For example, being an official is bound to retire one day.
Whether it is an honest official or a corrupt official, it is inevitable that it is difficult to adapt, from the crowded door to the lonely door. The land temple changed hands, and everyone naturally went to say goodbye to the gods, which was due to the atmosphere.
No matter how big an official is, he will eventually play the role of an ordinary person. I am afraid that he has developed the shelf and temper of a senior official, but he has lost the rights of a senior official and began to find that the faces of people around him are different from those in the past. My body is relaxed, but my heart is lost.
Without money and power, all kinds of problems come out.
If you don't work all day and lie down and wait for food and clothing, it must depend on your wife's face, and you probably have no dignity at all.
Therefore, many senior officials are full of energy no matter how busy they are at work, but when they retire, they are riddled with diseases.
Psychologist Eriksson believes that the main task of old age is the critical period of self-integration. When they look back on their lives and sum up what they thought was meaningful, successful and happy in the past, they will feel that their lives are full and meaningful. If you think the past is disappointing, you will fall into despair. If you can't fulfill your promise and achieve your goal, you will easily have many psychological problems. Retirement is a great obstacle to the psychological adjustment of the elderly, which requires us to pay more attention.
Retire. You have to retire.
Those who adapt well are those who have a lot of leisure and interest on weekdays. After retirement, they are happy to raise flowers and birds, play with collections and speculate in small stocks. Or those who love to do housework can never finish it, and time passes quickly.
My friend's father is a retired senior official, and his family is quiet on weekdays. One day, an old acquaintance with mental disorder visited.
My friend said, even if you are crazy, remember how rare you are.
My friend's mother said with a smile, only a psychopath can remember you.
I'm relieved to be able to talk like this.