A person's life can't be without troubles. The so-called "all the best" is just a wish of people, especially the middle-aged and elderly people in troubled times. When they encounter problems such as illness, wife's death, children's marriage, interpersonal tension, family generation gap, etc., they often make people feel depressed and fall into distress and loneliness. When we encounter such unpleasant things, we need to find a few intimate friends to chat and pour out our hearts to ease the temporary unhappiness and get rid of emotions such as excitement, anger, injustice, depression and doubt. Especially those who are introverted and depressed, it is very important for health to expose their feelings and get comfort from others. Practice has proved that chatting is of great benefit to people's physical and mental health, especially for the elderly, it can cheer up the spirit like playing the piano, playing chess, reading, painting, shooting birds and fishing, and it is the best way to eliminate loneliness.
Chatting is also a good opportunity to increase your knowledge. The whole family, old and young, or friends and relatives get together. Because everyone's knowledge and life experience are different, chatting together can exchange ideas and learn from each other's strengths. Literati of past dynasties wrote books, and many of them collected materials by chatting with friends or with folk people.
Chatting can also forget the turn of the year. Besides chatting with people of the same generation and recent age, you can also make friends with people of different ages and generations. Many harmonious families are inseparable from respecting the old and loving the young, enjoying family happiness, communicating the thoughts of generations and being willing to chat.