Mobile phones have become an indispensable part of people's lives. Whenever you want to turn on your mobile phone, you will unconsciously turn it on. If we use the software that comes with the mobile phone, we can see that we have to turn on the mobile phone hundreds of times or more a day, and the screen usage time of the mobile phone will probably be more than 8 hours.
Those who have babies at home are easily influenced by adults. As long as the baby has seen the mobile phone several times and knows that there are many good-looking cartoons or interesting videos on it, he wants to watch one all the time.
The first time the baby watched the mobile phone was because grandma thought it was fun to see videos of other babies dancing on the mobile phone, so she took the baby to watch it together. At first, she thought it was good to teach the baby to learn things. As a result, the baby began to look at the mobile phone bit by bit, just like discovering a new continent.
But for children, mobile phones are only exported unilaterally, and they are more eager for the company of their parents or family.
So we can do this:
When I get home, I will prevent my mobile phone from going to the locker at the door, and I will no longer hold my mobile phone in front of my children, especially when watching small videos, and I will laugh at it. The child originally wanted her parents to play with her, but she always expected her parents to watch the mobile phone instead of accompanying her. Then when he saw his parents still watching and laughing, he would definitely want to see his mobile phone.
Don't look at your mobile phone when eating with children. I have heard many parents complain to me that their children don't eat well when they eat, and they just want to watch TV or mobile phones. When I asked my parents, I found that their parents never left their mobile phones when they were eating, and they were too absorbed in watching them. At this time, they would not talk about their children, so they let go.
Parents should do what they want to have children. I have a friend who basically goes home without a mobile phone. They play games and read picture books with their children. Therefore, their children don't watch mobile phones, and they especially love reading.
If you can't completely ignore your mobile phone, make rules. For example, when I work from home, I usually have a lot of questions and inquiries that need to be handled through my mobile phone or computer. I can't look at my mobile phone completely in front of my children. At this time, I will tell the baby that mom will not work after 8 o'clock and concentrate on accompanying you. Before 8 o'clock, I watch my mobile phone for work, so the baby can understand me.
Moreover, the cartoons on the mobile phone or tablet are not without any benefits, which can be properly watched by the baby, but our parents should do a good job to help the baby choose high-quality cartoons. It is stipulated that you can only watch it for 20 minutes or half an hour at a time, and everyone does not look at the mobile phone when eating. It is necessary to make good rules. It's almost time. Remind the baby that it's time. You can say goodbye to the cartoon first and watch it next time.
In fact, compared with mobile phones or cartoons, babies want their parents to accompany them wholeheartedly. Sometimes the baby will tell me, mom, don't look at the mobile phone, don't work yet, play with me for a while, watching the mobile phone is not good for your eyes. Taking your baby to outdoor activities can make different light stimulate your baby's optic nerve, which is beneficial to your baby's vision development.
And playing games with friends outdoors will make children forget to look at their mobile phones for a while.
My child is five years old and has recently fallen in love with mobile phones. Even the second child, who just turned one year old, couldn't wait to get together when he saw everyone looking at their mobile phones. If he doesn't give it to them, his eyes will squint and he will start crying. As a result, he will eventually compromise with adults.
Personally, children always like to play with mobile phones, which is influenced by adults. You see, adults nowadays don't take their mobile phones home and lie on the sofa with their legs crossed. Even eating a meal and going to the toilet is holding a mobile phone. In view of this environment, it is difficult for children not to play mobile phones. After all, what children are best at is imitation.
If you want children not to play with mobile phones, adults must first quit their mobile phones and put them away at home. Don't touch them unless they call at work. There is no room for you to look at your mobile phone. It's only a matter of time before children can't see it and don't play with their mobile phones.
