Under the background of exam-oriented education, it seems that the standard to measure whether a child is excellent has become the test score. A high score in exams is a good boy in the eyes of parents and teachers. If the score is low, you will become a bad boy who is ignorant and ignorant. So, countless parents, in order to make their children become? Good boy? Is this the way to educate children? You don't have to mind anything else, just mind your study, okay? .
Washing clothes, cooking, packing schoolbags, taking care of everything, saving children's time, and letting children only care about learning this thing, just to cultivate children into? High-end talent elite? . But doing so is harmful to children and themselves.
1, children lack creativity. Parents do their children's manual homework, and the children's parents are pointing. Nowadays, many families have parents who interfere too much in their own affairs, even to let their children go? Study? And finish these hands-on homework for children. But? Study? It includes not only doing math problems and memorizing English words, but also learning practical ability. Parents do everything, depriving children of learning opportunities and inhibiting their imagination and creativity.
2. Lack of self-confidence. The best way to gain a sense of accomplishment and self-confidence is to do one thing by yourself, but all things are done with the help of parents, and children can't move if they want to do it by themselves. How to cultivate their self-confidence?
I can't take care of myself. When children were young, they were not given life skills such as washing clothes, washing dishes and cooking. Live a life of reaching out with your mouth open. What should they do when they grow up and need to live alone? Who will teach them? Children live with their parents before college, and live in dormitories when they get to college. Their clothes are dirty. Should they be sent home to their mothers for washing and then sent back, as reported on TV? Children are used to being taken care of by their parents, and their own lives will not take care of themselves, which can only make their parents more worried.
4. become? Someone who needs it? . Now in society? Someone who needs it? Quite a lot. Countless young people with higher education don't go out to work when conditions are good, but stay at home and enjoy the care of their parents. Even if elderly parents get up early and work hard to make money, they are unmoved and think it is natural for their parents to take care of themselves. Have no sense of responsibility, even become social? Parasites? . This phenomenon is caused by parents' failure to educate their children.