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? The Spring Festival is a time for family reunion. Before the Spring Festival, my family was busy, and I didn't have a holiday until the morning of New Year's Eve. In retrospect, I haven't had a good Spring Festival for four years in a row, and one thing after another at home always catches people off guard.

20 14 1 month, my father diagnosed colon cancer, and we had an operation on 65438 10/3. We are so busy that we can't tell the difference between East and West. Our two brothers took care of my father in the hospital, but we kept it from my mother. Father was discharged from the hospital before the Spring Festival, and we began to take him to chemotherapy every month. We think the effect is good, and he can run around by bike, and he has recovered slowly.

However, my youngest uncle died suddenly in June, 20 15438+0 1, which plunged my relatives into deep sorrow. The pain of losing a loved one can really be described as the pain of bone erosion. Before we got over the sadness, Lao Shen kept complaining about backache and leg pain, so we thought there was something wrong with the bone and went to orthopedics. I need surgery. After the operation, the thief was still in pain. The doctor asked me to transfer to the previous department. I had a vague feeling in my heart at that time. It is estimated that cancer cells have spread. After the diagnosis of the disease, the cancer cells really spread. It was already late. We chose to go home to rest and give up chemotherapy. At that time, my father's body could not bear the pain of chemotherapy. We went home in March and I started to work. In June, I didn't buy him morphine. Being strong makes me want to cry every time I think about it …

? Time shifted to 2065438+September 2006, and my mother felt nervous. We went to the hospital for examination and found that the old lady had rheumatic heart disease. In just a few years, I know the names of many diseases, some of which I have never heard of. The doctor suggested an operation to replace the mitral valve. We were going to take my mother to the operation, but my aunt tried to stop it. Because the old lady is too ill, what if she doesn't come for surgery? Mom insisted on not having surgery, and we finally respected her choice. I take her to the hospital for PT test every week. Now even I know that the medicine needs to be adjusted by looking at the indicators. 20 17 is a relatively stable Spring Festival.

? Now I feel more tired than ever. 20 18 seems to have played a joke on me. Since the first day, things have been happening. 20 18 10/3, my mother fell and broke her calf. I started going to the hospital. On the day when the company ran at both ends, the child also had a fever, but I couldn't take care of it. I was here all January. My daughter has the flu and has been taking medicine and injections for the whole month. She infected her mother-in-law and was hospitalized. I feel like I'm falling apart. I always keep telling myself that there is nothing important in front of life and death, so I should treat it positively and optimistically. What is this? Living is happiness. In this way, with the selfless dedication and support of my husband, we are moving forward.

I read an article on the Internet that we are now middle-aged, afraid of getting sick and having a good old age, and we are all living for others. I really feel our present state, and health is the foundation of everything. It is useless for people to compete for fame and fortune all their lives, and it is useless to earn more money without health. Without good health, everything else is useless, so I must cherish myself. I can face many things calmly now. The intrigue in the workplace now seems meaningless. I always tell my husband that everything else is just floating clouds. Only when we have a healthy body, nothing else is a problem. Remember, there is nothing important in front of life and death. We should face all problems optimistically, and cherish our health is our greatest commitment to each other!