1. Training methods of daily life.
Get up on time every day. This seems to be a natural requirement, but it is not easy to really do it. On rainy days, weekends or other holidays, children will try to stay in bed. Getting up on time every day is very helpful for children. After all, among Socrates' many students, only Plato insisted on doing seemingly simple 300 times a day. It is no secret that success lies in persistence.
Do a boring thing for a long time. Liu Yiting, the mother of Han Fo's daughter, exercises Xiao Yiting's willpower by pinching ice; The daughter of the writer Chi Li meditates cross-legged and compares perseverance with children. These are all good examples. We don't encourage parents to use the same method, but parents can design small activities that are suitable for children and exercise their willpower, so it is better if children are willing to participate.
2. Learn life training methods.
When children encounter complicated homework and ask their parents for advice, parents may wish to ask their children's thoughts and his thinking methods first. If the child really has no clue, tell him the parents' thoughts and ideas, inspire him, and finally let the child get the answer himself. This at least sends a message to the child that it is the child's business to finish homework, and parents only play the role of guidance and help. No matter how difficult it is, no matter how to ask for help, children always have to solve the problem on their own.
3. Training methods of communication activities.
Let children learn to be tolerant with classmates and learn to be modest in small things. When arguing with your partner, you should convince others by reasoning. Don't think you are right, just because you can't tell others, you forget it or break off your friendship. When you get along with your partner, you should always reflect on your behavior, be modest, convince others by reasoning, and also need strong self-control and willpower. If the child can persist in doing it, then he will be very popular and have many friends, which is also very helpful for the social development of the child.
Parents should be patient with their children.
In the process of cultivating children's will quality, some parents may lose patience, especially when they are anxious and have heavy work. Thus, some educational principles and some matters needing attention in the cultivation of children's will quality are left behind.
Raising and educating children, sometimes adults have to pay a high price. They must put aside their work or personal needs, concentrate on their children's actions, observe his model plane, chew difficult thinking problems with him, and appreciate their clumsy way of folding quilts. ...
But after all, we are parents. We love our children deeply and enjoy the process of education. Therefore, be patient with your children and spend more time with them! Turn off the TV series you are watching regularly, try to stay away from your mobile phone at night, cancel some evening arrangements and spend time participating in children's activities. Children will regard you as an example of tolerance and patience. He will feel good about himself because he realizes that you are interested in him. The more harmonious your relationship with your child is, the easier it is for you to guide your child's behavior development in a mature way.