Children's mental health education methods 1, establish a correct three views.
What kind of psychology a person has and what kind of life he leads depends entirely on his three views. In order to make his children grow up psychologically, it is necessary for parents to help their children establish a correct outlook on life, values and world as soon as possible, clearly tell him the truth about right and wrong and being a man, and never let their children go astray.
2. Provide a good growth environment
Meng Mu moved three times for Mencius' success, which shows the importance of growing environment for a child's growth. If you love your child, you should provide him with a good growth environment, a harmonious family, good cultivation of parents and the best family education.
3. Learn to regulate children's emotions
Parents should learn to adjust their children's emotions. When children are active, you should help them enhance their self-control. When children are anxious, you should give comfort and make psychological adjustment; When the child is introverted, you should help the child get out of the personal world and face the crowd; When a child is arrogant, you should adjust the educational methods in time and correct the inappropriate behavior habits of the child. ......
4. Help children know themselves.
People are self-aware, and one of the most precious assets in life is being able to know themselves correctly. Here, I suggest that parents should help their children know themselves, let them put an end to inferiority or conceit as soon as possible, and let them face up to their shortcomings and advantages and face life calmly.
5, more companionship
Pay attention to your child's mental health, you should give him more company and less punishment! A child's childhood is only once, and it is fleeting. How can we not study, play and talk with our children more and promote parent-child relationship?
10 tips for cultivating children's mental health: be careful not to care too much about children. It is easy for children to be too self-centered and think that everyone should respect him.
Tip 2: Don't bribe children. Let children know the relationship between rights and obligations from an early age, and they cannot enjoy rights without fulfilling their obligations.
Tip 3: Don't get too close to children. Children should be encouraged to live, study and play with their peers, so as to learn to get along with others.
Tip 4: Don't force your child to do something incompetent. Most of children's self-confidence comes from the success of doing things. Forcing them to do things beyond their ability will damage their self-confidence.
Tip 5: Don't be too strict, demanding or even abusive to children. This will make children have unhealthy psychology such as inferiority, timidity and escape, or lead to abnormal behaviors such as resistance, hatred and escape.
Tip 6: Don't cheat and unnecessarily intimidate children. Scaring children will lose their parents' authority in their eyes.
Tip 7: Don't criticize or laugh at children in front of friends. This will cause children to hold grudges and be shy, which will greatly damage their self-esteem.
Tip 8: Don't praise your child too much. Children have achieved results in their work, so it is good to praise them a little.
Tip 9: Don't get emotional with your child. This will make children sensitive, suspicious, emotionally unstable and timid.
Tip 10: Help your child analyze his environment. Help children solve difficulties, not replace them. Children should be taught how to analyze problems.
Ten taboos of children's mental health: First, avoid doting and doting.
Parents? Love your son, drown your son, and make mistakes? This is often a trilogy in which some teenagers go astray in real life, with meticulous care from their families, obedience and satisfaction of their children's needs, and more importantly, love from their elders.
Second, avoid favoritism and connivance.
In daily life, children do something wrong in public, but parents know it is wrong, but they shelter and cover it up for various reasons, which will inevitably make children unable to treat shortcomings and mistakes correctly.
Three threats.
Some parents try to be quiet for a period of time and cheat their children by making up lies. This is timid, and it is easy for children to imitate their parents and develop a hypocritical and dishonest character.
Four bogey satire.
Sneer at children, thinking it's okay? Enlighten? Progress is counterproductive. Children are psychologically immature and often don't understand their parents? Reverse excitation? .
5. No beating, scolding or corporal punishment.
In real life, some parents believe? Not if you don't fight? It is better to beat and scold than to convince others by reasoning. As a result, it not only fails to achieve the purpose of education, but also hurts children's self-esteem, which often leads to emotional opposition.
Six taboos are not focused.
Let children choose appropriate games and sports, and cultivate their ability to concentrate and concentrate on completing a job.
Seven taboos lack adaptability.
Cultivating children's ability to adapt to the environment is very beneficial to their development.
Eight taboos are out of control.
Children should be trained to control their emotions, including their unreasonable demands and wishes.
Nine bogey melancholy silence.
It is necessary to cultivate children's optimistic and humorous personality and avoid unhappiness.
Ten don't rely on it.