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Middle age is an extremely embarrassing age, just like riding on a wall, unable to get up or down.
At this age, if you don't see through these three points, it is difficult to have a decent old age.
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When you reach middle age, hold on to your lover.
When people reach middle age, they are in danger.
But the biggest crisis is actually the marriage crisis.
There are reasons behind every unhappy marriage.
But there is a strange phenomenon, most marriages have cracks, and often occur in middle age.
It takes only three seconds to fall in love with someone, but it takes time to prove that you want to have a happy marriage with the other person.
Many middle-aged men began to dislike their elderly wives after they became rich.
Song Siming in Dwelling House has a successful career, a stable family and sensible children, but he is not satisfied.
Entering middle age, he fell in love with teenage seaweed, and his life has entered another track since then.
The excitement he sought was short-lived, but the pain he suffered was eternal, and all this was caused by himself.
I never envy middle-aged married men and women, but I envy the company from hair to white hair.
Middle-aged people's marriage is prone to contradictions and marriage breaks down.
Therefore, it is the most important thing for men to be strict with themselves, love those who belong to you and guard your happiness.
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When you reach middle age, keep your family business.
After middle age, keeping your property is more important than anything else.
Some time ago, "Anjia" was broadcasted, and the most impressive thing was Yan Shu and his wife.
Yan Shu and his wife make a living by selling steamed buns. They saved all their money to buy a house for their son, thinking of having grandchildren as soon as possible, and the name of their daughter-in-law was also written on the real estate license.
As a result, when they returned the rented house and wanted to move in with their son, their son and daughter-in-law ruthlessly kicked them out.
Similar stories are staged every day in real life.
People are unpredictable, and money is the real thing.
When people reach middle age, they are old and young. Heavy burden and pressure, overwhelmed by life, if there is no money, this is a very depressing thing.
I saw an interview before. A young singer who has worked hard in the music circle for many years was drunk and burst into tears. He said, I have lived most of my life, and I still haven't mixed up. I don't think about anything, and my friends look pale and powerless.
People reach middle age. Take it. Money lasts a lifetime.
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When people reach middle age, keep the bottom line.
Middle-aged man, hold the bottom line, or you will lose the happiness you have.
In the hit drama Thirty Without Nothing, no matter how good Gu Jia was, Xu Huanshan cheated.
Until the eve of the divorce, Xu Huanshan felt that Gu Jia was restraining himself.
He has fatty liver, and Gu Jia won't let him eat dinner;
Gu Jia didn't want him to get hurt, so he couldn't play football.
He felt that he was locked in a shell by Gu Jia, and he didn't look like a man until he met Lin Youyou.
Lin played football and ate with him, but she didn't consider his health and his career.
Xu Huanshan magnified the misfortune of his marriage and Gu Jia's control, so he didn't keep the bottom line of marriage, hurt Gu Jia and ruined his marriage.
Qian Zhongshu wrote a sentence in Fortress Besieged:
No matter who you marry, after you get married, you will always find that you are not married to the original person, but have changed to another person. ''
It is a compulsory course for every adult to manage their marriage well and keep their happiness.
In this life, if you want to live this life safely, you must abide by the bottom line.
When a man reaches middle age, the greatest happiness is to keep his family business, the bottom line, and the woman who has always paid for you and loved you, with no regrets.