It is often said that time is a knife to kill pigs. Unconsciously passed the 50-year-old mark. Facing the coming old age, some people still want to toss their lives with desire, while others silently prepare for their old age. Everyone has his own way of living, not harsh.
However, people who are still worried after 50 believe that life in their later years must be hectic. And those elderly people who want nothing are often more likely to live a long and healthy life. There is a simple reason. The less desire, the lower the starting point of happiness, and the easier it is to satisfy, while simple people often find happiness from life.
After 50 years old, we often have many new insights into life. Facing the glitz in life, we should gradually give up and trace back to the source. Life is actually very simple. After 50, we can get more happiness in our later years.
A spoonful of food and a spoonful of drink is enough.
When people are over 50, you will find that the delicacies outside are not as sweet as a bowl of porridge at home.
When people are over 50 years old, those smart people tend to reduce the frequency of social interaction and gradually return to their families. They began to give up the colorful wine shops outside selectively, which boils down to a simple reason. After middle age, people's health gradually declines, and those wines and meats are "poison" to a person who cherishes his body. Those meaningless social activities are instinctive rejections.
A person's desire can be infinitely magnified. It's understandable to be competitive for our life goals when we were young, but we are 50 years old, and neither physically nor mentally support us to continue like this. At this age, we need to gradually return to our original heart, not because we have lost the initiative, but because at this age, we pay more attention to spiritual satisfaction rather than continuous material needs.
How simple a person's life is, a spoonful of vegetables and a spoonful of drinks can be satisfied, and people gradually understand the benefits of poor tea and simple food after 50 years old. The best way to live in old age is to exercise moderately to make yourself indifferent and peaceful.
People often say that life is not easy. Yes, life is to constantly and dynamically adjust our state of life at every stage. By the age of 50, we need to learn to be abstinent and less materialistic. Only in this way can we have a high-quality old age.
Second, the beauty outside the wall is not as good as the love inside the wall.
When people are over 50, you will find that indulging in wine and color is really the greatest sin in life.
When I was a child, many people felt that they were very attractive, and they could attract all kinds of opposite sex on different occasions, so that the opposite sex was fascinated by themselves and could not extricate themselves. The scum wife at home doesn't know what you are doing, but because there are elderly parents and young children in the world, she can't bear to have an attack. And your wife's connivance didn't make you realize, but it intensified.
After 50, if you are still young, your married wife may find it hard to stand you any longer and choose to run away from home. You may have the idea of finally getting rid of the broken family, but after a long time, you will realize that our family has been kept in good order because of my wife's existence. Their departure has exposed all the problems of this family to the sun. The seemingly perfect family has actually been fragmented. Our home is gone.
If a person is over 50 years old, if his wife chooses to leave and his family is gone, then life in his later years must be miserable, and the root of all this is that we have stumbled over the desire for "color".
After 50 years old, people should have less lust and more warmth. We should take good care of our wife who has been doing housework for many years. Only in this way can we have a happy old age.
Third, competitiveness is not as good as quietism.
Many people are over 50 years old, but they are still like children at heart. They want to argue with others in everything, and their competitiveness makes these people impetuous.
After the age of 50, we are in the best balance point, whether it is family, career or health, and we need to be satisfied with all this. It is true that everyone wants to live above others, but after 50 years old, we really need to restrain our competitiveness, knowing that there are people outside the world.
If you are obsessed with this and are still busy after 50 years old, just want people around you to recognize you, then your life is not for yourself, but for others. Seemingly successful, in fact, it is overdrawing life, just for a few compliments from others. This life is meaningless.
End message
After 50, we need to learn to meditate. You have to understand that in this world, you don't need anyone's approval, as long as you feel satisfied. We should make positive preparations for the coming old age, instead of wasting time on others. Adjust your life direction in time, and your future life will be simple and happy.