Girl, you are no longer a little girl. You don't need to ask who wants candy, and you don't need to like who for small gifts.
In the adult world, no matter what kind of lifestyle, there is a price to pay. In this case, you need to go all out to live hard, so don't wronged yourself again.
Writer Su Ling once said:
"At this age, no one wants to please anyone, and whoever is comfortable with them will be with them."
There are only a few important people in the rest of my life, so there is no need to waste emotional time on people who are not worth it.
In a certain period of time, it is necessary to split up, split up and clean up, and invite some people. Sorry, my inner world is too small for your position.
0 1 comfortable relationship, regardless of contact frequency.
The most comfortable relationship between people does not need to be deliberately pleasing or gregarious, but people who know you will let you be yourself.
When I came home for the New Year, I met my once very good friends. That was two years after this meeting. Although I occasionally call to talk about life, I don't often.
So I rented a hotel that day, and then I made up, went shopping, ate and chatted until I was very happy. My friend suddenly hugged me and said.
Great, it's been so long, and it hasn't changed. At that time, I teased and said, what do you want me to do, be cold and flattering?
You can also change it. If you want to tip, you need to control your facial expression. Very tired.
She suddenly smiled and said, dead woman, that's all.
"There is a canteen by the cloud" wrote: "The comfortable relationship between people is that they can talk all the time or at any time."
With such people, you can be relaxed and presumptuous, and you don't need to be too multilingual or cautious. It is enough to be with one or two such people.
Those who make you have negative emotions, entertain foolish ideas, and always attribute you to your own bad, leave decisively. Don't look back, don't miss it, even if you move forward.
San Mao said: the best thing about this relationship is that it is icing on the cake, the most precious, and it is important to stick to it.
Those who can walk for a long time are lucky. If you choose to turn away, I'm sorry, I won't stay.
Comfortable relationship, not seeking perfection.
Someone on the Internet asked: What do you think are the ways to improve happiness?
Someone replied: make more money.
Someone replied: find the person you like and meet love.
There is a highly respected answer: lower expectations of others.
If you always want to meet the perfect person, then I think you should try another planet.
Yes, because no one's life on earth will always be perfect, but always looking forward, hope will be invincible.
Little sister has a boyfriend who is very handsome and takes care of her. She always tries her best to create romance for her, rejecting all the opposite sex and not being ambiguous.
But there is one drawback, boys are not very tall. At this point, Miss Jie once thought about leaving. She was struggling at the time. The reason at that time was that she would call me and say that everything was fine except this, and she was with him.
I can also feel that my little sister has become happier. More lively and positive.
But that's her love. I'm not sure whether it's the same or not. My advice is: listen to your inner voice. But remember, girl, there are no perfect people in this world.
Later, because everyone was very busy, I didn't talk about the follow-up situation until I went home this year. She said he took her home to meet her parents. All kinds of care and giving her red envelopes made her extremely embarrassed. The two old people are very peaceful and considerate.
In those two days, the boys took her to see the scenery of her hometown, introduced all kinds of interesting things and ate all kinds of snacks.
She said: with him, she is very happy and comfortable, and she finds that she likes herself more. I didn't remember much in the middle. Just remember her last sentence: I want to be with him.
Miyazaki Hayao once said: Everything you meet is providence, and everything you have is luck. Why can't it be imperfect? Everything has cracks, and that's where the light comes in.
Treat people with moderation and have a ruler in your heart.
A person's life: three points smart, seven points kind to others.
When you get along with others, applaud those who deserve it. When they succeed, don't throw stones when others are in trouble.
There are no fools in the world. Your every move is taken seriously by others and kept in mind.
Once, I washed my hair and went outside to bask in the sun. Soon after, my neighbor's aunt came out to bask in the sun and said that someone with a Sichuan accent asked her for directions today, and she ignored others.
I'm a little confused: it won't be long before I can point the way, so I asked my aunt why.
Aunt lamented the past and said that when she was young, a Sichuanese had no choice but to come here. She felt sorry for him, so she gave him a lot of help, and sometimes she asked him to have dinner together after cooking for a long time. Rent him a house, the rent is very low.
His child had a high fever and had no money, so he lent him 500. She said: In those days, 500 was a lot, because she was in business, so she was free. After saving people, the man was very grateful.
However, after that, because menstruation did a good job and made a lot of money, the boys were very jealous. Not only did they not pay back the money, but they also stole the electricity from my aunt's house. They reconnected a line that was just an electric meter and skillfully used a machine every day.
Later, my aunt was surprised that she didn't use much electricity, and the electricity bill was always several hundred yuan. Finally, he went to check the circuit and found the boy's mobile phone, so that night, my aunt was very angry and kicked him out.
In the middle of the night, the boy refused, saying that she was short of money. Why was she so stingy? He had no place to go alone. How could she force him like this?
Two people talking, while cursing. The next day, the boy asked someone to scare his aunt with a steel pipe and a knife. At that time, she was directly scared to cry.
Aunt doesn't show weakness either. On the same day, she wrote his name+stealing electricity on the wide wall, and even went to the other party's work place.
Because my aunt is a local, some bosses I know are in charge, so I'd better find his leader directly and fire him. The job is gone.
Nobody wants to apply anywhere. Finally, my aunt didn't want him to pay back the money, just one request, and she moved away immediately.
Since this incident, my aunt has inexplicably hated Sichuanese.
I smiled and said, aunt, you don't have to kill Sichuanese with such a stick.
She suddenly raised her voice and said, I know, but I have a knot in my heart.
Zhou Zeng said: "jealousy is human nature. It is self-cultivation not to lose your temper or even retaliate because of jealousy. We can't suppress humanity, but we can achieve self-cultivation. "
When you get along with others, if you feel particularly relaxed and feel a real lesson in relaxation, I believe you must have met your kind.
End:
Stay with comfortable people, don't care about gains and losses, and don't pretend to be yourself. Don't be careful, just be yourself.
Please give me more advice for the rest of my life. I hope you and I can meet people who know how to be grateful, kind and understand you, and will not be embarrassed and speechless.