Let's take a look at the words of the left-behind children, the heart of reproach: if you read this letter, I will probably be dead. I have to say, I am too tired to live. You wanted me to grow up when I was a child. What do you want me to lose? Things? Bring it back. Teacher's disappointment with me, classmate? Are you kidding? I have already despaired of you. Now, I just wish, more? Sleep? For a while.
It really hurts the child to see this passage. Is this an accusation against people or against the world? A fresh life ends in this way, what kind of thinking does it leave for the living? This is a child's despair of the world.
I didn't mean to blame the parents. Because I believe that if the child dies, parents can take his place, and the child's parents will not hesitate to take his place. It is true that parents' original intention is to think about their children's future, but there is no future without the present!
How to attach importance to the mental health of teenagers?
1. Active and passive parents should have high hopes for their children, but they should not expect too much from their children. They should pay attention to their children's advantages and talk about them, and don't make a fuss about their shortcomings and deficiencies. You can give children bad reviews, but you should master the degree and don't be a bad reviewer.
If the child becomes a person with low self-worth under your blow. He will be overly sensitive, and the slightest thing will make him have negative thoughts and even extreme sexual behavior.
When we always look at children in a positive way, we will naturally tolerate their shortcomings and their sense of self-worth will be improved. He naturally realizes his own value and will take the initiative to do something valuable.
Second, don't let love turn into pressure. Parents naturally love their children. Similarly, children naturally love their parents. Of course, they want their parents to be happy. They will unconsciously put the pressure of the previous generation on themselves. However, this pressure is likely to crush their delicate shoulders.
Third, ignore children's feedback. For example, when a child tells you something at school, you always deal with him absently or even ignore him. Of course you didn't beat and scold him. But for the child, he seems to be in a desperate situation, and he didn't get the response he deserved. If parents neglect their children for a long time, it is not good for them!
Fourth, let children feel love, not hate. Some parents do have conflicts, but they transfer all this to their children. Even if it is unconsciously transferred, the noise between adults will make children feel that life is meaningless.
Caring for a child's heart is more important than his body. I hope it can attract the attention of all walks of life. Teenagers' psychology has become a social criticism. Let's create sunshine and happiness together!