I believe many people know that there is a creative technique in China traditional art, which is called blank space. The so-called blank space refers to deliberately leaving corresponding blank space and imagination space in order to make the picture and composition of the whole work more harmonious and exquisite.
It can be said that a small blank space has created a big imagination space and endless artistic conception and charm. That is what we often call "incoherent."
In fact, not only literary and artistic works, but also we should know how to leave blank space in our lives. After all, there is no perfect life and no perfect person. In this case, learning to leave blank actively can add some charm to your life.
However, we must understand that the blank space in life is not to work hard, nor to be a defective person on purpose, nor to do nothing at a certain period of life.
The blank space in life is to let go at the right time and choose to quit when it is time to quit. Blanking in life can also be an indisputable attitude, a free and easy attitude.
Leave some gaps in your life, and you can also leave some space for your mind and some leisure for your life, so that you can relax after being in a hurry and still think in an emergency.
A person who knows how to leave a blank space in life will not be too hard on himself, because they understand that there is no comprehensive life, only happiness that is made and cherished; A person who knows how to leave a blank space in life must also know how to relax, because life requires us to slow down from time to time and look at the road we are taking.
In fact, everyone should learn to leave a blank in their own lives, so that life can be calm and happy, and we can better understand the true meaning of life.
When you get along with others, you should know how to leave blank space.
Everyone will not be a complete island, even the most isolated person, he wants to survive in society, it is inseparable from communication with others.
However, not everyone knows how to communicate well with others. Many people will get hurt in the process of communication and getting along with others, so that they are afraid of many people and get along with others. This is because they are afraid of eating and drinking, and it is definitely not worth the loss.
In fact, blank space can also be applied to the process of getting along with people. Knowing how to leave room for ourselves and each other in the process of getting along, knowing what to say, what not to say, what to do and what not to do will make it much easier for us to get along with others.
Many people get hurt in the process of getting along with others because they don't know how to leave room for themselves. They always trust others too much and like to pay blindly.
More importantly, we should also know how to leave room for others, because everyone has his own life and different characteristics, and we should respect this difference. In addition, if you get too close to the people you get along with, some problems may arise, because intimacy may also be a kind of pressure.
When you get along with others, you must know how to leave blank space. In a healthy relationship, both sides should have freedom of choice and buffer space, and their characteristics will be respected. The most important thing is that the two sides are completely independent people, and there is no question of who depends on who lives.
When we get along with others, we learn to leave blank. When we understand what we can't do and what we can't say, we won't get hurt easily or hurt others casually. Getting along with people will also become an easy thing.
In life, we must learn to leave blank spaces.
I have met many people who pursue comprehensiveness and perfection. No matter what they do, they are better than others. Whatever they get, they must stay ahead of others. Every aspect of life should be exquisite and perfect.
Let alone that such a life will make people feel tired. From a realistic point of view, no matter how powerful a person is, it is impossible to really cover everything. There will always be such disappointments and minor flaws in his life.
Moreover, such people will not give people a comfortable feeling, and such a life will not be envied. A truly beautiful life must be freehand brushwork and blank space.
In our life, we must learn to leave blank space, know how to be content, and not fight with anyone, nor fight with anyone. Just focus on your life and do your best. There is no need to strive for perfection in everything. As long as you are worthy of yourself, others and the world, who can say anything?
Don't live in tension all the time, relax when you should, and relax when you should. Easy and slow is the way of life.
To leave life blank is to be satisfied and to know how to choose. We can't be a perfect person, as long as we don't leave regrets for ourselves, the rest will be left to future generations to comment on.
The blank space in life is to know how to relax yourself and give yourself time to think. We should work hard all our lives and always understand the meaning of hard work. This is the role of blank space.