Psychological characteristics of children aged 17.
Seven years old is an epoch-making growth significance for a child. At this time, if we carefully observe the child, we will find that the child has become a ghost spirit.
Usually adults' evaluation of a 6-year-old child is "He has gone bad!" For a 7-year-old child, it will change the previous view and become "he has been much better recently." Seven-year-olds don't need other people's care everywhere as before; Although I can't rely entirely on myself, I don't bother others and gradually know how to deal with things around me.
No matter what you do, you want to be appreciated by adults, so children in this period especially like to please people. This phenomenon seems to be the growth of a moral concept, but as far as the psychological development of a 7-year-old child is concerned, there is no formed moral concept at present. We can say that this is because of his strong sensitivity. He gradually learned to respect the authority of parents, teachers and other adults; Of course, some people may think that what the teacher says is absolute because they like a teacher, which is why 7-year-old children usually say "This is what the teacher said!" " "On the other hand, there will be fewer problems in the relationship between brothers and sisters and friends, mainly because they don't want to get into trouble, but they will deal with it in an evasive way. This phenomenon means that they know how to achieve good interpersonal relationships with goodwill. No matter whether the other party is kind or malicious, they will naturally take an evasive attitude for fear of injury. Therefore, 7-year-old children prefer to have their own time, and it will take a long time to finish one thing, whether it is sports, games or reading. Some adults may feel bad about this phenomenon, but they will say, "You are doing it again!" " "At this time, even a quiet and well-behaved 7-year-old child will have a strong rebellious reaction. They will gradually have their own opinions. On the contrary, the behavior of adults sometimes suppresses their thoughts. Don't suppress children's opinions at this time, because it can let them learn to be independent slowly. For example, let's not scold him: "You talk back again!" But to listen to their thoughts and ideas, so as to better teach them how to listen to other people's opinions. 7-year-old children will gradually have their own personality, and the guidance of adults needs careful observation and reaction.
Second, the seven standards of children's mental health
1, can observe things according to the requirements of adults, remember quickly, remember to live, remember right. Can summarize concrete and intuitive things. Willing to think, imaginative. I am good at asking all kinds of questions about things and phenomena around me, and I can also solve some simple problems in daily life and study.
2. Love parents, teachers and children. Can properly express their emotions. Be polite to people, use polite language, be compassionate and be moderately shy.
3, don't cry when you fall or get a little hurt, and don't be ridiculous when you lose the game. Not afraid of darkness and some strange animals.
4, do not meet their own needs and make excessive demands. Love labor and cherish things. I like growing flowers and raising small animals, listening to music, watching albums, singing, dancing, drawing and participating in various intellectual games, from which I can feel happy.
5. Be able to make a concrete and simple evaluation of your own behavior and distinguish between your own and others' things. Obey constraints. Accept criticism and suggestions from others.
6. I am happier when I am with everyone than when I am alone. I can abide by the rules and order of the game, obey everyone's opinions in playing, understand the feelings and needs of my peers, do not deliberately give trouble to others, help other children, and be happy for their achievements.
7, in front of the new environment or unfamiliar people, don't be too stiff and afraid. Don't ask children and guests for food. I can go to the store to buy some simple daily necessities, and I can walk alone on the sidewalk on the side of the road with a lot of cars.
How to educate children aged 37?
As parents, it is very important to help children overcome inferiority and build up self-confidence for their healthy growth.
1, we should cultivate children's independent ability and let them learn to manage themselves. Miss children's strength and ability, cultivate children's brave spirit, and let children get rid of the "psychological crutches" that rely on others everywhere and walk independently.
2, encourage children to participate in various social activities, create conditions in many ways, let children play with other children, play games together, accompany children to participate in social activities, so that children can adapt to activities in public places. Parents and teachers should help shrinking children overcome loneliness, adapt to the external environment and establish harmonious interpersonal relationships among friends.
Parents should not spoil their children, so as not to develop excessive dependence, nor be rude, so as not to make them feel uneasy and afraid of contact with others. Children should be encouraged to love the group since childhood, take the initiative to participate in activities with other children, and cultivate a cheerful personality. The kindness and self-confidence of parents and teachers will help children overcome personality defects and shape a cheerful personality.
4. Respond to the gregarious phenomenon of children in social activities, give rewards, gradually increase their social activities and overcome withdrawal behavior. After many social practices and parents' correct psychological guidance, most children who retreat can become cheerful people.
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