Thirdly, find something that children are interested in and fill their time. Adults want to do something when they are bored, let alone children. So after dinner, I took my children out for a walk, went to the community square to slide, played with my friends, and fell asleep when I got home. It was time to play with my mobile phone. Then there is the weekend when I'm still out. Don't stay at home all the time. It's easiest to play with my mobile phone when I'm idle. You can even sign up for an interest class.
In short, create an environment without mobile phones for children. Over time, children naturally don't like to play with mobile phones. If you hold a mobile phone in front of your child every day, the child's curiosity is the heaviest, and it is strange not to play. Therefore, don't do what you don't want, don't do it to others, let children not play mobile phones, and don't play first. Everybody right?
In today's society, mobile phones are a double-edged sword. On the one hand, it makes our communication faster and enriches our daily life. On the other hand, we are often addicted to using mobile phones, which affects our mental health, leads to apathy in interpersonal relationships and consumes a lot of precious time on mobile phones.
For example, a neighbor has a child named Xiaohong, who has always kept his mobile phone. He often watches it every day. The mobile phone is set to be turned on 24 hours, and he should put it on the pillow when he sleeps.
His WeChat and QQ are online 24 hours a day, and he often listens to music, watches videos, reads online novels, plays online games, brushes Weibo and brushes his circle of friends through his mobile phone.
Sometimes in order to play with his mobile phone, even in class, he often checks his mobile phone. Before going to bed at night, he often watches videos or novels on his mobile phone and watches DOS 2000th until one or two in the morning. He didn't get enough sleep, so he couldn't listen carefully in class during the day. He knows he shouldn't, but he can't help himself. He still plays mobile phone as always, and his academic performance, sleep situation and interpersonal relationship are all affected.
For children, mobile phones are very attractive, so what can be done to prevent children from falling in love with playing mobile phones? 1. Learn to control yourself
Children are used to checking their mobile phones anytime and anywhere. In class, in the dormitory and at home, they like to brush their circle of friends and play games. Under the supervision of children, children need to learn self-control and realize the harm of indulging in mobile phones.
2. Strengthen children's interpersonal communication
Let children get rid of their addiction to mobile phones, strengthen interpersonal communication with friends and classmates, establish friendly communication relations with people around them, and encourage children to participate in extracurricular activities, such as basketball, football and reading.
Once, TV was a tool for children to digest time. However, over time, the emergence of mobile phones has made children fondle admiringly.
As we all know, always playing mobile phones has a great influence on children's health, so what can be done to make children not play mobile phones?
1 change children's entertainment mode
If you want children not to play mobile phones, you must first understand why children are obsessed with mobile phones. It is true that children like to play mobile phones, and they undoubtedly like the colorful games, audio-visual programs and other entertainment methods in mobile phones. In the final analysis, it is still two words, entertainment.
Then why not start from the root cause and let children love health and entertainment?
Spend more time with your children and play games with them, such as puzzles, story toys, puzzles and other mental exercises. You can also take your children to do some appropriate sports, family basketball and amusement park projects, which can be actively tried in your spare time. You can also tell children stories and learn from them.
In short, companionship is very important.
2 lead by example and strictly control
As parents, we have to admit that many times we are addicted to mobile phones. Sometimes it's for work, sometimes it's a game entertainment project or a variety show on TV. Children have an imitative nature. If parents are addicted to mobile phones, it will naturally have a subtle influence on their children-mobile phones are fun and I want to play. As a parent, you should at least put down your mobile phone in front of your children and accompany them to grow up.
At the same time, electronic products such as mobile phones cannot completely prohibit children from touching. Quantifying in time every day can be a reward for mobile phone time and give children less time to play, which can also have a good effect.
To sum up, more companionship and care for children and more interactive entertainment can certainly prevent children from being overly addicted to mobile phones.
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Parents can observe what their children like about mobile phones in peacetime, and then find some substitutes for their children in life. For example, if children like to play games, take them out to play. If children like watching cartoons, tell them some interesting stories. If they find that children like to press the number keys by hand, they will buy them a toy piano and explore with them. These can help children quit their mobile phones very well. I hope it helps you.
