First, parenting education is very important for children.
It is very unscientific to educate children in colleges and universities. Parenting education plays a key role in children's temperament, logical thinking and habituation. Compared with teachers, parents have a great obligation to educate their children, and parents also have the right and obligation to educate their children well! If a student lives on campus, his life and study will be carried out on campus, and he can't get help or encouragement from his parents when he meets something. That way, the child will enter the link of independent life prematurely. I still don't quite agree with this practice. I think the common development and growth of parents and children is more conducive to the healthy and happy growth of children. Therefore, there are many teachers who do not propose that middle school students live on campus, and there are certain reasons.
Second, the quality of sleep of students living on campus is not good.
In primary and secondary schools in our country, there are 6 or 8 people. In other words, 6-8 children live together in a dormitory, so children's sleep is very easily influenced by roommates. For example, rest days, but some roommates study with flashlights on in the dormitory, some roommates are watching TV dramas loudly, and some roommates are playing games loudly, which will affect the quality of children's sleep, leading to a decline in children's sleep and no rest days.
However, if there is a contradiction between children and roommates, the adverse effects are usually more serious, which will also affect children's learning mentality. Moreover, sleeping in a dormitory with contradictory friends will not guarantee the child's sleep, which will also affect the learning state of the next day, which is very unfavorable to the child.
Third, it is very easy to cause bad temper.
Compared with the day students, the time spent by the students who live on campus with their friends has greatly increased. Day students will only stay on campus during study hours and stay at home at other times, but resident students must stay in colleges and universities 24 hours a day. If a child meets a roommate who is not very good, such as grumpy, strong-willed, and bad conduct, it is very easy to have conflicts, which will endanger the child's mentality, lead him to be unable to concentrate on his studies, and may also lead to conflicts such as fighting. This is what I don't want to see, so I suggest that students stay in school.
Children can't have this problem after school. After all, children are only on campus during the daytime study. During the study, everyone is tired of studying, and conflicts between students basically occur at night. If children are not allowed to live on campus, the contradiction between children and friends will be reduced a lot, which is conducive to children's long-term learning mentality.
If colleges and universities are close to home and children have the conditions to go to school, let them be around as much as possible and give them warmth and care.