The biggest advantage of not working is that I get the greatest physical and mental freedom, unwilling to retire, and confused after retirement. These are all problems of system habits. Once addicted to power, it's almost like taking drugs and whoring, and ordinary people don't want to retire early and quit.
At this time, the focus of your life will shift, from work to family, and your life circle will also change greatly. Most people will leave you, leaving behind old friends who have been tested for many years and true friends who have no interest in you. Although we don't have much contact, we don't always eat and drink together, but we are all worried. I'll say hello when I have the chance. As long as someone talks to you, you will feel very happy, just like winning a prize.
Then, you may be bored at home and sit on the sofa and watch TV for a long time. It is very likely that you fell asleep watching, and you woke up as soon as your family turned off the TV. Since you are sleepy, you can go to bed. As a result, you will be more awake in bed, and you can't sleep in all 18 martial arts.
If this doesn't work, find something to do, so you make a lot of phone calls and often look at the information on the recruitment website. As a result, you find that you are either too old, or your salary is too low, and you don't drink enough and smoke enough. You say to yourself, fuck it, I'm not short of money, so why bother? In case there is such an old acquaintance or friend, maybe he is pitying you, maybe he exaggerated your remaining energy and really recruited you under his command. In a few days, you will feel that it is not what you think. People don't attach so much importance to you or even ignore you. If you feel bored and bored, you will leave in despair for as little as a month or two, as many as a few days, and as many as a few days.
Let's go home and help my wife bring up the third generation. Most of them are very busy and have never enjoyed family happiness. In this way, you will find that taking care of children is not a pleasure in a few days. It's a torment, worse than going to work. Children shit and pee, eat and sleep, don't know the danger, don't know good or bad, and repeat tedious work. Be patient and control your temper, or you will be angry with you when you are tired.
This won't work, that won't work. Let's develop our hobbies and have some fun. We have lived for others for most of our lives, and we will live for ourselves for a few days and scratch our heads for half a day. Only then did we realize that books are rarely used, and even if you play, you have to be a little fancy. However, we don't know art calligraphy, we can't sing and dance, we can't write poems and compositions, and we can't use those tall words that we talk about all day at work.
After several years of thinking, collision and running-in, you have made great progress and are getting closer and closer to a qualified elderly person. You know that the small rights at work are given by others, and you are not born with them. People say they can take it back. Without you, nothing will be delayed. You are all ordinary people, which class is far from them. You were determined and gave up.
You understand completely that money is not everything, although it is absolutely impossible to leave money. I used to spend a lot of public money at work, but now I know that I have spent money and I pay attention to saving. I can smoke ten dollars, pay for dinner with my friends, and buy tobacco, alcohol, sugar and tea myself. In fact, you are not short of money, and you are not stingy with your own money, but there are fewer and fewer people coming and going, and sometimes there is no phone call for a day.
You have redefined your relationship with the world, with the people around you, especially with your children. You used to be devoted to your children and never considered your own gains and losses. But it's different now. You think you have given a lot to your children, but they are not necessarily reliable. You start to think about how to provide for the elderly by yourself, whether to live in a nursing home or stay at home, what to do if you are sick and what to do if you are single. Therefore, you think you must set aside some money.
If you think clearly, then you may become a qualified old man. You are young and good-minded, and you are indifferent to physical illness and death. You see, Qin Shihuang was so powerful that he swept the six countries and sent people everywhere to find the elixir. He died on the east patrol road at the age of 50. As for those words that fool you into being a late bloomer, you don't even want to hear them. Yes, Jiang Ziya became a famous figure in the 1980s. Chu Shi Jian started his second venture at the age of 75 and became a millionaire. At all times, there are many examples of sunset red, but can these examples be copied? Maybe someone can, you know, like us, forget it.
You have a regular life and your own arrangements. You can eat anything you like. If you can't do well at home, you can go to a restaurant to eat, what to lose weight and what to balance. If you love sports, you can travel. You can't go without love. Let experts discuss whether it is static longevity or exercise longevity. You can't care about anything Also, you can wear whatever you like, and you don't need to wear it. You can wear a suit, casual clothes, Hanfu, or even traditional Tang suit. I don't have a watch on my wrist, just a bracelet made of Vietnamese Huang Huali or Indian rosewood, and I rub two walnuts in my hand, or "dish". It doesn't matter if you are willing to say that we believe in Buddhism, and it doesn't matter if you are old and not serious. What are you afraid of at this age?
Many people quit smoking and drinking when they get old. Smoking is not good, but you have been smoking all your life. If you can quit yourself, you should quit. If you really can't, smoke less. There's no need to make yourself feel so bad. As for drinking, the boldness of that year is definitely gone. If you drink less, drink some good wine. Anyway, if you don't drink a lot of wine, it will cost at least fifty or sixty yuan. Otherwise, it must be blended, which is harmful to health.
It is a good habit to love tea. In this case, you can use a cup, and you can also come to a tea set if you are interested. You can drink slowly in a small cup to kill time. Of course, you can also play an aria of classical music or drama. What kind of tea you drink depends on your hobby. You can also take turns drinking green tea, scented tea, oolong tea, fermented tea, white tea and black tea. You think it might be better for your health.
You are always old, but you are always interested in new things, and you can accept and understand them. You also try to order takeout and Didi with your mobile phone and transfer money with Alipay. You can send pictures, transfer information, watch news and videos with old friends on WeChat, and fully enjoy the convenience and speed brought by modern technology to life.
In short, at this time, you have become sophisticated, calm, saint and enlightened. Congratulations, you are a "qualified" old man, and you may even become an "excellent" old man.