How do only children face their parents' health problems?

Last week was a week of ups and downs. In a week's time, I experienced a whole set of work, such as my mother was sick because of breast problems, seeing a doctor, being diagnosed, waiting for hospitalization, hospitalization, laboratory tests, surgery, and accompanying care after operation. I jumped from a novice to a proficient in taking care of patients. I took care of my mother with ease and composure. I chatted with my mother intimately without showing any anxiety or depression, which greatly stabilized my mother's mood and won the appreciation of my roommates and aunts in the hospital. When the small holiday came, I couldn't bear my father to come and go, not to mention he had to go to other places to meet relatives and friends. I stayed in the hospital for three days and nights. Good-bye. My mother should be discharged from the hospital. The clouds have opened, the wind is light and the weather is warm. I saw the sun, as if it had been a lifetime ago.

Yes, I am an only child. I also know that my parents are old and their hair is gray. My parents' health is my responsibility. I want to learn not only the skills of taking care of my parents, but more importantly, I want to exercise an inner heart that can judge and think independently when there is no one to tell. As an only child, my parents' illness may not be discussed. A lot of things need to be borne by yourself. In a sense, I am the eldest son and daughter of my family. I have to be able to afford it and put it down. I have to keep my word. In another sense, I am also an old man at home. I have to be coquetry, cheating and playing tricks. Of course, as an only child, we get more, and no one competes for favor since childhood. But his love for 3,000 people is concentrated on one person, and it will be the same when he grows up. Everything about yourself is the biggest thing in the family, and everything in the family is your own. From marriage to having children, he never left his parents' family. How big is the power, how big is the responsibility.

As an only child, what should I do in the face of my parents' health problems?

1 Listen to the opinions of professionals, such as doctors and friends of doctors. In the treatment of diseases, I finally formed my own judgment. Don't trust all the knowledge of unprofessional systems such as the Internet and WeChat, which leads to no professional basis for judgment. Because the only child has no siblings to support him, many decisions are more important. We must give full play to the professional knowledge of relatives and friends.

We should try our best to keep a cool head. The old man is getting old. We must face the fact that once omnipotent parents can't be more reliable physically and psychologically than themselves, so we can learn a lot from our friends and classmates and then comfort our parents with a calm and reliable attitude. Seeing their children's self-confidence, the elderly will have more confidence.

If work and time permit, try to take care of the elderly by yourself. In daily care, I can see the envy of other elderly people who are also patients. Many old people are only children, many are accompanied by wives or brothers and sisters, and there are not many children. Some of them are younger than me, but they have all grown up and worked. Some of them didn't come to take care of them because people thought their children were immature and couldn't take care of others, or some of them even went out to travel because they were not sensible (they couldn't get rid of it before). My husband and I both said-this child has a big heart! Taking care of children has many advantages. First, children are young and recover quickly even if they are tired. Secondly, children seldom communicate with the elderly. The old man is in a good mood when his children visit in the hospital, but he still likes the company of his children. Thirdly, if the daughter tells the elderly about her parents' shortcomings, it will reduce the psychological burden of the elderly's illness and make them less painful in the hospital environment. I think after the only child, there should be a kind of accompanying leave for parents who are sick, so that the elderly who have fewer children can be taken care of in their later years in response to national policies.

When taking care of patients, only children should also take care of their own health. Because no one can replace him, he should be stronger physically and psychologically, and don't collapse first, making his parents feel distressed.

As an only child, the future responsibility is great.

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