Some thoughts about wealth, freedom, health and family.

What is real wealth? I deeply agree with one thing. Wealth does not mean how expensive luxury goods you can afford, nor does it mean how big a house with a lake view you can afford. It means that you have a harmonious family or friends, a healthy and energetic body, and the right to choose your career and arrange your trip freely.

Freedom, health and family are the three elements of wealth. If you are divorced from the above three elements, then wealth may be a thing of the past for you. No matter how much money you spend, it will be used by you to see a doctor and even destroyed by your uncontrolled social relations.

If I want to talk about sorting, I will choose freedom > health > family relationship.

The most painful thing for me now is to punch in on time every day, sit in the office and stare at the computer, obviously doing some work that I don't like or have no value. If you have the freedom of time and money, then you can exercise, you will have a healthy body, you can spend good time with your family, communicate with friends, and you will have a good family and social relationship. So freedom comes first.

The second is health. When you lose your health, your relatives and friends may all leave you, and even the best relationship can't stand the long-term care before the bed. When you lose your health, your body is no longer free, and you can no longer maintain normal family and social relations.

Finally, family harmony. Family harmony is probably the easiest thing for most people to achieve. However, the premise is that family members need to have a unified understanding of the concept of wealth. If one of them wants to meet in time and buy a lot of luxury goods, and the other really wants to use money to resist future risks, then some contradictions will inevitably arise between the two people. This is also the cause of most family problems.

There is a secret about wealth. If you are looking for timely satisfaction, it may be difficult to accumulate wealth. For example, some people get paid every month, and as soon as they get the money, they think about where to eat a big meal, buy beautiful clothes and go for leisure and entertainment. The biggest feature of these people is that they feel that the money they earn is used for consumption. There is no need to make reserves for the illusory life in the future, and there is no need to consider long-term plans. People should eat, drink and be merry in time. So no matter how much money such people earn, the final result is that they can't make ends meet. Earn 20 thousand a month, maybe spend 30 thousand on ant flowers and credit cards, earn 50 thousand a month, maybe spend 654.38+10 thousand on bank loans, which is an uncontrolled consumption.

Therefore, we can see that only those children who can delay satisfaction and are willing to endure 1 hour more in order to get two lollipops will have greater achievements in the future.

I hope everyone will have a correct attitude towards wealth and follow the correct wealth route!