Based on our voluntary and active behavior, whatever we give you now or in the future is the result of our previous choices, and it is the responsibility that we as parents must bear for our own choices.
We promise that one day in the future, we will not ask you to give us some feedback because of your efforts, including: living in our way; Filial piety, supporting us and so on. Because if the purpose of our payment is to get some feedback from you, then the essence of our payment becomes a transaction. However, we have never discussed with you whether you are willing to make a deal with parents like us.
4. So, although your mother has gone through a lot of hardships to bring you into this world, your mother and I agree that we hope to always use this "new information" to remind ourselves whether our love and dedication to you are pure enough, instead of expecting the result and putting pressure on you.
Of course, we also hope that you will gradually understand that excellent qualities such as politeness, filial piety, modesty, sincerity, kindness and progress are the necessary and sufficient conditions for your own happiness, not an explanation for us. Theoretically, we are not qualified for you to give us any explanation.