What should I do if my loved one dies suddenly?

In the face of the news of the sudden death of their loved ones, many people felt that their heads were blank and unbelievable for the first time, and then great pain began to hit. This kind of pain is hard to accept, and resist such bad news from the bottom of my heart. Obviously, one second ago, people's lives were so vivid, and the next, they were separated forever.

The death of a loved one is originally a painful thing for the living, because suddenly it is even more unacceptable. Such sad news comes too suddenly, and the comfort of others in a few words can't help you at all. Any difficulties and pains need to be faced by yourself, but I hope I can give you some advice and help.

First, if the pain is hard to contain, then vent it loudly.

My period left because of a sudden car accident. When I got the call, I thought it was a prank. My relationship with menstruation is like treating her as a mother. Her sudden departure made me feel extremely sad for a time.

I know that the pain can't be eliminated, only to vent happily. I am distressed that my menstruation died at a young age because of a tragic car accident. I am distressed that she will eventually suffer, and I am distressed that she will not let go of her concerns. Therefore, at the funeral of menstruation, I shed a lot of tears and cried for her injustice. Then I slowly let go and accepted her departure.

Second, if you are sad, let yourself get busy, so that you can let yourself go empty.

After the death of a relative, he has left, but the living still have a lot to do. If you just immerse yourself in sadness, it won't change anything. We should cheer up, give spiritual support to the remaining relatives and do everything we should do. In this busyness, we will find that once you devote yourself wholeheartedly, those pains can be temporarily removed.

Third, in the next time, in the days without relatives, we should cherish the good memories of the past and summon up courage to start a new life.

If the sadness of the sudden death of a loved one is fierce and undisguised, then the sadness of countless days and nights after the departure of a loved one is slow and only their own. The casual smiles and voices of others in life will also remind you of the people you love. Those memories are beautiful, but they are so unreal.

However, we will always remember those memories, remember his birthday, remember his appearance, and remember the past bits and pieces, which are irreplaceable wealth in our lives. In fact, death is not the opposite of life, but a part of life. As long as we have love in our hearts and good faith in life, although our relatives are not around, since we can feel him, we will never forget him and stay with us forever.

In this world, people who come and go in a hurry are just passers-by, and only relatives will stay in their lives forever. Whether they are with you or not, you should take care of yourself, for him and for yourself.