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"Good evening, Teacher Zhang! I didn't contact you for fear of disturbing you during the May Day holiday. I want to ask you one or two things about children's mathematics ... "
In the evening, I received Quan Quan's father's WeChat again. Looking at his expression of laughing with clenched fists after leaving a message, I seem to see his eyes full of ardent faith and hope for the future and Quan Quan's strange and moving smile.
I couldn't help laughing with relief. Quan Quan's father has become the best teacher for children, and Quan Quan's growth will take a new step.
one
All the students I sent to teach in 2020. I remember the first time I went to his house, I was in contact with him and didn't do much preparation. I just arrived at the village where my family was located at the appointed time according to the address provided by the school, but the phone couldn't get through, and it took several people to find his home.
Although I have seen many misfortunes of disabled children's families, my heart is still heavy when I open the shabby and humble door of the whole family and see a man of about forty years old walking towards me with crutches. Go over and say hello to him and introduce yourself. He responded to me politely with a smile on his face, but he couldn't hide his frustration and helplessness in his eyes.
After he entered the room, a child stood behind the door. He told me that was all. As I put the textbooks and stationery I brought on the table, I turned to say hello to Quan Quan, and immediately found out that this is a Down's son, but he seems to be more unfortunate than some Down's sons I have ever seen, because besides the typical Down's facial features, his eyes also have problems, the whites of his eyes are obviously more than ordinary children, and he is a little squint. There is an obvious oblique scar above his lips-the trace of sewn rabbit lips, which makes his face look a bit odd. I smiled and pulled him, and he broke free from me indifferently. Men tell me that they don't communicate with people, let alone strangers.
Every child has a world in his heart, but some children shut the outside world out. I believe they are all the same. All I can do is help him open the door to the world.
I learned more about the whole situation from my dad, and learned that the whole life can't take care of itself, and everyone needs to take care of it. Although I can have simple communication, my language ability is poor, my pronunciation is vague, my movement coordination is not good, and my walking posture is not good. I noticed that when my dad introduced me to these situations, his eyes were accompanied by a deep pain in addition to frustration and helplessness.
Children are the hope of the family. The whole father is disabled and needs a healthy child to support his confidence in life. Therefore, I understand his pain and am full of deep sympathy for him. But as a special education teacher, what I should do more is to try my best to help children change the status quo, give them a promising future and bring a glimmer of hope to their families.
So, I picked up the textbook, prepared to introduce my plan to send teachers to him in this issue, and also wanted to communicate with him about the whole education plan. I didn't expect him to wave his hand again and again, even a little angry ...
In this way, the first time I was sent to teach, I was rejected by all my fathers.
This is the cold shoulder I have never had since I taught.
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It has been several days since I was first sent to teach, and my father's strange face and painful eyes keep appearing in front of me. I know I can't stop there. I have a responsibility to help them. Parents are the most solid cornerstone of children's growth. Even if they are stupid and weak, children may make progress as long as their parents are optimistic. Therefore, in order to make all progress, I think the first thing to change is the whole father.
With this in mind, the next step is to act. I'll learn more about the whole family through various channels first. It turned out that Quan Quan's father, who suffered from polio sequelae, was a man who never stopped striving for self-improvement. He was physically disabled and determined, studied Chinese medicine, learned massage, started a business in the city, and lived a promising life once. But in the end, due to the hopeless treatment of multiple disabilities in Quan Quan, the whole mother ran away from home under pressure, and half the sky of the whole father collapsed.
He's unemployed, he can't move easily, and he's all stupid, weak and ignorant. The whole father who went back to his hometown had a negative life and a bad temper. He always loses his temper at home, and the elderly and children can only accommodate and tolerate it.