt their abilities, exaggerate their failures, and are often in a state of tension and anxiety. Fear will cause drastic physical and psychological changes in children, and excessive anxiety will seriously damage children's mental health.
Approaches to Children's Mental Health Education
0 1 daily life education
Children's mental health education can be carried out in daily life, through giving guidance to children's education and behavior, combining with educational activities in health, society, language, science and art, and forming mental health education through family cooperation.
02 Specialized mental health education activities
Specialized mental health education activities are purposeful, planned and organized educational activities carefully designed according to the objectives and contents of children's mental health education.
03 psychological counseling and behavioral guidance
Psychological counselors provide the necessary knowledge through effective conversation, enhance children's self-awareness, give full play to their potential, help them overcome difficulties and pursue self-realization in order to achieve the goal of healthy physical and mental development.
04 Family Synchronization Education
Family is the place where children's life is socialized at the primary level. The consistency of education requires that kindergarten education and family education must be coordinated and synchronized in order to get the expected educational effect. Family synchronization is an important way to implement children's mental health and social adaptation education.
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