The work style of "996,007" makes contemporary young people dare to speak out. Many people complain about their work while moving on, because life is like this and they will not be tolerant of anyone because of their complaints.
The famous "28 Law" tells us that real wealth is only in the hands of a few people, and the root cause of personal pain is not that you can't get it, but that you have not accepted yourself correctly.
Pat Ting Hung, winner of the New Zealand Top Animation Newcomer Award, has been rooted in the original company for six years in order to realize his animation dream. In the past six years, she managed to stay in the company.
Unlike most newcomers in the workplace, her original goal was clear-she must make a career in the industry she loves. For this dream, she spent six years of her youth.
Besides working, she also studies cartoons in her spare time. What kind of operation can make the presentation of comics more perfect?
In the past six years, she has eaten, drunk and even slept in the company, and toiletries have been with her. She occasionally eats leftovers that her colleagues can't bring, and even her underwear is solved by the company's radiator.
In the eyes of outsiders, girls' behavior is full of doubts, because in the traditional impression, women can be considered excellent if they marry well, so many people can't understand the existence of strong women.
So is Ding Hong. When others were confused by her "weird" behavior, she persisted and persevered, and finally got the opportunity to study abroad and achieved something.
Therefore, success is everyone's opportunity, but only the truly successful people will know that it is no accident.
In reality, many people will look at the winners with admiration and envy. How dazzling the aura brought by success is, but the real winners are also abstainers.
They know how to measure the world, walk within the limits set by themselves, and never make deviant behavior.
Part of the reason why some people can't get on the road to success is that they don't have a comprehensive understanding of themselves, can't control their own advantages, always stop at the disadvantages and deny themselves, and will never get on this road.
High-income people in society especially know how to live in harmony with themselves. They dare to face their true selves and see their shortcomings.
Just like Pat Ting Hung, he will not stop because he has a stable job, but spend more time polishing himself.
Such people are often representatives of successful people. They have a certain degree of confidence, but they don't show it too much. When they realize their negativity, they can also handle it well.
More importantly, such people know how to avoid the influence of groups. Sociology tells us that individual behavior will be influenced by groups.
When we are in a group, in order to get that sense of belonging, that is, to fit in with others in our daily life, we will hide our personal thoughts to cater to the changes of the whole environment.
This is due to the sociality of individuals. Therefore, the existence of groups will inevitably stifle some characteristics of individuals, and we are more likely to lose ourselves in groups.
Many people really want to study hard when they are students, but they are afraid that they will lose the opportunity to be with the group because they focus on their studies, and eventually they will accomplish nothing.
This is because the individual's heart is not firm enough to coordinate the relationship between individuals and groups.
People who really know abstinence are not unsociable, but know how to leave the group from time to time. Everyone else has done it, but I am the most unique one.
We can't do everything as others wish, but we can please ourselves. Many people will set goals and plans for themselves in the early days of success, but they all end in failure.
This is because they have too many distractions in their hearts to see the finish line clearly. Abstinence is actually not as destructive as stereotypes. When you enjoy the rewards of abstinence, you will find yourself more and more obsessed with this feeling.
Therefore, those high-income people who are stared at by us all day have no innate IQ advantage, but they know how to control themselves better than ordinary people and become moderate abstainers.