First, achieve something. The law of large numbers in making friends: your income is the average of the income of five people you often associate with. The upper, middle and lower rules of making friends: "Take the right way and use it wisely;" Take it, take it; If you take it, you will get nothing. "These rules and laws tell us a truth. When making friends, teenagers must follow the example of successful people and make good friends with cows, because cows have successful genes, and genes can be inherited. When you enter the circle of cattle people, their contacts, conduct, aspirations, habits and skills will subtly affect you, infect you, and finally make you a species like them.
Second, make friends with people in life. Emotional experts help you get out of the psychological quagmire, shoppers make you worry about food and clothing, music princes make your life full of joy, and legal and business consultants help you resolve family risks. If young friends can make such a group of people, the happiness index will be high.
Third, make friends with people who are willing to support you. In the process of young friends growing up, we need both the guidance of famous teachers and the help of noble people. Ken, an Australian, was Ma Yun's first nobleman. He made Ma Yun's English level. Without this noble, there would be no internationalization of Ma Yun. Finding noble people and people who are easily favored by noble people always complement each other. The following seven kinds of people are easily favored by nobles: grateful people, enterprising people, atmospheric people, people with strong innovation ability, people with high mobility, happy people and people who are not greedy.
Fourth, always stimulate your villain when making friends. On the road of young friends' growth, there is a kind of people who are small but important. They have an indecent name called "Little People". Why didn't Han Xin kill the butcher who humiliated him under his leg? It was because of the stimulation of the villain that his dream of being a general was realized. So when he came home in rags, he not only didn't kill him, but also thanked the villain with his official seal. Does each of us have this experience: the villain makes you stand on your own feet and be determined, the villain makes you uncomfortable, you will suffer, the humiliation of the villain will make you work hard, and the villain is your alternate friend for success!
The above four points are inevitably biased. I hope you can criticize and correct me, and welcome friends to share their views.