As an electronic product, mobile phone has great attraction.
At this stage, many adults are still weak in anti-control of mobile phones, let alone children.
Children should not play with mobile phones all the time, which is also what most parents are eager to see. So what should they do?
What kind of person do you want your children to be? You have to be that person first.
This is also my example standard.
The game in the mobile phone is not outrageous. In communication between children and classmates, it is necessary to speak the same language.
Blindly banning is not conducive to children's interpersonal communication.
Set boundaries and let children learn to manage their play time.
Of course, this road is not easy and may take a long time.
This requires the joint efforts of parents and children.
Many times, children don't like playing mobile phones because they are too bored to find anything to do.
As parents, they can spend time with their children every week or every day and participate in outdoor activities, which can not only exercise, but also communicate emotionally.
It is said that children like to imitate adults, and I quite agree with this view. Children's learning ability is very strong. The main reason why children like to play mobile phones is that adults like to play mobile phones. Adults come home from work, each with a mobile phone. Long-term effects lead to children at home also like to play mobile phones. Therefore, the fundamental way to solve the problem that children don't like to play mobile phones is for parents not to play mobile phones first. There are two children in our family, so it is agreed that we are not allowed to play mobile phones at home except for work accidents.
First, set a time.
Every day when the children see me coming back from work, they go to my backpack to find my mobile phone, which is usually used to watch cartoons. I don't watch such a big TV at home, but I watch it with my head down. At this time, we can't directly scold the child for disobedience. For the sake of children, too anxious to express bad language will do some harm to children's body and mind. Before the child answers, we can stipulate the time for him to watch TV on his mobile phone, which is usually 30 to 45 minutes.
Second, parents set an example.
Parents are a mirror of their children, and they need to set an example for their children with their own behaviors, so we can't always pick up our mobile phones and stare at them to avoid their imitation.
Third, take time to accompany.
I spend most of the day in the company. Sometimes when you are busy at work, you forget to spend more time with your children. Children will also like to play with mobile phones. No matter how busy you are, you should take time to accompany your child to grow up healthily.
Fourth, find friends to play with.
There are more only children in the post-90s families. There is only one child at home, and he will feel lonely. When I have time, I want to find a mobile phone to watch TV and play small games. We can guide children to play house, pinch colored mud, pile wood and so on. With neighbors, children will not always want to play with their mobile phones.
Fifth, do housework during holidays.
Although this holiday is winter, the warm sun rises in the east, which makes us feel less cold. In order to prevent children from playing with mobile phones all the time, we should take them to do some housework, wash and bask in the sun during the winter vacation and prepare for the New Year.
Sixth, cook food in the kitchen.
If we keep our children busy, they won't have so much time to play with their mobile phones. Children are interested in the utensils in the kitchen, and we can lead them into the kitchen to cook delicious food: jiaozi, pizza and cakes that children like are good choices.
1. First of all, parents should stop playing mobile phones in front of their children and set an example for themselves. Otherwise, children will follow suit.
2. Distract children's attention, take them to read and write, tell interesting stories, and attract children to form habits.
3. Take the children for a walk, do outdoor activities and play with other children.
4. Encourage children to recite Tang poems, praise them after reciting them, and enhance their self-confidence.
Let children and adults do some housework together, don't be stingy with praise.
6. Be reasonable with your children. Playing mobile phone all the time will cause myopia, and it will also cause bad habits of procrastination, such as unfinished homework, staying up late in the morning, being late for school and so on.
First, don't seduce them in advance!
Just don't tell the children in advance, and I'll let you party with your mobile phone when you're finished!
Second, develop new activities for them.
For example, cultivate their interest in painting and singing and distract their attention!
Third, accompany children with love, not mobile phones.
Protect children, they are the hope of the future;
You should also protect yourself. Only when you are healthy can you be the most solid backing for your child!